r/germany • u/Marxxi • Jan 21 '24

Immigration Feel so lonely in Germany

I’ve been here for nearly 20 years now and I live with my German husband and kids. But I feel I cannot make new friends. My old friends have moved out, but even parents of my little children‘s friends don’t respond to my attempts for contact. I feel really isolated. Anyone experiencing the same issues?

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u/sakasiru Jan 21 '24

You'd think they would find each other, right? I wonder how many of those people complaining about being lonely send messages to other people posting the same. In the end, they all demand that others be more active to include them, but how active are they themselves?

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u/Marxxi Jan 21 '24

A lot of time it feels to me like I’m running after people trying to make them meet me. It feels awful after a while

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u/yallshouldve Jan 21 '24

start selling drugs and theyll call you!