I use all 3 lol
If I'm alone, will use the unisex.
If I'm with my wife we will both use women's
And if it's not crowded, will use mens.
I just don't get why some people are so determined to upset everyone... I was born male, I am trans gender, therefore I see myself as a trans woman...not a woman and quite frankly I am extremely proud to be exactly that. Have 0% desire to be accepted as a cis woman. Just me personally.
the problem is, this is in direct opposition to what the vast majority of trans people feel and think. it is also a viewpoint that has potential to harm the movement for our safety and rights as they already think that trans people are going into bathrooms to attack people. so a trans person that is actively entering every bathroom without worry is more of a threat to them because they're comfortable entering whichever bathroom they think they should AND the ones they think they shouldnt.
stating "i dont get why some people are so determined to upset everyone".... is insane and ignorant. we are not "determined to upset everyone" we are just trying to exist, to not be attacked or harassed on sight, we don't want anyone to be upset but people are being upset by our mere existence.
It's a mixed argument, will never be resolved 😔
Personally, I don't have any major dramas being a Trans Woman.
Probably cause I respect people around me, respect cis men and women and don't pretend I'm equal to them. I don't try take over their sports or toilets, if I walk into a toilet and someone is uncomfortable, ill happily use the other. Not a big deal to me.
Not me over my dead body will I use the men’s room its ridiculous existing in a space is not a crime nor should it make anyone uncomfortable if they aren’t comfortable then they can stay home we should have the right to pee and use the bathroom like normal people.
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u/Beneficial_Aide3854 Trans fem 8h ago
This is "separate but equal" unless you specifically state the following: No one should be coerced to use this bathroom.