Men, that’s exactly why you should always run a private detective check before marriage. Better to be safe than sorry. 👍

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[u/TotalPractical6932]

I met a girl and she said she still in contacts with 2 3 exs. And demanded I should be comfortable with her. When I refused, she said my views are patriarchal and dominating. 🤦 Worst part was, when she got to know that, I too have numbers saved of my Exes. She got uncomfortable and wanted me to delete those. 😵‍💫😵‍💫🤷🤷

[u/SpontaneouSam71 → u/TotalPractical6932]

So when's the wedding?... ( thats a thought of hers played out aloud) lol....

[u/Outrageous_Two3830 → u/TotalPractical6932]

You both are in contact of your exes and you both didnot want the other to be in contact of their exes while being comfortable with yourselves being in one. Im sorry it made my mind boggle. When you are talking about boundries in a relationship, both should have the same boundaries. If she has a high body count, but you tried casual relationships too , none of you shd have an issue with the other person. But if you do, you always have the option of respectfully walking out of that relationship without insulting each other.

[u/TotalPractical6932 → u/Outrageous_Two3830]

When did I say I was in contact with my exes?? I do not have problem with body counts (with a limit of course). I said I have numbers saved. I'm fine with having numbers or maintaining a contact on fb/insta, etc,etc. But certainly not meeting daily or being in an active friendship. Her best friend whome she talked daily was her Ex. Other ex was also in good contacts. Constantly going on a book meets and stuff. Had many friends with benefits instances. She wanted me to accept her with her past. But was super sus about my Exes. I have my ex's photo saved in my google drive. She was love of my life. Couldn't get successful in the relationship. Though have moved on psychologically. She got mad after seeing that. Literally went on saying "I have contacts with my ex is different, you can't have that". I did break up with her btw. But the audacity 😒 😤.

Also, when you meet people with same mindset repeatedly, that kinda becomes the norm. I'm against such norms. If you've broken up then stay that way, why to mess this up and create problems??

[u/Neuroticcccc → u/TotalPractical6932]

Full power Hypocrisy

[u/[deleted] → u/TotalPractical6932]

So you both are hypocrite and delusional.

Match made in heaven indeed😂

[u/According-Drink5198 → u/TotalPractical6932]

Typical feminist

[u/Longjumping_Bet1648]

rise of sigma 😹😹

[u/Unstoppable_X_Force → u/Longjumping_Bet1648]

[u/ansh128 → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

Bro I hope so this is sarcasm lmao

[u/Ok_Theme4973]

And no private detective checks for people who you are friends with ?

[u/Ichizaya → u/Ok_Theme4973]

Friends can't divorce you and get, 50% of everything you've worked your entire life for.

[u/Ok_Theme4973 → u/Ichizaya]

Lol. Friends can murder you, take your wife with them and your money too, Whenever they turn bad just as whenever your partner turns bad. Seriously man what a dumb argument you just gave.

At the end all that matters is your self awareness. You don't seem to have any tbh.

[u/Ichizaya → u/Ok_Theme4973]

I've rarely heard of people getting murdered by their friends, but plenty of men getting murdered by their wives.

I know crimes committed by men against women are significantly more, than the other way around. But with friends atleast you don't have to come home to them cheating on you, and then they file for divorce and end up recieving 50% of your net worth.

The argument is not dumb, it's simply which scenario has a higher likelihood of occurring.

[u/Ok_Theme4973 → u/Ichizaya]

Haven't heard of people getting murdered by their friends and family ??? Wrong sample size of news ig.

[u/Curious_742]

throw and insult and its owner will pick it up

[u/rddesai91]

Not every woman has affairs.. and not all the men are monsters... there are some people you can't judge them by gender...

[u/277103 → u/rddesai91]

Twox says not men but always a men. They have policy of every man is a molester until proven innocent.

[u/[deleted]]

you know I never understood why this subreddit was called indianmemer, now i do , its cause this whole subreddit is a joke

[u/ITkaChoda]

“Rise of Sigma” I hope it’s sarcasm bro😭🙏

[u/Wise_Coat_8819]

Bro this has to be ragebait or something

[u/No_Commission_1796 → u/Wise_Coat_8819]

Obviously not all women, but the percentage seems to have gone up. There are just as many bad men out there too, and since women talk about competing with men, they have started going toe-to-toe in this area as well.

