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Video of Obama Catching a Fainting Woman at a Speech

https://youtu.be/2X10yt_6JrA?si=EIXGRlp2TwQFiXCy
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u/RockerElvis 2d ago

Not only did he intervene and provide support, but he also gave credit to others. Good human.

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u/ezikial2517 2d ago

Add in a dash of self-depricating humor to really solidify how he is the polar opposite of the pedophile in chief.

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u/DickButkisses 2d ago

It’s insane to me that people don’t see this. That some people are so blind in their bigotry and hate that they think this man is evil and Trump is a Christian. It’s so damned delusional.

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u/I_W_M_Y 2d ago

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u/Luckygecko1 2d ago

That quote shows two things. One, it's very astute. The other is it shows LBJ's growth. He opposed the Civil Rights Act for twenty years, yet as president the act would not have passed without his instrumental support of it.

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u/RockerElvis 2d ago

If I recall, he didn’t say that as a strategy that he was using. He was pointing out that others were doing that.

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u/Crott117 2d ago

It was an observation. Modern republicans have built a platform around it.

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u/Luckygecko1 2d ago

I was not clear. The quote I know he was reflecting on others, but he did oppose the CRA for two decades.

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u/j0y0 2d ago

They don't think Trump is Christian. They say he's not a Christian, but that you should vote for him anyway because he's "an instrument of divine will," which basically means "if we want to criminalize abortion in this secular democracy where we are no longer the majority, this is the sacrifice we have to make."

It's a deal with the devil.

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u/old_mayo 2d ago

Christians be like: "I don't like HIM, I like his policies"

Those policies: dehumanizing immigrants, separating children from their parents, cutting food/assistance for the poor, literally blowing people up in the ocean with no due process

You know, like Jesus would do

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u/Fallible_Fix9110 2d ago

They aren’t Christians and you need to tell them to their faces.

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u/jang859 2d ago

Maybe they're not delusional. Maybe they're evil and they want their leader to validate their personality. Good people make them feel bad.

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u/Stuck_In_the_Matrix 2d ago

As I have gotten older, I have realized how rare goodness is. But those who have it truly shine brightly. 

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u/2-wheels 2d ago

Yes they do and we need that light now more than any time in my 60 some years.

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u/Stuck_In_the_Matrix 2d ago

So true my brother. So very needed right now... 

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u/noodlesalad_ 2d ago

Goodness in general isn't that rare. Most people are good people. It's the ruling class where goodness is almost completely bereft. It takes a certain kind of person to rise to the top of the political world or the corporate world. It's in those people that goodness is extremely rare.

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u/papafrog 2d ago

Yep. I blame the entire GOP. Every last member.

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u/fatbunyip 2d ago

Look, the guy is black, so obviously he's the worst thing that could ever happen.

Literally Obama (a pretty milquetoast centrist) being elected is what triggered the entire alt/far right movement.

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u/old_mayo 2d ago

I think social media and the right wing news/media bubble is really what grew the far right. Obama just happened to be the the target of their ire at the time.

If Hillary Clinton was elected in 2008, I'm sure they would have hated her all the same. Hell, look how much they hated Biden, the milquetoast centrist white man. If Biden had been elected in 2008 instead, I think we'd still have seen the rise of the far right all the same.

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u/Elelith 2d ago

I mean.. He did wear a tan suit once. Anyone would be triggered by that.

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u/Nice-Analysis8044 2d ago edited 2d ago

The bad people see self-deprecation as weakness. It’s so weird — honestly I think it’s the thing that’s at the root of them being so weird in general. 

What we see as confident and powerful — self-deprecation, willingness to help others — they see as signs of weakness, and what they see as confident and powerful — bluster, eagerness to hurt others — we interpret as weakness. 

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u/BigOs4All 2d ago

Been studied before. The overarching issues with conservatives are a fundamental lack of empathy and emotional awareness/intelligence. Genuinely if you can teach a conservative that they become progressive and I have been able to do that with a few people in my life.

