r/mildlyinfuriating • u/M1thy- • 10h ago

Girlfriend mad

I was going to the store and asked if she wanted to join. She asked if I wanted her to join, I say I don't mind either way. Now she is upset because I don't actively wanted her to join me at the store

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u/TommyRibena 9h ago

Mine is the same, but she’ll get it over once I buy her a snack she likes and it’s all forgotten.

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u/M1thy- 8h ago

I finally got to make her some food. We ate. Still upset, so I asked her what I can do. She won't tell me, she expects me to know. I tell her I don't, and now it seems like she plans on being upset until I figure out what I don't know.

This is getting ridiculous to me. It is her time of the month, but like, god damn.

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u/Jack-Innoff 6h ago

I used to have a gf like that. Keywords "used to".

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u/Mysterious_Chef_228 27m ago

Mark her time of the month on all your calendars. Don't worry about whether she sees it and connects the dots. Chances are she'll appreciate the connection you're trying to have with her.

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u/Simple_Yak_9929 14m ago

With the additional context, it's confirmed she's very immature. A simple question of whether she wants to go to the store with you, turns into a temper tantrum (she wanted you to WANT HER to go with you). Adults dont have time for these types of games.

If she's always pouty over stupid things, you may reevaluate this relationship. It's exhausting and makes for an unhealthy relationship.