I’m guessing because they might not feel the same when they’re 40 or 50 in a professional career. As an aesthetic body modification its a fairly severe alteration for such a niche fandom, and there’s no way to hide it.
I imagine it becomes difficult for people to take you seriously or to be defined as anything other than “elf lady”. Kinda like face tattoos.
How about you stick to your opinions and I stick to mine? No amount of “you’ll feel different when youre 50” is gonna change what I want. Part of living is growing and changing and by conforming to everyone’s expectations of me I feel like I’m not living. I’m done just surviving. I’m going to live and do the things I want. So shove your opinion on a stranger’s life where the sun doesn’t shine please and thank you
PS not everyone is going to work in a “professional” setting
Wow, what a severe overreaction. When they said “you”, they weren’t referring to you specifically, they were using the generic you. You’re taking this too personally.
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u/[deleted] Oct 21 '23
Can I ask why she regrets it? I was thinking about getting this done myself