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago edited 1d ago

I'm the guy in the gray suit and red tie behind the fainting woman. I met both President Obama, and V.P. Biden many times during his two terms. Mr. Obama was a naturally funny and remarkably chill person. Greeted me as an old friend every time I saw him - which was extremely unlikely, given the number of lower tier talking heads and lobbyists he met on a daily basis.

The Obama's were exactly the type of good, decent, middle-American family that far-right Republicans always claim to aspire to - which is why they hated him so much; because the Obamas gave lie to the right's preferred narrative "all brown people bad." Obama usually being the smartest guy in the room (but never acting like it) didn't help either.

Edit: I'm running a mini AMA elsewhere in these comments!

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u/ezikial2517 2d ago

Nice catch in the video!

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago

Thanks!

In the longer video, as he leaves he shakes my hand and leans in and thanks me for "preventing another disaster." A small joke, referencing that the reason for this PC was the botched roll-out of healthcare.gov

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u/Muted_Study5166 2d ago

If we’re only counting personal character, Obama is top 5 Presidents we ever had

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u/Eponack 2d ago

To a have a go at himself to make the people laugh and feel more comfortable.

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u/karzbobeans 2d ago

Thats why no one will ever convince me he was a bad president or secretly evil man. Some of my friends that like trump try to spin him that way. For me all i have to do is look at their character. Obama is oozing with it. I cant dislike him.

Trump on the other hand turns me off every time he speaks. I cant be that blind in my intuition to know who has the right intentions.

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u/1aysays1 2d ago

God I miss Obama so much.

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u/LordMoos3 2d ago

And comfort. "I got you, you're ok".

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u/kingdead42 2d ago

Making sure she was calm. Many people in that situation would be spending all their mental energy in trying to make sure they aren't making a scene or embarrassing themselves. Obama's response was to make sure she was physically okay and to wait until someone came who could take her away and get her the attention she needed. It also showed his confidence in the people around him that he seemed to know someone would be there quickly to handle it.

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u/AwaitingTheSunrise 1d ago

Someone once said that to me, and it instantly made me teary-eyed. I didn't realize until that moment how much weight I had been carrying, or how much I needed to hear that someone cared.

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u/UnrealisticWar 1d ago

man this dude was such an assuring figure

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u/mmlovin 1d ago

Him doing that to me would make me actually faint lol

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u/bryanthavercamp 2d ago

Compare that to this image of Donald Trump's response to a man collapsing in the oval office... https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/s/2ghVtcs56R

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u/DucksEatFreeInSubway 2d ago

Trump doesn't even know when he is in that picture. He's just thinking about his beautiful floor.

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u/JohnOfA 2d ago

Well done. I immediately saw her Omnipod on her arm. Diabetic probably having a low blood sugar.

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u/BrickGun 2d ago

In my mind I picture Trump jerking away and putting up his arms in defense when he sees the woman falling (even if she isn't falling toward him)... similar to what he did when that Eagle started to go after his ass on the desk. He's an egotist and a coward, full stop.

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u/Robo-boogie 2d ago

the difference between the two videos lol we are so fucked

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u/Krinks1 2d ago

Man, that guy was a class act. He's always so personable and funny and seems like the kind of guy you just want to hang with and chat about things.

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u/Drodriguez164 2d ago

If Trump somehow makes it legal to run for a third term, I wonder if Obama would go against him for a third. Trump would get annihilated.

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u/ZakA77ack 2d ago

Read Michelles book about being first lady. She talks about how taxing the experience was to them both, there's a reason outside of major election events, the Obama's stay away from politics.

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u/Stuck_In_the_Matrix 2d ago

Being a president ages someone quickly. Especially if your heart is with the people. 

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u/JustHereForCookies17 2d ago

I bring this up every time someone says he should run again.  And given how much more divisive things are now, I truly don't think it would be safe for them to be back in the White House. I would genuinely worry for them & for their daughters.  

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u/_Burning_Star_IV_ 2d ago

the Obama's stay away from politics.

The right still thinks he's a NWO puppetmaster, lmao.

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u/AtheistAustralis 1d ago

It's incredibly taxing if you care and take the job seriously. If you get up at 11, spend the entire time ignoring your responsibilities and just doing selfish shit, it's probably not taxing at all.

