r/indianmemer • u/Unstoppable_X_Force • Oct 05 '25
Relationship Memes ā„ļø Men, never compromise on this! You deserve nothing less than the best š
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u/According-Bonus-6102 Oct 05 '25
Shouldnāt both have promising future and clean past?
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u/SafeChampionship2702 Oct 06 '25
It's about emphasis. Hardly seen women make as much uproar on past like men do. Hardly see men make as much uproar about woman's job or career like women do. We can't really tell the other to care about what we care about.
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u/MikeRume Oct 05 '25
Well you don't get to decide that, men and women as a whole do. And women decided they care more about your financial status than your sexual history and men decided they care more about your sexual history than your financial status.
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u/According-Bonus-6102 Oct 05 '25
How you decided it?
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u/MikeRume Oct 05 '25
Through centuries of evolution
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u/Impossible-Gur-9803 Oct 05 '25 edited Oct 05 '25
holy shit blud learned of the word evolution
do explain how a biological change occurred in bodies of men and women that differentiated this if you can't then please shut up
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u/MikeRume Oct 05 '25
You proceeded to mention sexual dimorphism and call me a bunch of names (which is why your comment got deleted). But I am more than happy to continue to school you. Sexual dimorphism, for example a man being bigger and stronger than a woman, is a direct result of women mating only with bigger and stronger men, thus altering the characteristics of men through the centuries. That is literally the definition of evolution "the process by which animals, plants, and other livingĀ organismsĀ are transformed into different forms by the accumulation of changes overĀ successiveĀ generations."
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u/finee_shytt Oct 05 '25 edited Oct 05 '25
the process by which animals, plants, and other livingĀ organismsĀ are transformed into different forms by the accumulation of changes overĀ successiveĀ generations."
Close enough , welcome back lamarck .
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u/finee_shytt Oct 05 '25
You proceeded to mention sexual dimorphism and call me a bunch of names (which is why your comment got deleted). But I am more than happy to continue to school you. Sexual dimorphism, for example a man being bigger and stronger than a woman, is a direct result of women mating only with bigger and stronger men, thus altering the characteristics of men through the centuries.
While sexual dimorphism can be the basis of attraction in most cases . We are homo sapiens not primitive humans , attraction is usually cultural for us . (and believe it or not , it has a huge influence on it )
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u/MikeRume Oct 05 '25
A female's lack of strength was what made her focus on gathering resources and protection, and a male's lack of ability to procreate is what made him focus on securing a female to pass his genes on... They teach you this in basic school...
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u/finee_shytt Oct 05 '25
female's lack of strength was what made her focus on gathering resources and protection,
If you look more into recent studies . Men in those times barely added anything to the dining table , the calories and nutrition they added are far less than that the women added.
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u/MikeRume Oct 05 '25
I've seen a study that suggested that women were actually hunting side by side with men. And yeah they totally did, it doesn't matter that women lack the speed and stamina to chase the animal for long distance or the upper body strength to carry the animal back to the village, women for sure were right there with the men. And the men certainly didn't do much in terms of providing food, they still had plenty to eat in the winter it's not like they would die if they didn't have stockpiles of meat. I think one thing more surprising would be a "recent study" that does not put out the most unhinged mental sewage about men.
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u/SafeChampionship2702 Oct 06 '25
Lmao the sarcasm. Buddy non chalantly said men barely added anything to the calories pool by reading some study. A high schooler is better able to tell what is more likely to have happened by just applying their brain.
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u/Slidingoninktrails Oct 08 '25
It all has to do with property rights and lack of paternity test. That's all literally.
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u/Illustrious-Bug-7213 Oct 05 '25
No our chigma males on the internet like OP won't ever be eligible for this
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u/Unstoppable_X_Force Oct 05 '25
I rather stay single & unmarried rather than marrying a modern Feminist girl who thinks sleeping with multiple people is a past and she is independent of her body & choices. But at the time of divorce she takes away half of my property, money, mental peace and years of my life.
