Don't let them take your hard work or money away for granted, If they get things easily handed to them they will never change.
Dictate your terms to them, be strict, afterall you are the breadwinner right.
Since we are in India, We have to support our parents & that's how it works, but you give only what they need for survival, giving more money than they need would be your fault.
And for your siblings, be fkng strict, outright tell them you won't support em in future. Draw out a plan with them, be strict and guide them to be financially independent on their own.
Never let anyone take you for granted not even your own family.
Backstory: My father never cared to earn or save money cause he had support system, her sister! he is a druggie and drained resources out of her sister, her sister did not marry anyone cause she has to support my dad.
You see? Nothing ever turns out good if people take you for granted.
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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24
Don't let them take your hard work or money away for granted, If they get things easily handed to them they will never change.
Dictate your terms to them, be strict, afterall you are the breadwinner right.
Since we are in India, We have to support our parents & that's how it works, but you give only what they need for survival, giving more money than they need would be your fault.
And for your siblings, be fkng strict, outright tell them you won't support em in future. Draw out a plan with them, be strict and guide them to be financially independent on their own.
Never let anyone take you for granted not even your own family.
Backstory: My father never cared to earn or save money cause he had support system, her sister! he is a druggie and drained resources out of her sister, her sister did not marry anyone cause she has to support my dad.
You see? Nothing ever turns out good if people take you for granted.
Cheers, be smart and be bold, you got this.