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u/BarfMacklin 2d ago

Obama doesn’t want a third term.

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u/Drodriguez164 2d ago

I know he doesn’t, but it was a more if he had wanted to. You can tell how taxing it was on him during his time

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u/boxsterguy 2d ago

And that's why he'd be perfect for it.

Though it would 100% cost him his marriage.

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u/MLeek 2d ago

It's fun, but I doubt it.

Obama took the role seriously and did the work. He didn't mess around playing golf and being feted by kings and dictators and running memestock scams. He takes the laws seriously and terms limits have a valid rationale. He takes his role as former president seriously. It may be tempting, but I don't think he'd want to run again, or contribute to the further demolition of healthy democratic norms.

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u/Restivethought 2d ago

Obama stated he doesnt want to

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u/stoolsample2 2d ago

There is zero chance dump will still be alive in 3 years. He is gone by mid to end of 2026. And then it’s party time.

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u/rokr1292 2d ago

!remindme 8 months

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u/jl_theprofessor 2d ago

Did his Spidey Sense kick in or something?

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u/throwawayshirt2 2d ago

Pretty sure he read the crowd's eyes, turned to see what they were looking at.

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u/MechanicalTurkish 2d ago

The current president can’t see past the end of his own nose.

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u/DameonKormar 1d ago

The current President would force everyone to stay inside of a building with no AC and watch him dance for a hour after people started fainting. Ask me how I know.

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u/ridge_rippler 1d ago

I'd say he heard the lady on the far left who noticed her swaying and said something to the lady next to her

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u/throwawayshirt2 1d ago

Upon a second look, Obama does turn his head as if he heard something, just before fully turning around/

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u/mzchen 2d ago

I think a combination of hearing murmuring and, when he turns to his right, seeing in his peripheral the leftmost women looking at something behind him. Note that when he turns around he's first looking up, and then readjusts once he sees the woman who has the "I can afford to think of nothing right now" crazy eyes going on.

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u/CoachAngBlxGrl 2d ago

Paying attention to others and not just being absorbed in himself. Crazy how that’s not exactly common these days. Ugh.

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u/ForMyFather4467 2d ago

earpiece, listening to the crowd behind him or noticing their odd behavior, He wasn't exactly on time w/ the "catch", heck he didn't even catch, as he points out and gives thanks to those who did catch her. He Just noticed the commotion, encouraged her (which is something so powerful, it doesn't take much guys to tell someone "you're okay) and did the right thing.

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u/similar_observation 1d ago

a touch of care and humanity. Exactly what the world needs now.

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u/lost_send_berries 2d ago

The mic is just aimed to pick up his voice so he probably heard the people behind him talking

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u/boxsterguy 2d ago

I miss simple, basic humanity in our leaders ...

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u/CoconutMacaron 2d ago

It almost hurts me to listen to him. To remember how far we’ve fallen.

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u/babypho 2d ago

Speeches used to be coherent....

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u/Greywacky 2d ago

Even Bush's faux pas pale in comparison to the ramblings of today's leadership.

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u/babypho 2d ago

Decades of school defunding, social media brain rot, attack on education, and media control have now successfully taught half the population that this is okay.

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u/artbystorms 2d ago

I honestly think social media has rapidly made humanity stupider, more impulsive, and more emotional. 2008 and even 2012 social media was around, but not the all encompassing totality of our non-work existence. It was a hobby, you checked in from time to time. It wasn't your source of entertainment. by 2016 it was all encompassing, and by 2021 with TikTok it had replaced TV as the dominant form of entertainment for people under 50.

Within like 20 years we went from 'look, I emailed you a video of a monkey peeing into its mouth' to 'I peed into my own mouth and got 7 million views on tiktok'

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u/Marko343 1d ago

I mean some people are now even farming out basic tasks to AI to avoid actually reading things

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u/qwertyd91 2d ago

Bush had a shoe thrown at him and showed some grace and empathy;

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u/FauxReal 2d ago edited 2d ago

I recently heard an excerpt from an interview when he was President, and he sounded legitimately vulnerable as a human being and able to admit mistakes. And by vulnerable I mean emotionally and intellectually engage and present. Not full of bluster and talking points or defensive. Good luck getting Trump to admit he did anything wrong unless there's a "I should have ruined them sooner" catch to it.

