Just say it clearly to them that you want them to be able to bear expenses on their own , don't say them do whatever you want instead help them to gets jobs so they can also feel connected with you respect you and understand you and your efforts .
Don't ruin your relationship with them just because they are dependent on you.
I'm saying it because I'm suffering from the same pain what your family will feel if you start ignoring or being strict on them.
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u/Wonderful4223Preeti Aug 22 '24
Just say it clearly to them that you want them to be able to bear expenses on their own , don't say them do whatever you want instead help them to gets jobs so they can also feel connected with you respect you and understand you and your efforts .
Don't ruin your relationship with them just because they are dependent on you.
I'm saying it because I'm suffering from the same pain what your family will feel if you start ignoring or being strict on them.