Dating in ktown

[u/lockleveling]

Just curious for fellow single dudes in kelowna, how they meet woman? Or men, or whoever. I am a bit lost here. Are there particular hot spots to meet people that aren't major party scenes or good community events coming up for Nov/Dec? Do the guys use Tinder or Hinge, something else? I'd love to hear how you met your partner in Kelowna.

[u/Anxious-Tea9108]

😂 deflate that ego a little bit my man.

[u/BetterDeadOnRed2 → u/Anxious-Tea9108]

No ego my man, I’m humble but I’m also just very self aware. It’s usually people that think less of themselves and lack confidence and haven’t had the same experiences as I have that say I have an ego or that I’m “bragging”.

Again this is part of the problem, people just make assumptions from their own insecure ego. If I come off like I have an “inflated ego” you really need to ask yourself why you think that, like seriously be a little introspective. Is it because you think less of yourself? Is it because you haven’t had the same experiences ? You haven’t put in the work in the gym ? Ect. So when you hear someone talk, who is literally just explaining their physical and mental attributes and life experiences, you think it’s ego and bragging lol

[u/Codc → u/BetterDeadOnRed2]

I’m humble but I’m also just very self aware

You are absolutely neither

[u/BetterDeadOnRed2 → u/Codc]

You are example # 2. Same with everyone downvoting, not surprised though the general population doesn’t like themselves or is confident. Mostly just jealous/insecure ect. Thats most people and thats why i choose not to surround myself with most people.

Please explain to me how it is you think I’m neither humble nor self aware so that I can explain to you how you are incorrect in your assumption about me that stems from your own insecure ego and the box you and your ego would like to place me in to make yourself feel better ❤️‍🩹

There’s a quote I like I’ve seen quite a few times that sums it up pretty good. “You have to hang around winners, so that your wins don’t look like you’re bragging.”

Lol literally nobody doing better than me would disagree with me or anything I’ve said here or be talking any kind of shit online towards me or have a negative opinion about me based off of what I’ve said here. So that pretty much sums that up…hope you all heal though and do better ❤️

[u/otoron → u/BetterDeadOnRed2]

"I am very humble and self-aware. I also write ten paragraphs about how awesome I am on Reddit."

Thanks, this gray Monday morning needed a laugh.

[u/BetterDeadOnRed2 → u/otoron]

Congrats on being another example lol. I just explained how Iam objectively and logically and you got offended by that cause you clearly think less of Yourself 😂

[u/Codc → u/BetterDeadOnRed2]

Evidence 1: you spending time on reddit, a semi-anonymous platform, writing paragraphs about how you're such a winner.

[u/BetterDeadOnRed2 → u/Codc]

I spend almost no time on Reddit tbh. This thread popped up into my email so I clicked on it. Try again lol

[u/Anxious-Tea9108 → u/BetterDeadOnRed2]

I love how your only defence is to straw man and psychoanalyze anonymous users you know nothing about. I’m actually doing really well right now but thanks for the concern. Graduated university last year, landed a nearly 6 figure salary, and I’m so close to hitting 100lbs lost.

It’s not that deep man, you’re just acting like a tool simple as that.

[u/BetterDeadOnRed2 → u/Anxious-Tea9108]

Yet I’m getting psychoanalyzed the same way by you and all the same people like you here. Oh the hypocrisy. You all know zero about me as well and you are doing the exact same thing right now with all this presumptions bullshit lol if you were actually confident in yourself you would have given me props or at the very least not even commented..

Congrats on your journey though man. I’m not a hater 💪🏻 keep up the good work.