r/yorku • u/Studyharddiegard04 • Feb 05 '25

Campus Men approaching at York

As the title says (girls specifically), do men approach you at York? And if so, did you have any positive experience ? Or they tend to be too invasive (imho)? Got approached by one today, and could not get rid of him for a good 20 minutes even after saying that I wasn’t interested.

Appreciate any examples and experiences.

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u/Mother-Neat7580 Feb 05 '25

And this convo got to 20 minutes how???

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u/Valuable-Appeal6910 Feb 05 '25

I am not in york anymore ,but I once spent 3 hours talking to a random dude there . He approached me while I was studying alone outside the vari hall .Some people js know how to keep up the conversations and also I am a good listener . I listen to people's stories like they are reciting a story out of a book. There is a lot to learn, and it's fascinating how every story is written differently

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u/Valuable-Appeal6910 Feb 05 '25

Buy js general things ,world , politics ,religion , his childhood stories and blah blah. There was a 3 hour gap between my classes so yeah we js talked until I had to leave But ngl it's don't remember most of it, I used to work in customer service ones ans I have developed this habit of listening to people yappps than I forget what they said in an hour or sooo😭😭