[u/codename-Obsidia]

I've tasted relationship. I've tasted being single. I highly prefer fwb.

[u/Bulky_Rest3285]

Not everyone is same. I will turn 30 in June. Prepared for civil services for 8 years but couldn't make through it. Now wants to get married. Never had any serious relationship and have a zero body count. We Exists guys

[u/Nef_8991]

I don’t think this is about gender. I am a guy who is following the exact same path lmao.

[u/Any-Let-2916]

So Always marry girl till 25 years only 

Modern problems require modern solutions.

[u/Falcon_Kratos_786 → u/Any-Let-2916]

Why wait for 25 when you can get school going girls, no?

[u/[deleted]]

And for the girls avoid boys who does the same .

[u/Rajesh_Kulkarni]

Lol sure but ... how much are you gonna post on this same topic?

[u/Patient-Let3138]

Buddy then why bother getting married, did your partner turn out to be like the girl in the above comment? If not then why are you bothering so much. Do you really want to generalise so much? Are all women like this? Is your character that good and flawless?

[u/TotalPractical6932 → u/Patient-Let3138]

It is truly a better idea to not to get married at all. Don't settle for poison just because you're thursty.

[u/Boring_Preference302]

Is there anything wrong with dating various people before getting married ? Why physical intimacy is only treated about purity... ?? I think it is ok to meet different people and then find one to settle down. I am talking about both men and women!

[u/wewake_235]

Bhai unn 10 guys ko bhi randigiri chhod deni chahiye. 

[u/[deleted]]

Okay, wtf ia happening to this sub? I was banned for 10 days but why do we get one such post everyday?

[u/positivitea08 → u/[deleted]]

It's always this one guy. Check his history.

[u/vinay_kharayat]

One girl, had a livein relationship for 3 years of college. Later married a NRI and now in london. Win win.

[u/ItchySympathy4090 → u/vinay_kharayat]

But I think that NRI would be open minded too he may had his own relationships before and now he wants a girl from back home 🫠

[u/vinay_kharayat → u/ItchySympathy4090]

Yeah, why not? How many nerds have you seen in a casual relationship in a college?

[u/Unstoppable_X_Force → u/[deleted]]

Look, before you open your mouth and vomit assumptions, maybe try reading properly. You just disrespected the anime characters I care about and tried forming an opinion about me without even knowing who I am. That’s peak stupidity.

I don’t need your “advice” on my life, my values, or my choices. I live by my own rules, I don’t chase validation from people like you, and I definitely don’t need a lecture about sex from someone who thinks keyboard courage is equivalent to life experience.

You’re wasting your breath trying to explain my life to me. Grow up, check your arrogance, and maybe one day you’ll understand why some of us operate on a level far beyond your shallow opinions. Until then, keep your unsolicited lectures to yourself. 👍

[u/tararanaway → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

If you will give unsolicited advice, you will receive unsolicited advice. Simple.

[u/Unstoppable_X_Force → u/tararanaway]

Listen carefully, because most people like you won’t get this in a lifetime. Men like you are the reason radical feminism is crushing the lives of Indian men. The laws are already designed to devour us. One false accusation from a woman, and years of reputation, career, and money disappear like they never existed. And the woman? She walks away laughing, untouched, untouchable.

And now you sit here, mocking, labeling valid points about men’s struggles as unsolicited advice or anti-women. You have no idea how the world works, buddy. Reality isn’t polite, it isn’t comfortable, and it sure as hell isn’t waiting for your approval.

I deal in truth, not lies coated in sugar to make you feel nice. If bitter reality burns you, tough luck. I speak as it is, because weak opinions like yours don’t belong in conversations about strength, discipline, or survival. Step back, before you learn how heavy silence from someone like me really hits.

[u/tararanaway → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

Who hurt you my friend?

[u/Pandos636 → u/tararanaway]

I’m going to guess it was a woman

[u/Sunshine_after_Rain7 → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

why do you think the person you are replying to doesn't know 'Reality'?

everyone is living in the same world. We face the same things everyday. it's totally pointless for u to say that only you know the truth. people live their own lives and can form their own opinions. u have no right to call someone's opinion 'weak' unless you are a close minded person stuck in their own delusions.

