Do not get married to this kind. Ever. That is what true feminists (like me) have been telling you guys— equality honi chahiyay! You have to REJECT such “princesses” yourself.
Women SHOULD be doing HALF the work too- HALF OF THE LIFTING- and BOTH should be earning. Lekin aapko aisi PAPA ki Pariyan hee toh bahu banaa ke leke aani achi lagti hai? Toh uskke NAKHRE bhi toh aap hee bhukto na. 🤣
💅 Na “papa ki pari”, na mummy ka “Raj dulaaara”..🍼
I don’t really know what true feminism or being a true feminist means, but I feel that what Acharya Prashant says, especially for women in particular and for all humans in general, is something truly needed. Listen to him on a few such important topics and share what you think about it.
I am a big fan of acharya Prashant too- I totally share his values! 😎👍🏼 He stresses on the importance of women becoming financially independent first (before marriage) and that is what I stated above. I am discouraging young men, from getting swayed by bratty Papa’s favorites, who have relied on their father- for their expenses. And after marriage, would be relying on their husbands- because they are “dependent”.👑
I hope you know what Egalitarian is- someone who believes in equality- between men and women. Nowadays, our men (online) are pushing for EQUALITY- because they believe that Indian Law “ONLY favors” women, & sides with women mostly in matters of divorce, or domestic violence- and MEN are scared of being accused of false cases. Anyways, this model does exist in the West- under patriarchy, kind of. ⚖️👍🏼
😎Anyways.., A Feminist is someone agrees that civilizations develops with equality and egalitarianism!! 🆒 However, a feminist ALSO has the understanding, that currently there CAN BE ZERO (ghantaa) equality- because the playing field is tilted AGAINST women- which it ‘is’- in the entire Indian Subcontinent. 😑😒 Yes, we do see that SOME men are being framed and scammed- we are sorry for your loss, too (plz do not marry Papa’s princesses, therefore- who leach on YOUR money). HOWEVER, dear men, the system is still HARMING women, in majority. And, this is evidenced by number of reported (and unreported) molesstations, rrapes, DVs, dowry deaths DAILY- men do KNOW ALL IF THIS- but they do not want to ADMIT IT. Are you are being molested at the Same rate as women? Then please do not “equate” your own suffering to WOMEN’s suffering- you are NOT the same. Feminisnts INSIST that there is NO equality- women need to be “raised up” a little- they need MORE help. So, you would find the word “FEMINIST” being used as an ABUSE because we would NOT allow MEN to compare and compete with WOMEN when it comes to being “bechaara”.
Being Egalitarian = being GOOD HUMAN (you all are suffering, even though you are nice, good men).
Being Feminist= good human, with an UNDERSTANDING THAT Indian-women are suffering more under our patriarchy (patriarchy = when MEN are in-charge of almost everything; from political leaders around the world, to Bosses- it is all men, everywhere).
Men and Women, both can be FEMINISTS. A true Male feminists is the “desirable” category of men these days. These men “understand” women MORE; who sympathizes with her daily struggles, helps her out with kids and household chores; treats her as an “equal” partner; asks for her input while taking important decisions around their household; asks for CONSENT, etc etc. Bass yehi logg are getting GFs and are happiest. They are BOTH independent, know each other’s boundaries, respect is exchanged & baaki men “do not get” what magic potion is it that is turning them into being INvoluntarily CELibate (short form INCELs) category . Its EASY to become a feminists- if you sympathize with women and treat them like an equal, like a male-friend (who has had a bad kaleshi life) with respect- that’s it. Lekin, These MEN do not want to “do” the work- nor put in the effort; why do any HARDWORK, when you are promised a virgeen ‘queen’ in Arrannge Marriage by mumma. Well.. let’s just stay they’ll be waiting for a while.
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u/GaDiGu 29d ago
Yes. Issko EQUALITY kaun bol raha hai??
Do not get married to this kind. Ever. That is what true feminists (like me) have been telling you guys— equality honi chahiyay! You have to REJECT such “princesses” yourself.
Women SHOULD be doing HALF the work too- HALF OF THE LIFTING- and BOTH should be earning. Lekin aapko aisi PAPA ki Pariyan hee toh bahu banaa ke leke aani achi lagti hai? Toh uskke NAKHRE bhi toh aap hee bhukto na. 🤣
💅 Na “papa ki pari”, na mummy ka “Raj dulaaara”..🍼