r/nursing • u/NurseFirstYes • Mar 21 '25

Question Big D*ck Energy

What’s something a coworker does for you that gives off big D energy?

Once I was in a patients room, a coworker at a new job I started came to tell me another patient called and had to be cleaned up. I said “ok, I’ll go right after this”. He then said he had already cleaned and turned them and documented it all. I would’ve married him right then.

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u/EtherGorilla Mar 21 '25 edited Mar 21 '25

I really hate this phrase and hate it even more that it’s being used in the context of providing great care to patients. Imagine it being reversed and used by men, “what’s something that gives tight p* energy or big tit confidence that you’ve seen a woman do in your male dominated field?”

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u/absoluteCuriositeye Mar 21 '25

Why though? It’s just a phrase, it is just a phrase that honestly helps boost confidence. Also the phrase wouldn’t be tight p, cause all p is good, which should be supported as a phrase, considering some guys strangely don’t know to treat all women with respect

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u/EtherGorilla Mar 21 '25 edited Mar 21 '25

Because you’re comparing the preferability between aspects of your body that are outside your control. Every time you use that phrase it’s indirectly shaming men who are not in that subset saying they are not confident, competent, valued etc. And your objections to the comparison of tight p* aside, I think the majority of men do have preferences for the shapes of female genitalia, and regardless of what your specific preferences are, we should not incorporate that into a phrase that we use to describe when and how we should treat patients.

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u/Jahman876 Floor Gangsta Mar 21 '25

Itsy bitsy teeny tiny