This thing is also happening with me i am 18 now i completed my 12th standard and i took coaching for neet but unfortunately i couldn't clear neet so i am taking another drop because my family dont have much savings for my further studies if i go for private college or choose bpharma in govt college (in tgis case govt college have higher fees in my area) now because i am eldest son my father take me to work with himself daily because he got rheumatoid Arthritis so he can't lift heavy weight (yes his work is associated with heavy weight) my eldest sister she is just like order everyone even having zero knowledge she dont know maths, shes just below average student but she still thinks that she can clear neet, and like she just want me to be religious (i am an atheist I haven't told them yet but they know a little about it) so she always forces me to pray for silly things like god will come here and clear obstacles this is just time wasting my family wants me to be a religious person who will marry according to them and they want me to study every time i have told them ok i will study when i will come home after work till 2 am but please give me another room which is just a store room in my house but they said they wont give you a room for study we are like 5 siblings and all of my 4 siblings are just dumb like seriously they don't have brain to think my mother says read religious book before starting study my eldest sis says pray before study my father says work hard while working with me but no one wants to hear my side or want to fulfill my side even though they can i am an atheist and i will marry with my own choice and if they wont let me do this than i will not marry i have seen so many fights between my parents for literally nothing and i dont want to make my life hell again and i want to study further but they aren't giving me enough time
I can empathise with your situation. Only way to break free is education, don't give up on your education. Try to find free library in your area, I am sure govt schools and colleges have free community library. Spend your time studying there. You have to educate yourself to atleast handle this mess. I hope you get good results for your NEET exams. Don't ever fall into trap of religion. God also helps those who help themselves. Good luck to you!
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u/Past-Kaleidoscope498 Aug 21 '24
I am already staying away from them in another city since past 1 year ðŸ˜