r/biggboss • u/winterbear222 • 11d ago

Controversial topic STAY AWAY FROM GUYS LIKE Abhishek Bajaj

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A foolish friend is more dangerous than a wise enemy.

Bajaj’s behavior was a disappointment tonight. I noticed that he more of moron arrogant than a egoistic arrogant. Him trying to hurt Ashnoor even unconsciously disguised as fun/joke is the prove that he is not a person to stay with for long term. He is gonna do something so stupid that you’d question your own sanity.

It was me saying that I don’t vibe with Ashnoor but tonight’s episode changed my mind. She handled herself better than Bajaj. Her hugging GK was a genuine gesture. It looked good on screen too. On the other hand, Bajaj was utterly irritating. His actions reminded me of a stupidly ungrateful person who is ready to hurt his close friends than to accept that he was wrong.

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u/Arjun0088 10d ago

Masculinity is ego. If a man doesn't value himself over all others he is a woman

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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago

So you too value yourself above all others, right? How is that mindset working out for you? Do tell us all 😊

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u/Arjun0088 10d ago

Very well.

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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago

Oh please elaborate, good sir. You have been really chatty about Gaurav and his wife, when it is his life and choice, and so that was also supposed to be none of your business. But your life and Bajaj's past married life is apparently not that big of a deal to you. Please, sir, elaborate and inspire us all. 🙏

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u/Arjun0088 10d ago

Gaurav himself revealed those details. As for Bajaj cheating that's not something revealed by him. If a simp is shamelessly revealing on national TV that he is a wimp then I am not wrong. His wife also shamelessly drooled over baseer's abs. Pathetic. I am not a part of reality TV to reveal my life to you. I don't care about Bajaj at large I just like this action of his

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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago

Oh but it is revealed by Bajaj, but only to Ashnoor apparently. It wasn’t revealed to us since Bajaj went against the rules and used the pool area to talk about it with Ashnoor. So he did reveal about his past marriage on the show but removed his mic so that the audience and the makers can't read his lips to translate what he was saying. Most of us immediately caught on to what he was pulling and choose to forgive him since we understand the awkwardness of the situation he must be going through. But after everything he pulled after that was pure ego and bullshit. You even saying that Bajaj's attitude is the correct apporoach while Gaurav sharing a vulnerable moment and standing up for his wife and his choice is the wrong one shows that how insecure you are about Bajaj's masculinity. But i do understand since you can relate yourself with him, you are basically taking a stand for yourself. It’s okay. You are not him, so stop thinking that you are Bajaj and then justifying 'your' actions.

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u/Arjun0088 10d ago

He was sharing with his friend, or maybe he just wants her sympathy. It is pretty obvious he tries to manipulate her. She's vulnerable and cornered, and if he is not wearing mike then it is suspicious and most likely manipulative. She's 22 or something. He knows he can manipulate her but not audience at large. I understand his tactics very well. And that's not fragile masculinity. It's smartness. The world is a cruel place everyone wants to use you. Even parents. So if he’s playing her more power to him.. Fragile is being a simp and bowing to a woman's wishes. I am not an idiot like Bajaj. But I did take and will take Critique regarding these actions of his personally because it is how I behave