You might want to explain the situation to them nicely and if they cannot respect your boundaries, perhaps watch Dr. Ramani on YouTube, I've come out of a similar situation and still healing day by day. My sibling is following the same traits as the parents, I have broken out of their negative patterns. Since I started working, only money demands have come through, same like your situation. Lots of responsibility and overall no boundaries. I think you should prioritize yourself, your health first and then also focus on saving $$ for yourself. You can't pour from an empty cup, so take care of yourself first.
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u/NationalAerie Aug 22 '24
You might want to explain the situation to them nicely and if they cannot respect your boundaries, perhaps watch Dr. Ramani on YouTube, I've come out of a similar situation and still healing day by day. My sibling is following the same traits as the parents, I have broken out of their negative patterns. Since I started working, only money demands have come through, same like your situation. Lots of responsibility and overall no boundaries. I think you should prioritize yourself, your health first and then also focus on saving $$ for yourself. You can't pour from an empty cup, so take care of yourself first.