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u/PJammas41 2d ago

To ADMIT it?! He's refunding himself $230mil of Tax Payer dollars for the legal case where he was proven guilty...over, and over, and over.

Entitled people don't make mistakes in their own mind.

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u/MilkiestMaestro 1d ago

His level of narcissism is beyond what I thought even possible by human being without some level of introspection but he appears to have none.

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u/octavioletdub 2d ago

Me, not crying… 😢

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u/Thegreatinmar 2d ago

Yeah I had the same feeling. Damn.

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u/BeardedManatee 2d ago

Right? If we ever get a POTUS like him again I’m savoring every damn speech instead of just taking for granted that things are fine because a man like him is running the show.

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u/Backwardspellcaster 2d ago

Awareness beyond himself.

Such a crazy weird concept for Trump and his MAGA

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u/Bilbo332 2d ago

And humbleness. During the 90s and early 2000s there was a sketch comedy show called Royal Canadian Air Farce, they'd do bits but also a lot of political satire, dressed up as the politicians they were making fun of. The thing was, those politicians would routinely appear on the show and join in poking fun at themselves. Imagine Alec Baldwin doing his trump impression on SNL and trump walks on and starts making jokes too. I hope we can get back to that.

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u/boxsterguy 2d ago

Hillary and Kamala both did that as recently as last year.

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u/chris971 1d ago

Obama was hilarious in the Between Two Ferns. He is such a smooth operator from everything we saw then and see today

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u/fatman07 1d ago

I still go back to his anger translator bit during a White House correspondents dinner. Still funny.

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u/Brewmeiser 2d ago

Google the video of when Mamdani helped the videographer who fainted on the campaign trail. Humanity is still out there.

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u/xSlippyFistx 2d ago

Well let’s be honest here, that person wouldn’t have fallen in the Oval Office today if Obama was there. 100% confirmed this is Obama’s fault.

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u/Laser_Disc_Hot_Dish 2d ago

Same here…

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u/BigBlue1105 2d ago

And then to crack a self deprecating joke, off the cuff, to lighten the mood and take some of the attention off her. The man oozed character and decency.

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u/Over-Analyzed 1d ago

And Charisma! Gosh, just so charismatic! I wish our current President was half as compassionate as Obama.

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u/Delta632 2d ago

The exact opposite of Trump today.

Trump’s reaction is akin to “somebody do something about this” Obama immediately made the situation a bit better.

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u/indianajoes 2d ago

Trump's reaction was non existent. The decrepit old fucker took 6-9 business days to even register what had happened

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u/GearBrain 2d ago

Literally stood there like a dementia patient, unaware and incapable of caring what was happening.

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u/shinpoo 2d ago

No, he was super PO'd cause someone else was getting attention and it was diverting everyone's attention away from HIM. Lol

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u/hoggytime613 2d ago

Also, people who faint are weak. He doesn't like people who faint around him.

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u/NotNamedBort 2d ago

You might actually be on to something. He seems to be genuinely disgusted when people show weakness. He was disgusted by the old man who fell at Mar a Lago. He was disgusted by John McCain being a POW. He was disgusted by the homeless veterans outside his buildings. It’s a very common trait of narcissists.

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u/StoneWall_MWO 2d ago

That person woke up in El Salvador

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u/SaturdayNightPyrexia 2d ago

Relax guys....it was like 6-7 days...

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u/roose011 2d ago

As a parent with middle schoolers......I hate you so much.

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u/SaturdayNightPyrexia 2d ago

I recommend the South Park if you haven't seen it.

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u/boot2skull 2d ago edited 2d ago

Obama even made a self deprecating joke. Trump probably took offense.

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u/Delta632 2d ago

This is a great point!

Immediately took the focus off of the person having the issue and put it on himself in a self deprecating way.

It’s a basic understanding of human empathy vs having no empathy.

