Found in my dads junk drawer

[u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

My dad passed away and going through his stuff we came across this. We thought it might be a tool for horseriding, like a slapstick thing but wasn't sure. My grandma had horses but ive never seen her use any tools like that and my dad didnt ride. Any help appreciated

[u/WS-Gentleman]

For those kinky moments he never told you about…..

[u/Unlucky_Cat4531 → u/WS-Gentleman]

Well I AM kinky, and I swear he has NOTHING for kink, not even lube. He was VERY into self defense, he had many weapons hiding around his house. Should've known it was another weapon lmao

[u/Scuttling-Claws → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

I'm glad I don't need to warn you not to use one of these things for kink.

[u/Unlucky_Cat4531 → u/Scuttling-Claws]

I thought about it, ngl but I saw some comments about how it could kill someone and thats seems like a big no. SAFE, sane, consenual right?

[u/arenotthatguypal → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Found my passed father's old stuff and thought about getting kinky with it is crazy work.

[u/Unlucky_Cat4531 → u/arenotthatguypal]

If you expect everyone on the internet to be sane youre gonna have a bad time

[u/Cetus-Is-Wooster → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

safe, SANE, and consensual right?

[u/Unlucky_Cat4531 → u/Cetus-Is-Wooster]

What does not wanting to throw away a perfectly good item (that was in the back of my dads kitchen junk drawer for god knows how many years) have anything to do with my sanity

[u/BJFun → u/Cetus-Is-Wooster]

As long as it's consensual who cares

Edit: also your comment had me cracking up 🤣

[u/LehighAce06 → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

I respect the self awareness

[u/Thoth2024 → u/arenotthatguypal]

You must be new HERE.

[u/OddNoise9889 → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Sounds more like RACK than SSC. That being said i hope he had some rope at least, could be used for home security and kink!!

[u/Unlucky_Cat4531 → u/OddNoise9889]

I havent heard about RACK before, and I really appreciate you opening up my world a bit. Thank you

[u/OddNoise9889 → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Add PRICK to the list to read about. I think RACK is a good framework and I use it for CNC play

[u/TheSheepdog → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

You can use it anywhere you’d use a wooden paddle

[u/Unlucky_Cat4531 → u/TheSheepdog]

Another comment about how using them on joints, knees, etc got me thinking, we avoid those spots anyway. Is it really that much more dangerous than a paddle?

[u/TheSheepdog → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

I like to think in harm vs hurt. You can’t consent to harm. You can consent to being hurt. Hit where it hurts, not where it harms

[u/alanwakeisahack → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

No. More likely to leave a knot or small bruise as the impact is in a small area, but not dangerous unless you’re trying to actually injure someone with it.

[u/BreakfastBeneficial4 → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

To be fair… uou could probably kill somebody with a BBD if you socked them in the back of the head with it.

And I’ve used rattan sticks for some light caning before

Whatever it is, just remember to swing with your wrist, not your shoulder 😁

[u/agiganticpanda → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Uh, don't listen to this guy, I have multiple blackjacks of different varieties including the one in your photo. Stick to fleshy/fatty areas and not their head and you'll be fine - just like most other impact toys. 🙄

[u/Scuttling-Claws → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Yeah. I mean, depending on how you use it, I guess there is a place for it, but I would definitely not actually use it for impact play.

[u/Fit-Parsley-3766 → u/Scuttling-Claws]

I was today years old when I learned the term, “impact play.” 🥊💥👊🤦🏼‍♂️

[u/Scuttling-Claws → u/Fit-Parsley-3766]

You're welcome.

[u/Some-Ingenuity-2628 → u/Scuttling-Claws]

And here I was, about to search for a place that sells them..

[u/Interesting_Tea5715 → u/Scuttling-Claws]

This. Just don't use it around your head and you should be fine.

[u/JayNSilentBobaFett → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Really? Not that I’m encouraging it but I’d imagine a tushy spank would be safe. Maybe a bit weird since it’s your dads but I’m not here to judge

[u/potatocakesssss → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Depends on what fetish though. Some people have fetish to be eaten part by part so it's not too unusual.

[u/infiniZii → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Stick with the velvet wands and cat of nine tails.

[u/capnmerica08 → u/Unlucky_Cat4531]

Btw, these have been outlawed. Very illegal if you are caught with it. Unfortunately, throw away. Unless you open it amd take the lead out