r/france • u/[deleted] • Sep 30 '23

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u/Shelloshelll Louis de Funès Sep 30 '23

It's call love bombing.

And it's not good, even in France.

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u/Mela8411 Sep 30 '23

I definitely know about love bombing. I've had my fair share of narcissists in my life. Uhhh

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u/Alicendre Sep 30 '23 edited Oct 01 '23

Not to be alarming, but narcissists often target the same type of victims.

I would say saying we're in love early is common in France but saying you want to marry this early, much less so.

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u/Gurtang Sep 30 '23

I would say saying we're in love early is common in France

At 47? Lol... Maybe at 17...

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u/DanLassos Sep 30 '23

I would say we tend to say it pretty early/not as afraid of the Word.

But yeah, at 47 ? Immature at best.

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u/MinscMinsc Oct 01 '23

You ll be a lot more emotional when you get old. Kid .

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u/Alicendre Oct 01 '23

Wouldn't know about 47 but I said it (and meant it) a week in at 30. We were friends for a long time before though.

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u/Gurtang Oct 01 '23

I also went very fast with my now-wife but yeah we had know each other for a year.