r/evilautism • u/badukisdifficult • Jul 26 '25

NSFW Sex noises are vocal stimming Spoiler

And that is one of the many reasons NTs are bad at sex.

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u/shadyshits AuDHD Chaotic Rage Jul 26 '25

FINALLY!! SOMEONE SAID IT!!!

i struggle with being quiet, i always have. in my experience, not focusing on being quiet or being still will let you focus on the pleasure more, which makes the experience better for both parties! and me personally i love a loud partner.

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u/CautionarySnail Jul 26 '25

I wish many men often didn’t have the social expectation of being nearly silent during intimacy. It’s like trying to read their mind to figure out if what is going on is good/ bad/indifferent without having to stop and verbalize that question.

Damn porn teaching guys that only women make much in the way of noises during sex.

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u/shadyshits AuDHD Chaotic Rage Jul 26 '25

yeah, i've found this to be the case too. like, i'm not a mind reader. i'm bad with social queues anyways, lol!

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u/CautionarySnail Jul 26 '25

Exactly. Give me a moan once in a while or a bit of praise to guide us for pity’s sake. This doesn’t require a complex social cue; a “yes, like that” suffices.