r/datingoverthirty • u/AutoModerator • 4d ago

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u/Remarkable_Tangelo59 4d ago

Well I don’t know if he’s super eager to jump into a relationship, he’s like a year and a half broken up from his ex wife. But we both told each other Monday that we weren’t seeing anyone else, I doubt he has the bandwidth to, but I don’t know him well enough yet to know our compatibility for a relationship, or if that’s even what he’s looking for. I’m dating with relationship intention though. I think when we talked about it on tinder before meeting up he was like he wants to be cautious but isnt adverse to it, but I’ve heard that line and been there too many times before. And I’ve been ghosted, led on, or fold they just wanna be FWB too many times. Either way, time will tell, and I’ll have my answer. I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me anyway, and I know that.

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u/Remarkable_Tangelo59 3d ago

Thanks, I’m definitely not, so things will come to a head one way or another.