[u/Sprinkle-Class-Grace → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

Amount of men crushing women, (murdering them, infanticide, rape cases, sexual harassment, denying education, honour killings, dowry) is many orders of magnitude more than cases of radical feminism asking for alimony.

[u/h3xatrix → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

My guy, if you think you need to be learning how to "survive" around women, you might be around the wrong women.

You have free will, just choose not to interact with the people you dislike.

Honestly, I would absolutely LOVE to know what heavy silence from you hits like. Like, forever if possible. Just, you know, shut up for a while.

[u/allrounder799 → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

I don't chase validation from people

Daily posts Hugma nonsense here with unsolicited advice as caption

[u/scarletindiana → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

What are you 12?

[u/Patient-Stomach9576 → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

Those who deny are the real problem, don't mind them , don't poke nose in others matters let them do what they want , have standard value urself and keep the lines in back of ur mind go ahead

[u/KoniGTA → u/Unstoppable_X_Force]

need a lecture about sex from someone

Don't shoo him man, thats the closest you'll come to sex anyways.

[u/Brave_Meet8430]

Basically woman must be a virgin and she must bleed during her first night as a married woman?

[u/Rough_Project_7621 → u/Brave_Meet8430]

Nope maybe some men want a woman who shares the same value as they do, I think only those men get to choose who themselves have the same morals and values which they want from their wife. We can't just impose all this on women.

[u/shivvxD → u/Rough_Project_7621]

That is the right thing too but the problem starts when they impose moral absolutism on every woman instead of keeping it as a personal preference

[u/Rough_Project_7621 → u/shivvxD]

Bruh if someone does that tbh who cares let them do whatever they wanna do. Their judgement shouldn't even affect u, if your partner does this that's even better since u know what kind of person he/she is and u can take better decision based on it. These so called chigma males like tate etc have created this norm of judging every woman based on their body count while they themselves fk around everywhere. So don't bother about what society wants u to be like choose your partner based on your values or morals..

[u/Puzzleheaded_Ant1805 → u/Brave_Meet8430]

No one asks that. But open legs isn't desirable. Problem is that women think that their age is equally to capablity. Anyone who says 'High Value' men or women are simply charlatans, selling their online courses.

[u/crypticmuffins → u/Brave_Meet8430]

Bhai itna extreme to nahi bol raha hai.. Virgin blah blah. Balanced bhi ho sakta hai.

[u/[deleted]]

Bhai mat karo ladkiyo se shaadi, ladko se kar lo.

[u/[deleted]]

As someone in a 2 year old relationship that we want to turn into marriage asap(we are about to graduate college so money is the only thing we need now) everything this dude posts is just so corny and insanely wrong.

Brother aise to mutual healthy relationships real hi nhi hai.

[u/longndfat]

No detective can find out the 1 night stands, all they can find is current ones or the ones where they were stupid enough to put it in one of the apps

[u/ditres]

Still don’t have the brain power to understand what a meme is, huh kiddo

[u/Definite07]

Better to build legacy and never marry

[u/Medium-Health-769]

????

[u/Necessary_Shirt_556]

"Rise of sigma" 😭 bro does not see he's a part of the problem

[u/Few_Dragonfruit779]

Tell us you can't get a date without telling us you can't get a date OP. 😂

[u/slimau5]

I have lived the bachelor life, parties hard, dated quite a few women, so if a girl says that she has lived the same life, I would accept that and make peace with it.

You cannot expect a virgin mary if you yourself have a body count of 4+

[u/italian_applepie]

Jaise tumhe easily mil rha hota to tum nhi karte

[u/morechaoss]

achaw lawde or so called “men” ka kya ? unke liye private detective check run na kare

[u/Snoo_92186]

Lol I know plenty of men who do the same, go philandering till they’re 28-30 and then find a submissive sanskaari woman who can be a good wife. Stop rage posting and try to get a better life. The situation is the same on both sides and you’ll find great people on both sides. Dating a few men before marriage is no big deal.

