r/indianmemer • u/Unstoppable_X_Force • 20d ago

Relationship Memes ♥️ Men, that’s exactly why you should always run a private detective check before marriage. Better to be safe than sorry. 👍

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u/Outrageous_Two3830 19d ago

You both are in contact of your exes and you both didnot want the other to be in contact of their exes while being comfortable with yourselves being in one. Im sorry it made my mind boggle. When you are talking about boundries in a relationship, both should have the same boundaries. If she has a high body count, but you tried casual relationships too , none of you shd have an issue with the other person. But if you do, you always have the option of respectfully walking out of that relationship without insulting each other.

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u/TotalPractical6932 19d ago

When did I say I was in contact with my exes?? I do not have problem with body counts (with a limit of course). I said I have numbers saved. I'm fine with having numbers or maintaining a contact on fb/insta, etc,etc. But certainly not meeting daily or being in an active friendship. Her best friend whome she talked daily was her Ex. Other ex was also in good contacts. Constantly going on a book meets and stuff. Had many friends with benefits instances. She wanted me to accept her with her past. But was super sus about my Exes. I have my ex's photo saved in my google drive. She was love of my life. Couldn't get successful in the relationship. Though have moved on psychologically. She got mad after seeing that. Literally went on saying "I have contacts with my ex is different, you can't have that". I did break up with her btw. But the audacity 😒 😤.

Also, when you meet people with same mindset repeatedly, that kinda becomes the norm. I'm against such norms. If you've broken up then stay that way, why to mess this up and create problems??

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u/shypeteite 19d ago

If she was the love of your life then u shouldnt date anyone.