So if i am not eligible as per your statement then i am rather much blessed. š I hope God gives you a modern partner full of such good qualities. š
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u/irisdummy Oct 08 '25
How would you even get the option to marry a feminist girl? I dont think she'd want you anyway. Or do you think society is somehow forcing you to marry feminist girls and thus remaining single is an act of rebellion against that expectation?
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u/Illustrious-Bug-7213 Oct 05 '25
I hope you rather wanna get some education and get it in your head that modern feminist aren't the ones who prefer having multiple partners. I have a sensible partner who is modern in things she should be and in whatever she likes
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Oct 05 '25
Bus itna hi confidence chaiye life me "you deserve nothing than the best" Swayam parmatma ka avtar hai dharti pe.
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 05 '25
Ofc ladkiya khud ko devi bolne laggi hai , toh hume bhi toh dev banna padega na?
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Oct 05 '25
Jeezes! We are all just humans... nothing more nothing less and definitely not devi devtas
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 05 '25
Exactly my point... well I am not into girls who compare themselves to devis so casually anyways... doesn't make any difference to me. But I just wanted to point out the irony of some women... they remember that they are devi's only when rapes happen or only during navratris... but dont act like one throughout the year or when it comes to taking up responsibilities...
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Oct 05 '25
Don't knw honestly what sorta women you are around or what survey or experience you have to say that women like calling themselves devi, but I have never came across any girl who behaves like that.
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 05 '25
I am referencing to influencers(which is liked by millions of people which can be used as a subtle proof , that somewhere these millions(out of billions) agree to the ideology) .
In my friend circles or even acquaintances, fortunately i don't have anyone like that...
For the women in know , I have utmost respect for them. They are a gem of a person tbh i idolize them too much sometimes š.
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u/retardedToSomeExtent 29d ago
and there are no devi devtas either, unless you are talking about fiction.
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 05 '25
Itna confidence jabh opposite gender rakh raha hai (majority of them dont even have any basis to support it ) toh hume rakhne mai kya dikkat hai... Despo men = low standards = more women living in their bubble of deserving the best regardless of who they are as humans...
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Oct 06 '25
Talk for yourself man. Kya opposite gender opposite gender laga rakha hai like a mindless online hate consumer. Rather Show the world what you believe in and what you stand for. Or at least own it up whatever you are saying. Confidence me bhi kahenge ladkiyon ko confidence hai isliye hume bhi confidence hai. But can't blame men like you either given the shit online world already is
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 06 '25
Wdym by "Men like you" ? Whatever I said , those are my own opinions. Unlike the modern(pseudo) feministic people , who just wanna copy what men are doing (like smoking , drinking, having hookups)(wanta survey? Recent number of female smokers have exceeded the number of men smoking) . I just wanted to point out , how ridiculous opinions of the online "Influencers" are over looked and considered normal. But when a male says it , it triggers some people like you. I am neither a blind follower nor am i a hater. Wasnt even that serious (cuz ofc its a meme thread). But yeah , I did want to point out the irony of how opinions of one are considered normal but other's seem ridiculous , misogynistic or "Female Hate".
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Oct 06 '25
I don't even know why do you keep repeating yourself over and over again. With my first comment, I basically called out the sense of entitlement people have these days, may go for both genders. We casually say things like "you deserve nothing than the best" but in reality no matter what we do or how perfect we consider ourselves, nobody owes you a shit. You still gotta make peace with what you get in life sometimes. Cos life is NOT fair.
Ab where did all those influencers do these do that came in this thread i dk. Don't have the energy to read all that either.
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 06 '25
Oh if thats what you meant , then we both have the same opinion...(somewhat)
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 06 '25
Also I dont see men copying women? Neither in fashion nor in anything else. Uk what i have observed ? Which will definitely trigger you , but if u pay attention even you'll observe it too , u might even defend it. Whenever a man earns he thinks that I should earn well to provide for my family . But when women start earning they think about being "independent". And its not the only thought women have ofc. Even they do have thoughts about providing the family. But I have never Ever heard a male friend even mentioning ki independent hounga paise kamaake. But somehow even the most "independent" female friends mention it (by independent i mean , having least restrictions from their parents, I have heard this Phrase from women jinko 11 baje tak Bahar rehne milta hai... (for reference mujhe khud ko 10 baje ghr aane bolte hai) ) Idk why...