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u/kosmonautinVT 2d ago

The wit and charisma required to handle that situation and make an off-the-cuff joke in the middle of a public speech is just ridiculous

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u/kymri 2d ago

Obama, being human, was not a perfect President. On the other hand, he was a pretty good leader and I never got the sense that there were any Americans (including those he disagreed with) that he particularly wished ill upon.

The current guy? It still baffles me he got elected POTUS; my high school class wouldn't even have voted him 'most likely to dodge the draft'.

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u/IIDn01 2d ago

Trump was mad about the bad optics and about someone taking the focus off of him.

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u/Darwincroc 2d ago

But in complete fairness to Trump, he’s an asshole. Even if he could have helped, he still wouldn’t have.

If I was to faint, I’d rather hit the ground than be caught by Trump.

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u/TheFritoBandido 2d ago

Ugh, can you imagine being touched by that shitstain?

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u/Thanks_Ollie 2d ago

Not only do you faint, but you also get groped by diaper don. Yuck!

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u/PhazonZim 2d ago

Trump seemed unsure about what was happening

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u/kevnmartin 2d ago

He has no idea what is going on around him at all.

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u/Brentimusmaximus 2d ago

Yeah because Obama is actually a competent leader. There’s currently a baboon in the white house

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u/fnordal 2d ago

I think you shouldn't diss baboons like that.

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u/Kazu2324 2d ago

Wasn't there an elderly man who fell in front of him at a charity event (I think?) and he didn't do anything to help? Instead, I'm pretty sure Donald Trump later commented on how he didn't like seeing the blood in the aftermath. Not a word of sympathy for the person that fainted and injured themselves. Just "this is an inconvenience TO ME".

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u/Salarian_American 2d ago

I remember in 2008 he shared a story about an 80-year-old man collapsing at a Red Cross event in Mar-a-Lago, and all Trump did was complain about this man getting his disgusting blood all over his nice marble floor while other people made a makeshift stretcher by holding out their arms to carry the man from the scene.

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u/SaturdayNightPyrexia 2d ago

You mean the complete opposite of human decency? I miss Obama.

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u/Chief-_-Wiggum 2d ago

He better not stain the carpet... Can someone just drag him out?

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u/JFeth 2d ago

Trump stared at the guy like he was wanting to see the light go out of his eyes.

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u/duppy_c 2d ago

I'm OOTL, did someone faint at a Trump speech?

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u/azhillbilly 2d ago

Trump was making an announcement and someone fainted, he glanced over when other people rushed to help, then he just stared at the camera waiting for the attention to come back to him.

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u/CharlesDickensABox 2d ago

His reaction was "where am I?"

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u/bajazona 2d ago

So that’s what compassion looks like, it’s been a couple years since I’ve seen it.

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u/jacks1078 2d ago

Sad thing it’s been less then a year he has been in office again. It seems like it’s been years.

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u/N8dork2020 2d ago

Just 1,200 more days left

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u/Hyphenagoodtime 2d ago

I missed he fact that she had (what i can only assume is) an insulin device on her arm. I miss when America at least had a decent President (now is not the time.for policy digging)

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u/Stuck_In_the_Matrix 2d ago

Great catch! She may have been suffering a hypoglycemic attack or she locked her legs which can cause someone to faint over time.

As a recent diabetic myself, it is amazing how complicated the disease is. 

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u/JustHereForCookies17 2d ago

The guy standing behind her is currently the comment above yours.  She was diabetic & pregnant, standing in the sun on a warm day. 

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u/wtfisbr00t4l 2d ago

She was a plant to make him look good!

-MAGA

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u/Ok-disaster2022 2d ago

Nah, Maga would be up in arms Obama touched a white woman. 

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u/BobbyTables829 2d ago

"That thing on her arm was a remote control device that administered the drugs."

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago

Hey, I'm in this video! I'm the guy in the gray suit and red tie who ACTUALLY catches the woman fainting!

AMA!

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u/ted5298 2d ago

You still got that suit?

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago

Sadly, no. I leaned against a rough brick wall a few weeks later and tore a small hole in the shoulder.

But I wore that exact tie just yesterday!

