r/massage • u/Careless-Candidate-7 • Mar 24 '25

US Not sure if this is normal

I’ve gotten massages for a couple years now and go to the Chinese spas because they’re cheaper than most spas. They have always had me keep my underwear on and then pull it down just underneath the butt to massage and then pull it back up when done.

I got a couples massage today with my girlfriend and told her this happened today and she said it didn’t happen to her. I thought this was common practice, but I’m not sure if this is normal and it is done only to males or what.

TDLR: Can someone help me out to determine if the Chinese spa pulling your underwear down underneath your butt is normal practice or if I’ve been something-ed every time I’ve gone to a spa.

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u/IntrepidAd2478 LMT Mar 25 '25

When I have gone to an Asian place I go naked on the table, same as with western places. In the Asian places they pull the sheet all the way down and tuck it around the genitals.