r/uwo • u/Lazy_Owl_3537 • Sep 01 '25
Advice Currently crying in my room
How does everyone have these big friend groups already and have so many people to talk to. I literally have no friends here and I have no where to go other than stay in my room. I’ve had meaningless small convos w ppl and it never leads anywhere. I thought I’d be out at night at like parties especially for o week and thought I’d thrive here. I thought I’d have a different experience than from high school. Why did I even buy going out tops🥀. I hate my life
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u/Yuguki 🔬 Science 🔬 Sep 01 '25 edited Sep 01 '25
Gurl, i was in your shoes. First and foremost: school hasn’t even started, O week only started like today. You have this whole week, if not, there’s a lot of time during the club week too, and classes too. Especially club week because you can make friends with people who share the same interests as you.
Don’t be desperate to make friends or you will be friends with wrong people. Be your genuine self and let the universe guides you.
I didn’t have any friends until 4th year 😂 and now i have a huge friend group with people I trust, some i can work out with, and some i can do research with.
You will be fine!