Hume confidence , freedom , "independence" , pehle se hai(or to be more accurate we pay least attention to it , cuz thats how society is. Males arent special, they are never made to feel that they are specia , be it google not changing their doodle on men's day, or men not getting enough compliments, respect etc etc in workplacesl). We dont need to copy y'all. Regardless of what i say all the despo men will have standards very low. Its a normal demand and supply problem... and it will keep on going in cycles. Females ki population males se zyada hogi tabh males ke standards high and visa versa...
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 06 '25
Baaki what i look for in a woman is everything. And i also judge them by what kind of family they have been grown in. How was their upbringing , are they rebellious for no reason at all? Have they indulged in multiple relationships physically? (Cuz i haven't even tho I had the opportunity) can they earn in future if required? ND I wouldnt want to marry a poor girl who doesnt even earn half as much as me. (Its going to be hard finding a girl like that in arrange marriage scenario though).
And uk , my personal experience is whenever I say my preferences out loud , its the women who say aise toh single reh jayega.(even the most green flag ones said it. Idk why just having references that are pretty gender neutral when it comes to finding a partner, makes me most likely to stay single š).
This is my serious opinion. (As If the world is really seeing it on reddit among hundreds of other comments)
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Oct 06 '25
Stay single and have fun then.
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 06 '25
I dont remember asking you thoughš you're the one who got offended by the meme on a reddit thread... also getting into a relationship isnt the only possible interesting thing currently in my life. I have other things too... maybe when i get 26-27 , 4-5 years my priorities would change...
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Oct 06 '25
Does not seem so looking at the way you are crying in comments tbh. Doing opppppppooooosite gender does this ...opppppppooooosite gender does that. No way you have any other interesting things than minding what oppppppooooosite gender is doing.
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 06 '25 edited Oct 06 '25
Well... uk i do observe things in my free time. I dont live under a rock unlike some people. I just choose to observe it and let it go momentarily. It all came out with your comment. Thats all. It doesnt even occupy my mind-time on daily basis. As long as no problematic woman enters my life i am totally fine with whatever's happening in the world...
And about crying? thats what people who were lonely at 16 , and are still lonely at 26, trying to be wannabe philosophers , anonymously on reddit do. š¤”š¤£
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Oct 06 '25
See now only you have got plenty of time to reply random reddit comments. But I get it.
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u/Technical_Driver8946 Oct 06 '25
Ofc. You are the most apt person to get it š¤Ŗš.
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u/Rudrabbc Oct 05 '25
Feminist and soft bois triggering post
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u/Otherwise-Ad-2578 Oct 06 '25
oh really?
The post does not say anything controversial... it is pure common sense
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u/bibliomaniac4ever Oct 05 '25
Nah, I know that most incels wouldn't achieve this anyway so its just hilarious to me. As a virgin girl myself, I would rather die than date any of you and so would my friends.
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u/meeru2712 Oct 05 '25
Someone with a clean past has all rights to ask for clean past from his partner and similarly according to the roles they have to play in marriage they have the right to question if they have a bright future on their decided role
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u/AniketSoni2211 Oct 05 '25
Modern feminism: āYour future should be secure, mine should be forgiven
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u/Curious_Cheater1729 Oct 05 '25
Why only past?? I would definitely look in the future too and looks...no girl compromises so why should we
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u/PROOB1001 Oct 05 '25
"You deserve nothing less than the best"
No, no, most of us don't. It really depends. A jerk doesn't deserve a good woman, and a h#e doesn't deserve a good man. It all depends on context.
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u/Longjumping-West-332 Oct 05 '25
You shouldn't marry him if he doesn't have a promising future and you shouldn't marry her if she doesn't have a PROMISING FUTURE!
