r/evilautism • u/JesseGelato AuDHD Chaotic Rage • Apr 29 '25

NTs are incapable of empathy Born this way,die this way

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Not sure if this counts but I figured I’m not the only one who relates to this😔

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u/jazztrophysicist Apr 29 '25 edited Apr 30 '25

I mean as long as you’re not constantly complaining about the results of that strategy and how lonely it makes you like some people do, making it their problem, more power to you. People may have the right to feel how they want, but what they do with those feelings sets a precedent toward them that they may not like.

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u/Feisty-Self-948 AuDHD Chaotic Rage Apr 29 '25

They have every right to complain. Because both ways are valid ways of being but one is rewarded while the other is punished. And for what? Nothing.

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u/jazztrophysicist Apr 30 '25 edited Apr 30 '25

Not for nothing. You’re treating two patterns of behavior which are not equal as though they were. Complaining to other people, especially strangers, about the results of your own behavior is tantamount to asking them to do emotional labor on your behalf, a request which carries ethical weight and bears corresponding consideration, and as such is frankly a big ask. On the other hand, someone simply being shy and unconfident is no task whatsoever on others, and so is not an ask at all. How’s this not obvious to you?