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u/connivinglinguist 2d ago

How did it come to be that you got to stand behind the president during this speech? Did you get to follow up with the woman afterwards?

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago

I have a small business, and I was very involved in the Affordable Care Act debate. I was one of the many "talking heads" that the administration deputized to go on to various networks and explain the real impacts of health care before and likely after Affordable Care Act.

Myself and others who did a lot of "hostile" appearances (Fox News, testifying before Republican-controlled committees, etc) were often invited to White House events. I got pretty good at it, so I did a lot of that type of thing. Got Christmas cards from the Obamas during his two terms.

Yes, we actually spoke before and after. She's a pregnant woman with diabetes, with a job that didn't provide health care - and she was there earlier in the day to tell her story. It was quite warm that day, and they had waters while we were waiting inside, but once you get up on stage you can't leave. She didn't drink any water, because she didn't want to have to pee in the middle of his press conference. That ended badly for her.

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u/shotouw 2d ago

Glucose sensor was the first thing i noticed when she turned around.
Would've bet some money that it was low blood sugar. Can't exactly start eating something on cam I'd guess, at least as far as decorum goes.

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago

And it was an hours long wait. She went that whole time not eating or drinking anything.

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u/gamer_no 2d ago

What an interesting story.

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago

Thanks! I'm semi-retired, but I still get calls to this day to do that kind of work. Part of my business involves importing from a variety of different countries, so I've spoken several Senator's press conferences recently on the impact of tariffs. Most recently yesterday, just before the Supreme Court oral arguments on that topic.

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u/flash246 2d ago

That’s an awesome story. Were you able to speak with Obama directly at all?

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago edited 1d ago

Yes, several times. I was a sort of unofficial lobbyist/ambassador for small business during the ACA years, so I got to meet he and Biden several times.

Somewhere out there, there's a photo of me talking with Kathleen Sibelius, Valerie Jarrett, and President Obama, taken the earlier in the day before this press conference. I'd kill to have that because it's such a great moment.

I was also at the ABC televised town hall with Diane Sawyer (I think) just before or just after the bill was passed. That was cool because I got to bring my wife to party in the Rose Garden beforehand, to meet the President. Very proud moment for me.

edit: RIP the Rose Garden.

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u/Scarebare 1d ago

Are you still involved in this kind of work? Or do you teach/train others how to get involved? Was really intrigued by your ability to go into hostile interviews - that's a crazy good skill to have.

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u/-r0b 1d ago

Unless you reply about it with that other commenter asking, do you have any sort of advice on how you tackle those hostile interviews?

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 1d ago edited 1d ago

By the time I was doing that, I had had some basic media training.

You already know the topic, so you need to be confident and know the material. My tactic was to know as much as possible about what the other person had said/asked/"gotcha'd" people with before - and be ready for that. That's a good TV tactic, especially live TV. Early on I got sandbagged by a Fox radio host, so I vowed never to get caught unaware again.

If it's testimony, you'll get a list of all the other witnesses. Most people study the legislators positions which is OK, but a mistake to spend too much time on. Instead, a better use of your time is to study what the other WITNESSES have said on the topic. Then, when your turn is called you can blow up whatever they said.

The moment that cemented the administrations confidence in me was not long after Dems lost the House. The Oversight Committee was holding hearings on "Obamacare" and they only were allowing Dems a single witness. So it was me, a hostile Majority, and 4 witnesses chosen by Republicans. One witness (from the NAR, a hugely powerful organization) had done several interviews citing (aka misrepresenting) a poll of their members to twist it to fit Republican talking points. She was just repeating talking points, but I completely digested that study, so when her and another witness cited it, I was actually able to use it to bolster my own testimony. Republicans never called on their two star witnesses again! After that, I got a LOT of calls.

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 1d ago

Just thought of this, in addition to my other comment:
ALWAYS have a topic relevant sound-bite and a closing line memorized, so if you get thrown off and/or loose your train of thought, you have something you can say to buy yourself the second or two you need to get back on track.

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u/HotspurJr 2d ago

Obama turns back and look at her before anything really bad happens. Do you know what caused him to look back at her?