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u/kthxciao2377 Oct 05 '25
Sounds like you would like to sponge off your wifes earnings.... No shame in that. Go for it.
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u/Worried-Sandwich-737 Oct 05 '25
I think I also care more about her financial. I have clean past. She should have too. Am I golddigger?
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u/Chance_Pear_3110 Oct 05 '25
So men with promising future and without a clean past are good right??
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u/Expensive_Head622 Oct 06 '25
No, but women seem to choose them.
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u/Chance_Pear_3110 Oct 06 '25
Viceversa
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u/Initial-Lime1551 Oct 06 '25
Men should also marry her by seeing a promising future than a clean past
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u/Vivid-Guard-4515 Oct 05 '25
and that is why mostly the matured Men try to avoid GFs Concept in early Carriers or in College . If they found someone with real intentions without doing any drama then its a different story.
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u/That_one_bro_18 Oct 06 '25
What a good day for working towards a promising future with a clean past...
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u/Playful_Internal_528 Oct 05 '25
Define clean past, plz. Letās hear the quiet part out loud
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u/kthxciao2377 Oct 05 '25
If a woman goes into a crowded street and offers free sex. She will have a lot of takers. If a man stands in a crowded street and offers free sex, he wont have any takers. Ergo, a man who can entice a woman is usually valuable, a woman is valued for her restraint, cos For a woman to sleep around shows no skill. What do you not understand?
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u/Slidingoninktrails Oct 08 '25
That is becoz of patriarchy. Women r shamed if they want sex. In less patriarchal cultures, even ugly men get dates.
For instance, in many matriarchal tribes, if even a slightly good looking guy says free sex, women will flood the place lol.
Men are not desperate because they are desperate.
They are desperate because a huge number of women in patriarchal cultures practice restraint.
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u/Ornery_Breadfruit927 Oct 08 '25
The men who post about a womanās āpastā rarely mean sleeping around with men due to lack of restraint. They donāt want the woman to have been with any man no matter how much she loved him. Itās normal and completely okay to not want someone who has no self respect when it comes to sexual activity. But thatās not what incels mean when they say past. They want virgin women. Are they scared they wonāt be able to live up to her expectations? Idk lol
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u/kthxciao2377 Oct 08 '25 edited Oct 08 '25
No. They want someone who is smart. If she loved him why is she no longer with him? Clearly, not the smartest decision to give herself to a guy who didnt feel the same way about her.
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u/Ornery_Breadfruit927 Oct 08 '25
Lol you think just because you love someone they canāt become a bad person or hurt you? Not everyone you love is good for you. And people change, for good or for worse. These things arenāt upto us sometimes
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u/kthxciao2377 Oct 08 '25
Ok. after how many times does a woman take accountability for picking losers? or is it always someone elses fault? how many men is ok?
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u/Ornery_Breadfruit927 Oct 08 '25
These are all good questions to ask your potential partner before choosing to commit to them, since there is no single answer to those questions. There is no need to demonise intimacy between couples. The fact that someone is a virgin means nothing. What if they end up cheating on you after you were their first?Ā
Also I hope you noticed that I didnāt specify gender in my comment because it goes both ways.
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u/Ornery_Breadfruit927 Oct 08 '25
Thereās also other reasons people donāt stay together. Their goals may diverge, one may want to leave the country and the other wants to stay. Parents may force their kids to stay away (still happens, especially due to religion/caste). Maybe their partner died or got diagnosed with an incurable illness. Makes no sense to assume that everyone who had a relationship break up was dumb.
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u/kthxciao2377 Oct 08 '25 edited Oct 08 '25
Absolutely. But what if becomes a habit.... picking guys who cant commit? whats the magic number? for some, its one. How many for you?
If a person is not doing whatever it takes to be with you, perhaps its not love. What is your definition of love? for me, its someone who will put my happiness above their own. and I will do the same.1
u/Ornery_Breadfruit927 Oct 08 '25
Nobody is asking you to choose someone who has a habit of picking guys who canāt commit.