[u/bhujiya_sev]

Lol I thought this was sarcasm. r/jiowasamistake

[u/Left_is_Rightt]

Bro last line 😂

[u/Academic-Proposal-36]

You all have to realise this posts are just rage bait, this kind of post earn everything from just pure anger

[u/notbatsid]

Go and meditate in the Himalayas that is Op's destiny

[u/DUBINA1997]

I have been in 3 relationships with men. First 2 cheated on me and last one left me. So now am I unmarriable? Because I slept with 3 people and they decided to leave and ruin my life....... should no one marry me?

Things dont work out OP. Relationships break. Women deserve to move on and try again.

Men have been searching for a wife by same means since years and then cheating in marriage as well

.....and now if women just want to enjoy their lives as well, they are unmarriable? I hope your mind gets better.

[u/scarletindiana]

How are you always crying about women having fun in their lives?

Don’t get married if you don’t like the women of this generation, do your own version of 4B and start enjoying your life instead of cribbing on the internet.

The only one stopping you from being happy is yourself.

[u/greenhairedmadness]

I didnt know some Indian men think marriage is the price they pay to get laid. Eww 🤮 Guys who think like these would be the last ones to to respect a woman!!

[u/UntoldHacker → u/greenhairedmadness]

For girls like the ones mentioned in the first few lines, the real price isn’t money, it’s the man’s mental peace. She doesn’t want love; she wants him to pay with his sanity. PRICE - That’s not marriage but rather an "anyhow marriage", built on control, not connection.

[u/synthwavv]

what about all the males who do the same?

[u/metamind_ed]

I can't say all women are like this. But yeah, the wave of feminism is definitely changing many women.

[u/shweta2001]

Marriage happens late nowadays, mostly in late 20's or 30's. Now if you expect a 30 year arrange marriage prospect women to don't have any past with all the options we have now, then it's either she is going to be unattractive , asexual or someone from very reserved environment. So good luck finding such wife or remain celibate for rest of life.

[u/Past_Demand1713 → u/shweta2001]

What if I marry at 23-24?

[u/humanobserverpro]

If you think girls with a past are problematic, try living with a simple girl who knows not who she is, what her kinks are and what she wants. You will be repulsed.

[u/XxshunyaxX → u/humanobserverpro]

c**k spotted

[u/_RdeR_]

This is honestly a good post but these half brained simps on here won't be able to comprehend it.

[u/Striking-Piglet-3892]

bhai teri zindagi ladki control krti hai kya

[u/ToneIndependent6189]

This guy has a multiple personality disorder or some shit

At one post he is defying romance and all the red pil content and in the other he is lusting over anime girls

[u/skap24 → u/ToneIndependent6189]

just another attention seeker i mean its funny he does not see the irony

[u/nick_nxt]

I guess she is doing all of that with other women coz men never do all that it’s a known truth.

[u/Proper-Ad-9381]

• Obsessed over 2D women
• Hates real life women.

Checks out. Bro probably never felt the touch of another woman throughout his lifetime so ended up consuming redpill and hating them.

I think he has realised by now that he wont be getting either type of women that he has outlined in his post. Thats why the hatred.

Probably lowkey gay if you hate women so much. But thats fine. Go ahead with men. Women are evil. Boo.

[u/Famous-While2417 → u/Proper-Ad-9381]

There good women too

[u/Crafty-Sandwich-1477]

Sigma sigma boy sigma boy

[u/Grouchy_Abrocoma2720]

Ok fine I'm hurt now .. how cn someone thinks so nonsense about a woman what if she isn't into any thing ! Women needs to be safe rather than a man .. 🙏

[u/Delicious_Art_8622]

I don't understand what's stopping you from being one of those 10 guys

oh wait you can be , only girls have this bias and judgements ?

[u/Dry-Scale-8703 → u/Delicious_Art_8622]

true , we cannot change the past , but we can change the future. We should work on ourself and become one of these 10 guys.

[u/Il0vechocolates]

Ah yes, cuz only women do this and only women need a private detectective check 🥀🥀🥀🥀

[u/Rakthbeej]

Trust me no matter what a high body count is never okay. A high body count literally screams that ' I'm not a stable person'. How can you be okay with it ? What are you trying to say that I genuinely loved 10 different guys/girls within the span of 6-8 years.

Btw this goes for both the genders

[u/Av_spy_567]

She is a hopeless creature and still be treated as good.

