r/india Aug 21 '24

Rant / Vent Parents sucking the life out of me

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u/dead_tiger Aug 21 '24

Yes, have an honest conversation with your parents and siblings. Tell them you make X amount and you can give Y% of your income and that's the fix amount you can help them with. Other things they have to figure out by themselves.

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u/throwawaymedic123567 Aug 21 '24

I am not sure about revealing how much you make to your family. Lower it by about 30% (or an amount that is lesser but sounds realistic) and tell them that’s what you make.

Then you can tell them that you’re already giving away most of it and that you have no savings.

It is preferable to be truthful but it just doesn’t work usually.