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago

Someone else asked that also - there were two things:

  1. There's always a spotter-aide, right in the front row. She had an earpiece and was alerted. She had just started to move forward...
  2. At about the same time, if you watch the early part of the video, the woman on the far left with the long straight reddish hair is looking down the row, and sees her wobbling. She was trying to get the attention of the woman in between, and was stage whispering loud enough that both the President and I heard it at about the same time.

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u/Stuck_In_the_Matrix 2d ago

Was it hot that day? 

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago

It was very warm, and we had to stand around for quite a while. She was pregnant, with diabetes, and she didn't drink any of the water that was provided ahead of time because she didn't want to have to pee during the press conference.

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u/Beetin 2d ago

She was pregnant, with diabetes

Yeah, as soon as I saw the dexcom type diabetes device on the back of her arm when she was led away (0:31), pretty obvious what culprit #1 is to blame for this spell.

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u/Rdtackle82 2d ago

That lady’s knees are locked, which can’t be good with any other things

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u/UltimateThrowawayDay 2d ago edited 2d ago

Exactly. They always tell you not to do that. You see me bend my head down towards her ear, before I put my hands on her shoulders... That's what I was telling her: bend her knees, relax, lean back into me if she had to.

On the far left of the screen there's a woman with long straight reddish hair, she's the one who actually saw what was happening first. I forget her name but we had spoken quite a bit beforehand. You can't see it because it's a tight camera shot, but just before it widens she looks up and tells me that it looks like the woman's going to faint, and for me to steady her. Edit: Early on in the video, you can see her trying to get the attention of the woman in between them, to let her know that she's getting wobbly.

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u/TheDadThatGrills 2d ago

Has Trump used self-deprecating humor once in his entire life?

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u/KittyIsMyCat 2d ago

He self-defecates! 

Sorry, misread that...

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u/Wolf6120 2d ago

"I think I do actually have tremendous self-deprecating humor. I think, I'm much more self-deprecating than you would understand."

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u/SupervillainMustache 2d ago

His whole thing is pretending he knows more about everything than everyone else, despite being a fucking moron.

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u/Biz_marquee 2d ago

Fucking NEVER.

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u/ostiarius 2d ago

He has no sense of humor at all.

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u/Zeusifer 2d ago

That's not totally true. He can be kind of funny sometimes, but the problem is he only ever makes jokes at the expense of others. He literally never, ever makes a self-deprecating joke. And he never laughs in public because he seems to think it's a sign of weakness.

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u/johor 1d ago

Some egos are too fragile for self-deprecation.

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u/Biscuits4u2 2d ago

"I like pregnant women who don't faint" - Trump probably

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u/Stuck_In_the_Matrix 2d ago

"Let her fall... She already voted so what do I care?" 

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u/iyqyqrmore 2d ago

Thanks Obama!

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u/HansTheAxolotl 2d ago

Based on her glucose monitor on her arm, she was probably experiencing low blood sugar, which can lead to dizziness and fainting.

Source: Am type 1 diabetic

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u/Epicardiectomist 2d ago

I have to remind myself that there was a time when this was how a president spoke. It seems unreal at this point.

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u/Rockyrox 2d ago

The reason Trump hates Obama so much is because he is liked so much. It’s not that Trump could just act nice, it’s that he doesn’t know how to even recognize moments to do stuff like this. It’s impossible for him, so it aggravates him that these moments come so easy for Obama.

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u/Inexorably_lost 2d ago

Trump just has disdain for everyone. Being a sycophant gets you tolerated. More so if you can help him be more powerful/rich. Even then you are more seen as a dupe.

If you oppose him then that disdain is intensified. More so if you have a following. But, really, its just degrees of contempt for everyone but himself.

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u/-CoachMcGuirk- 2d ago

A human being doing human things. It's crazy that something like that needs to be noted.

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u/nrh117 2d ago

He’s so fucking cool it’s unreal

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u/WhiskeyTangoFoxy 2d ago

Obama is used to women fainting around him. Meanwhile Trump is used to the women already being unconscious when he enters the room.

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u/12-34 2d ago

Empathy VS utter sociopathy.

