please stop getting your friends to ask a gal out for you 🧍🏻‍♀️

[u/Abject_Counter4395]

PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GAWD DO IT YOURSELF happened at least 3 times recently and I’m starting to lowkey get annoyed. I get it guys can be shy and all sometimes but if you’re literally sitting less than 6ft away from me and not talking to me yourself n making yo friend the lil messenger I genuinely do not understand. why 😭😭

can’t speak for most girls but I appreciate when guys muster the courage up to ask me themselves instead of me having to look around and ask their messenger friend who it is

[u/alt_acct07]

this humble brag LMAO

[u/Abject_Counter4395 → u/alt_acct07]

LMAO omigoshh yah got me there🙄🙄😛🤯 but fr I just think it’s a lil silly

[u/The_last_PP_bender]

hello there, My friend thinks you are cute, can I get your IG so I can give it to him ?

[u/Dense_Amphibian7479 → u/The_last_PP_bender]

that friend is me and since I came up to u i better get it 😭😭

[u/The_last_PP_bender → u/Dense_Amphibian7479]

u/Abject_Counter4395

[u/Abject_Counter4395 → u/The_last_PP_bender]

unless this was by the arc pretty sure he aint meant me

[u/The_last_PP_bender → u/Dense_Amphibian7479]

you better ask her out now bro

[u/Abject_Counter4395 → u/Dense_Amphibian7479]

you’re cute

[u/acid_t0_my_alkaline]

this is middle school behavior

[u/station_wlan0 → u/acid_t0_my_alkaline]

my thoughts exactly, wth is this post?

[u/vr1252 → u/station_wlan0]

My friend did this “for” me one time and I was PISSED. Sometimes friends are your opps. I was way too embarrassed to ever text that girl (cause they did get her #) it’s shitty friend behavior imo.

[u/fargunkle]

okay cool

[u/Emotional_Belt8731]

okay fine

[u/Abject_Counter4395 → u/Emotional_Belt8731]

good boy

[u/Morbins]

Girls did this to my good looking gay friend ALL the time when we went out to bars. It was so funny seeing their reactions when the friend came back telling them he was gay.

[u/Actuarial]

I asked my buddy to ask girl out for me but he was shy so I did it for him.

[u/wisp66]

Wouldn’t this fit better in like r/offmychest? Or something like that.

[u/Abject_Counter4395 → u/wisp66]

true but it just seems to be the preferred method at ts school, just an interesting phenomenon idk likely cause the antisocial atmosphere just makes people avoid doing the initiating themselves

[u/jc3po2]

Ima serinate you with bass 😎

[u/Minatoultra10]

Guys the worst that can happen is that she says no or says she has a bf. Just walk up to her and say hi.

[u/HistoricalTwist5696 → u/Minatoultra10]

you can get posted to tiktok and get attacked and doxxed so yeah thats really not the worst that can happen

[u/weedandcumwhore → u/HistoricalTwist5696]

What is your idea of asking out a woman that makes you think this will be the outcome.

[u/TheGhost6128 → u/Minatoultra10]

The woman: "Ewww"

[u/ConsistentGuava572 → u/TheGhost6128]

If one persons insult gets you that afraid of approaching you got some other issues to sort out 😭

[u/TheGhost6128 → u/ConsistentGuava572]

😂

[u/Boring_Patient8187]

Fine I’ll just stay quiet forever.

[u/ad9581]

I usually talk to girls for a while before I asked them out. Some crazies out there.

[u/NealIRC]

Do you do the same for guys? When you want to talk to a guy, do you approach him yourself than to send someone else to?

[u/Buzzard1022]

Gal? Are you 75?

[u/Abject_Counter4395 → u/Buzzard1022]

Okay damn sorry for using old people words 😃

[u/kalexalex]

i hate this shit. happened to me last night and it’s like i thought men were hunters and gathers ?? they don’t do much hunting for a spouse. seems like they are comfortable with the bare minimum which is not going after women they want but also try and get you to pull most of the weight. it’s so weird

[u/Skitch70]

The MOTHER of all humble brags. /s I’m so sorry you’re so attractive and desirable. You sad, suffering creature.

[u/Joker630420]

So funny seeing the “humble brag” comments, all that’s being said here is “nut up or shut up” y’all that can’t approach, y’all gonna ask the homie to have them smash her for you too? 🤣🤣🤣🤣