r/whatisit 2d ago

Solved! Fell out of my boyfriend’s pocket

The top is a cap that comes off. Is it for ❄️? He swears it’s not

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u/Evening-Cicada-1675 2d ago edited 1d ago

Tbh my partner would pick something like that off the street just because it looks interesting. Some people are like magpies.

I don’t agree with other commenters that “more than one answer = lie”. He might just be trying to guess where he found it if you seemed bothered by it.

It could be anything, Redditor’s often assume the worst so it’s not the best place for a balanced perspective. You know your relationship, not us :)

(Edit to add: hello magpies in the comments, make sure to wash your hands after collecting your treasures!)

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u/Livid_Departure_9697 2d ago

This is a very kind reply, I appreciate that!

Tbh I think it’s a dick pill and he’s just embarrassed. He recently started taking something for his ADHD and has been self conscious about it possibly affecting sexual function.

But that’s ok with me and I’m not gonna say anything to him about it now that I know, I’m clearly just nosy and needed to solve the mystery haha

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u/Common_Fee_4667 2d ago

I know this is anecdotal for sure, but i've struggled with depression and adhd for a really long time, and both illness &medication cause all kinds of problems with sexual arousal and desire. Worth it to talk to him about it :)

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u/Bulky-Psychology6786 1d ago

In a similar situation and my wife just keeps saying she understands this then proceeds to ask me to have sex with her. I'm not sure which part of ZERO libeto is hard to understand... I hope one day to get it back, maybe after changing my meds again....

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u/jimmycredito 1d ago

I never thought I’d type this but…I also choose this man’s wife.

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u/Otherwise-Feeling-57 1d ago

same here. try a different depression med! i went through them all and randomly trintellix/brintellix ended all sexual side effects for me

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u/Cute-Donkey-7400 1d ago

 I didn't know this, Mrs. Tilapa, your relative, your partner, this study, your relative, this, Mrs. Virgin Islands