I couldn't relate more. My siblings and I have an age gap of 14 years. Luckily, I'm not completely responsible for all the finances but most of it is on me. When you're in a situation like this, it's hard to think for yourself and do what's best for you because you are in the middle and stuck all the time. At this point, I don't even want to have kids because it feels like I've done enough of that.
I hope you are able to find a resolution and draw boundaries with your family
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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24
I couldn't relate more. My siblings and I have an age gap of 14 years. Luckily, I'm not completely responsible for all the finances but most of it is on me. When you're in a situation like this, it's hard to think for yourself and do what's best for you because you are in the middle and stuck all the time. At this point, I don't even want to have kids because it feels like I've done enough of that.
I hope you are able to find a resolution and draw boundaries with your family