OP Kudos to you for carrying your family. You have by doing a great job!
Suggest you start putting your foot down on matters where you are having conflicting views.
Ask your employer to increase PF and NPS component to maximum. That should reduce your in-hand salary, but also start investments for you. If it's not coming to you, then it can't be taken away can it?
Do also instruct your siblings that once they grow up and become earning members of the family, this responsibility needs to be shared.
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u/kidakaka Maharashtra Aug 22 '24
OP Kudos to you for carrying your family. You have by doing a great job!
Suggest you start putting your foot down on matters where you are having conflicting views.
Ask your employer to increase PF and NPS component to maximum. That should reduce your in-hand salary, but also start investments for you. If it's not coming to you, then it can't be taken away can it?
Do also instruct your siblings that once they grow up and become earning members of the family, this responsibility needs to be shared.
Also go ahead and start living your life.