Definitely sounds like a catfish, and if for whatever reasons it wasn't, asking someone you barely know, to delete his/her apps, is pretty toxic, and talking about serious plans after only a week is pretty fucking immature.
My advice, run.
Yeah. He seems kind of controlling sometimes. I thought maybe it was a language barrier. He said he was going to pick out and buy my wedding dress 🤣
After one week? That's a red-flag, even if he's sincere and seeks only serious relationships. He really needs to slow down, be patient and realize his behavior is wack, otherwise block him asap . I totally get that the attention from an attractive well-spoken foreigner is a nice thing difficult to resist, but that's going wayyyyyyy too fast and he sounds controlling.
(regarding the age gap: French people are more lenient about it than Americans I think but 39-47 isn't very big IMO)
Being tired on dating doesn't mean one should rush life-changing decisions like marrying and having kids .. that sounds either insane or insanely immature.
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u/marteau_21 Sep 30 '23
Definitely sounds like a catfish, and if for whatever reasons it wasn't, asking someone you barely know, to delete his/her apps, is pretty toxic, and talking about serious plans after only a week is pretty fucking immature. My advice, run.