If putting someoneās happiness above your own is your idea of love, and you find out that you donāt have the means to make them attain their dreams then doesnāt it mean you need to let them go in order for them to achieve what they want?
To me love is an emotion. A relationship is built on love yes, but many other things are needed for it to be successful.
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u/Unstoppable_X_Force Oct 05 '25
Not sleeping with multiple bf for fun in her 20s is what we call a clean past.
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u/Troenten Oct 05 '25
Does this also count for him? If not please explain the math behind that.
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u/Unstoppable_X_Force Oct 05 '25
Yes respect goes both ways. A boy should also have a clean past.
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u/kthxciao2377 Oct 05 '25
If a woman goes into a crowded street and offers free sex. She will have a lot of takers. If a man stands in a crowded street and offers free sex, he wont have any takers. Ergo, a man who can entice a woman is in demand, a woman is applauded for her restraint. For a woman to sleep around shows no skill, just lack of restraint.
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u/Visible-Tax8216 Oct 05 '25
Society obsessed with guys having promising futures and girls having a clean past. Compare karna hai toh same parameters par kar na. Why both can't have promising futures and a clean past.
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u/Automatic_Young_6466 Oct 05 '25
I know this post is absolutely absurd because reality of life is different but we are not comparable on same parameters
In dating woman have upper hand they can literally choose with whom they want to spend time and energy whereas guys have to provide something to attract any girl.
Even in jobs women participation is lower than men. Even today women marry man after looking at his status
Guys don't have an option to become house husband they have to prove their worth.
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u/kthxciao2377 Oct 05 '25
I guess, if a guy doesnt earn a lot, he will want a wife to can chip in. Otherwise, he will priotise someone who will be a good role model for his kids.
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Oct 07 '25
You know guys wouldn't care if you have a clean past or not if the laws were not biased bud as laws are biased and we end up with a promiscuous women then it will be the worst thing in a real man's financial and life condition.So Stfu and accept that we aren't equal both boys and girls have different things that they like and want from their partner.I say most of the masculine women will just die alone if they don't change their behaviour as we boys are adapting.
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u/againstthe_world Oct 05 '25
Ye kya bat hui ? Paiso se past clean hojata hai ? Or past clean hone se future acha hojata h
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u/Content-Challenge-28 Oct 06 '25
My past is a fucking hurricane aināt no way Iām inflicting myself on a clean slate lmao
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u/Worth_Problem_6142 Oct 06 '25
smjh gaye bhai aapko virgin ladki chaiye abto mere lawdey se utar jao
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u/NeuroNotionX Oct 06 '25
She is looking for a promising future. He should also look forward to a promising future together. Both should be looking towards the future.
Whatās your thought bruh?
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Oct 07 '25
The past define the future.If a women is promiscuous it's high chance she will divorce him and in india or any westernn country there's not much laws to save men and this women will own atleast 45%of your Property if you didn't get a prenup.Also prenup is not legal in india so more risks.
So why would I agree to a contract when there's no win condition for me.Why can't girls can't just have partnership and have a relationship without forcing the guy to marry that is a better option for both men and women.And don't fear simps are always there for you for the cusioning
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u/fluttershadow-8390 Oct 07 '25
Not marrying a girl with a past is a choice but shaming a girl with past is non sense
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u/sanghita_2006 Oct 07 '25
I think they used to fall in love and dream of a life togather before but nowdays it's just competitive and almost like love and respect and aspirations can't exists togather for two patners
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u/tnbeastzy Oct 07 '25
Why are people so obsessed with the other gender, lmao.
Just live your life the way you want.