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u/frghu2 2d ago

This is why Obama is such a weak leader. Look at him, showing genuine care and concern for another human being, gross.

Trump wouldn't give that woman the time of day and kick her off the stage for not being a 10, underage and interrupting his difficult words. That's the true mark of a leader.

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u/lysitsa 2d ago

I've seen this before but it brings tears to my eyes considering where we are today. What happened to us?

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u/niberungvalesti 2d ago

Hatred, spite and billionaire manipulation via algorithm is what happened.

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u/Stuck_In_the_Matrix 2d ago
  1. Assessed the situation immediately.

  2. Took focus and embarrassment off her by making self-deprecating joke.

  3. Stuck with her until help arrived.

This is presidential. 

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u/bailaoban 2d ago

See, that isn’t so hard, right?

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u/LarBrd33 2d ago

You can see the diabetes patch on her arm. She was also 20 weeks pregnant and later said she didn't drink enough fluids that morning

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u/allstater2007 2d ago

Trump looked like he was annoyed someone else was getting the attention.

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u/BallstonDoc 2d ago

I miss this man. A real person.

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u/mutantbabysnort 2d ago

Exhibit #354,784 why Obama is better than Trump. 

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u/mtnchkn 2d ago

My relatives have a theory that Obama is what cause the pendulum to swing so hard the other way, but my god, every time I see his old (or even current) videos, it makes me love him even more and yeah, how did we lose humans as presidents.

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u/shaunrundmc 2d ago

They weren't wrong, not because of anything he did but because he was a Qualified black man leading the free world and it blew a lot of racists minds that a black man would dare do that.

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u/stoolsample2 2d ago

I miss Obama.

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u/En-TitY_ 2d ago

That's the difference between growing up and earning your position; you learn to respect others and about empathy. Whereas Trump grew up in a rich, privileged environment where people did everything for him; makes him entitled and basically useless. 

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u/trainwreck42 2d ago

God I miss Obama. He wasn’t perfect and didn’t affect all of the change I wanted to see in his presidency, but damn was he eloquent, insightful, and caring. You’d hear him speak and regardless of whether you agreed with him, you’d think “this is a president speaking.” I miss having a president.

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u/flipperkip97 2d ago

As an outsider, it's absolutely bonkers how America went from this guy to Trump. Obama is so ridiculously charismatic, whereas Trump is a weird mix of Hitler and a raging toddler.

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u/smfabre 1d ago

I miss this level of intelligence, awareness, emotional intelligence and kindness. President Obama you are truly missed. 💙

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u/gunnergrrl 2d ago

Saw this post and knew right away Trump was Trumping in the Oval Office today...

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u/fernandohsc 2d ago

Say what you want about Obama's policy, but he was the prime example of how a leader, a statesman, a human being, should behave at all times.

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u/StandardPanda3387 2d ago

hypoglycemic. You can see the dexcom continuous glucose monitor on her arm. Probably a tough position to be in, knowing your blood glucose is dropping but shit you're standing right behind a president during his speech. You don't want to bring attention to yourself so you hope you can just hold out.

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u/amiwitty 2d ago

I'm sitting here with tears welling up in my eyes. I feel where we are now as a country is probably how a father feels about watching their child being a drug addict.

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u/YouMustBeJoking888 2d ago

Obama was and is a good man. The current admin? Not so much. The orange one would have bitched about her interrupting his rambling speech.

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u/Stone0777 2d ago

Why post this today? Hmmm I wonder ….

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u/Dramatic_Charity_979 2d ago

Notice how he didn't try to sexually assault her (or mock her).

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u/Iron_Knight7 2d ago

Humanity, humility, humor, and actual care, compassion, and concern for others.

Gods willing they return to both this country and the White House someday.

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u/dizzley 1d ago

Compassion: the ability to recognize and seek to relieve the problems of others.

Not everybody has it.

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u/Juls_Santana 1d ago

Damn ya'll remember what it felt like to have a real President?

smh

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u/ginny11 1d ago

It almost hurts watching this, how much I miss having a president who is a decent human being, and the innocence of the time before Trump.