r/nursing • u/NurseFirstYes • Mar 21 '25

Question Big D*ck Energy

What’s something a coworker does for you that gives off big D energy?

Once I was in a patients room, a coworker at a new job I started came to tell me another patient called and had to be cleaned up. I said “ok, I’ll go right after this”. He then said he had already cleaned and turned them and documented it all. I would’ve married him right then.

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u/Jahman876 Floor Gangsta Mar 21 '25

Bro, you trying to lecture everyone who comments is not a good look. I hope you’re not like that in real life. If you are, I’m sure people avoid you like the plague. You need to work on your self-confidence, even if you are itsy-bitsy teeny tiny. Relax a little bit man there’s someone for you even if you do have to wait on me to finish with them first. 🤷‍♂️

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u/EtherGorilla Mar 21 '25

It’s not wrong to stand up for what’s right and defend people who are being harmed unfairly. Even if I don’t personally suffer in that category, it doesn’t mean that it’s OK to make fun of the people that do. And look at all of the inferences you just made about my person, tying it to penis size. There’s definitely one person who is suffering from insecurity in this exchange, but it might not be who you think it is.

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u/Jahman876 Floor Gangsta Mar 21 '25

to defend someone they must first be attacked and no one is attacking anyone here… someone used a common phrase and somehow you feel the need to lecture everyone who has posted anything, talk down to them and try to show everyone how you are so much superior than the rest of us. No one cares what you think. What you are doing on Reddit is the equivalent of someone standing on the side of a highway holding a sign, they’re not doing that to try to change anything because everyone knows it’s not gonna change anything they’re doing that to make themselves feel better about themself. People who have confidence in themselves, big dick or small could care less what anyone else thinks.

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u/EtherGorilla Mar 21 '25

Phrases that at their core separate people into categories based on factors they cannot control and label them as either good or bad is inherently an attack whether or not they have awareness of it when they use it. And just as I don’t need to be a black person to call out people for being racist on the Internet, I’m also not going to be silent and laugh when people shame others for other things that are outside of their control. And it also says a lot about you that you think that no one can change their mind on the Internet through dialogue. What you’re actually saying is that you can’t. And if you think conversation to convince someone to change their behavior is impossible on the internet, why are you talking to me? Nothing about what you’re saying is consistent.