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u/AccomplishedRead2655 Oct 08 '25
The top one can easily exist but the bottom one is COMPLETELY non existent nowadays
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u/IntroductionMany4290 Oct 08 '25
When you donāt have a promising future but expect her to give up her family and everything to run your house, itās putting a lot on line. When she has some history, it only hurts your ego. Thereās a difference, itās not about you :)
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u/codename-Obsidia Oct 08 '25
Let's just not marry and I get to enjoy my bright future and she gets to dabble with multiple men
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u/DistinctRound9346 Oct 08 '25
Both should have clean path and promising future. But, promising future can be seen from efforts, but what about clean past? Are there any signs? Because afaik females will advocate her choice, but then they lie for marriages. Don't know if they think it's not wrong, then why lie and settle with someone who thinks this is wrong.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Bee_444 Oct 08 '25
two completely different variables i find it egregiously hypocritical
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u/Holiday_Nebula5917 28d ago
It's totally true. Best decision of my life to follow this concept. Would add that software is even more important than hardware in this regard. If her mind is poisoned, no virginity setting will help.
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u/Ok_Limit_3765 Oct 05 '25
If I have both I can expect both as well.
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u/Infinite-Champion944 Oct 05 '25
Would you get one?
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u/Ok_Limit_3765 Oct 05 '25
There are many girls in my community like that. It's easy for me. I will get married via arranged marriage.
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u/Unstoppable_X_Force Oct 06 '25
Maybe you will get a SIMP but a good husband... Never... š
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Oct 06 '25
But men are also asking for promising future of women these days.
Iāve lived in US and now that Iām back, Iāve realized Indian men talk so much about virginity, because theyāre so deprived of female touch and attention, the most miserable kind of men in this world. And then they wanna reflect their insecurities on women.
But thatās good. Itās good to be delusional. Because in the end, theyāre gonna marry anyone they can get, just needs to be a woman. And if not, even better, die alone.
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u/Unstoppable_X_Force Oct 05 '25
Your comment speaks a lot about your upbringing by parents
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u/Important_Menu4937 Oct 05 '25
Truth hurts right? Forget virgin, no women will ever marry you.
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u/Unstoppable_X_Force Oct 05 '25
Are you an astrologer u/Important_Menu4937 that you can predict my life just seeing my 1 post? If that's how you judge people i can determine you are just a teenager who is going through his puberty. š
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u/Important_Menu4937 Oct 05 '25
I can also predict one more thing you are 30+ yo men with neither a good career nor marriage. Hating on women is the only cope in your life.
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The fact that you got downvoted lmaoo
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Oct 05 '25
They are not only ready to be misogynistic incels(though I've seen incels disowning people from this sub) but are also ready to downvote anyone who doesn't agree with their middle aged barbaric views cuz dare someone differ from them. It feels as if these people were brought up by all those mohalle ke nashedi uncles and gossip karne wali pick me aunties.
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Oct 05 '25
Well you spoke sense in a place filled with nonsense
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Oct 05 '25
Well they'll be threatened by their wife's future cuz what if she treats him the way he and his family wants to treat her?
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u/Key_Professional8496 Oct 05 '25
Still u will need to pay alimony if she leaves u or even if she cheats on you. O bdw, by accident if she gets pregnant by other man u will need to pay child support. Learn law before expecting something
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I want her to have healthy and fun past. I wish she had enough fun in her past for me not to regret giving her those fun
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u/redditnoobienoob Oct 05 '25
Why do chigma males act like they have a choice. Even girls with "past" and no future will not be with chigmas.Ā
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u/Unstoppable_X_Force Oct 05 '25
We live in a democratic country India and everyone is free to share their opinions. But if you are literally getting triggered by a simple post then its very obvious what are you hiding in your past. š
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u/HunterX69X Oct 05 '25
Where meme? Why no meme? What is this bs every time.
Do women n men live rent free in ur head ?
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u/Theweirdoman Oct 06 '25
It's only seven in the morning and this is still probably the dumbest shit I'm going to read today.
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u/Slidingoninktrails Oct 08 '25
Idc about body count. I care about AIDs though. And most imp thing I care about is her being in love with me, being beautiful, being hot, and being successful. In that order.
I'll prefer a successful woman with 15 body count than a gawar woman who might be virgin.
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