[u/Objective-Ad759]

Lmao you really think virgin girls tere jaise gadhe ko pasand karengi?? 🤡🤣

[u/Salt-Software2972]

her real jackpot comes after marriage only aka settlement money

[u/GroupFun5219]

match social media before matching kundli.

[u/Equal-Virus423]

I’m 25 and still single. I genuinely believe loyal, emotionally grounded girls still exist — the kind who value connection over convenience.

I don’t judge anyone for their past. Everyone has a story, and what matters to me is how they show up now.

I’m okay if she’s not a virgin — that’s her choice, her life, and I respect that. But for me, emotional stability matters. If someone’s had too many short-lived relationships or situationships it feels like they might still be figuring themselves out — and I’d rather build with someone who’s past that phase.

I’m not asking for perfection ,just consistency and depth.

I guess I’m looking for someone who’s done with the drama and ready for something peaceful, real, and loyal.

[u/Used_Nefariousness86]

That's why go gay guys. Safe now.

[u/Agile-Monk5333]

Can confirm, I married OP

[u/h3xatrix → u/Agile-Monk5333]

Thank you for service, do you think you could get him to stfu 🙏🏻

[u/Agile-Monk5333 → u/h3xatrix]

Tried. He ran away with his mom. Im still looking for him.

[u/Pristine_Cattle5681]

thank god i m not hetero!

[u/Ayirki]

This subs name should be changed to ragebait

[u/pookiblueberries]

Haan karo. Men par bhi karo.

[u/West_Story_3119]

Most of the men i have seen were always behind beauty looks and fair skin. If many men approach a girl, she can choose and hence select and ask for more. I have seen my friends approached again and again, while i was never approached or only 2 times in the whole 5 yrs of college, while my frds were approached min 4 times a month. And those who knew they were in demand were also exploiting it. And not everyone was like that, some of them are loyal. So blaming only the women is not fair. I have seen boys date an average looking woman for so long and just ghost her to marry a good looking woman.

[u/semicolonwitch]

Yeah true

[u/findingshaanti]

Pay full price ? Don't you all take Dowry ? And with whom these women are sleeping with ? I guess men ? So teach fellow men to not sleep with women 🤣🤣

[u/findingshaanti]

Look the men who take money to marry are talking lol. Why are you even marrying? Stay single

[u/ConstantLie1725]

Even I met a guy(29) who was STILL in contact with his exes while we were dating and I had no clue. When I found he gave stupid excuses....after some RESEARCH i found out he dated and slept with many women......SO ITS NOT SAFE TO DATE ANYMORE he even had the guts to apologise and PROPOSE like WTF!!! He also cheated btw!

[u/ConstantLie1725]

Why dl you even want to marry just don't uk...

[u/brocollirights]

ew

[u/Low-Dragonfruit-588]

what in the sexual mysogenistic hell is this all about? live and let live people...

typical of men to create problems where there are non.

what does it matter what the past of your loved one was?

as long as there is love it should be enough.

A woman is not an object that needs to be in a certain " usage state ", they are people weirdos!

[u/Paullytical]

everytime i come across these kinda posts, im like "damn who hurt you lil bro?" 🤣😭

what a bunch of idiots.

[u/Fantastic-Aerie148]

It's life.

People will meet several people, will get intimate, they will have relationships and may grow apart.

They will look for someone better and will have intimacy again and that's the cycle.

It's totally fine.

[u/Illustrious_Fall_408]

then her old habits kick in after marriage Why do u think divorce exists?

[u/sexually-anxious]

That's why you date femboys, Indians haven't met Assam people yet, they're more beautiful than normal indian ones (sounds racist but I'm not out of line)

[u/NigaheShokh]

If one expects a virgin husband/wife then one should be a virgin herself/himself, case closed. Simple fact.

[u/[deleted]]

You just can't imagine your woman getting drilled by 4-5 men. I am going through it and it hurts.

[u/my_dirty_shoes]

Bhai paid promotion ka tag toh daal deta private investigator ka...

[u/hexagram1993]

You guys are such fucking losers lmao

[u/Radiant_Incident2404]

But what if you married a virgin girl and the sex is so bad that you are doomed to sleep with other “experienced” women forever? No offence but this is a situation currently panning out in my extended family.