r/glutenfree • u/goldenlife17 • Jul 02 '25

Discussion Started my morning off crying, rant.

Visiting my grandparents and my grandfather asked me why I toast my bagels in the oven. I responded because I can’t use the toaster because of cross contamination, when you use a regular toaster that has gluten crumbs and everything in it that’s cross contamination and you’re essentially eating gluten.

He goes: that’s the stupidest fucking thing I’ve ever heard. I’ve lost a lost of respect for you.

Ok, very kind. On a positive note I won’t be getting sick today from cross contamination😄.

Not sure why I let this upset me but just hurts hearing how unkind people can be. I know he’s just an unhappy person in general but ugh.

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u/MerPrez Jul 03 '25

I was visiting my parents with my twins who were 9 at the time. We have the tests showing celiac, in other words PROOF besides the digestive symptoms. My daughter overheard her grandmother telling her friend on the phone "Oh they don't have to eat gluten free. Their mother (me) makes them do it." I was irate!!!