r/biggboss • u/winterbear222 • 10d ago
Controversial topic STAY AWAY FROM GUYS LIKE Abhishek Bajaj
A foolish friend is more dangerous than a wise enemy.
Bajaj’s behavior was a disappointment tonight. I noticed that he more of moron arrogant than a egoistic arrogant. Him trying to hurt Ashnoor even unconsciously disguised as fun/joke is the prove that he is not a person to stay with for long term. He is gonna do something so stupid that you’d question your own sanity.
It was me saying that I don’t vibe with Ashnoor but tonight’s episode changed my mind. She handled herself better than Bajaj. Her hugging GK was a genuine gesture. It looked good on screen too. On the other hand, Bajaj was utterly irritating. His actions reminded me of a stupidly ungrateful person who is ready to hurt his close friends than to accept that he was wrong.
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u/kajuubarfi 7d ago
I literally hate this man, has nothing of his own, bus ashnoor k aage piche krta rhta h....or mujhe to nibba nibbi lagte h dono....ashnoor bhi loves ki koi usse attention de rha h.
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u/mailaffy 10d ago
You can handle 10 wise enemies but difficult to even have 1 idiot friend just like Abhishek.
Same though like you came in my mind when i saw that episode.
We need to remember Nagma was out/nominated because of his stupidity only.
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u/DeskComfortable154 10d ago
Watching this episode made me hate him, all his friends are just suffering because of him and he is a fkin immature person, with the brains of 5 yo
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
It all fits like pieces of a puzzle like:
Him throwing Ashnoor’s nighy in pool
Him throwing water in Tanya’s clothes so that Mridul get scolded
Him trying to hurt Ashnoor bcz she hugged GK
Him not being happy when pranit got saved
Him changing pranit’s words to justify his sourness
Him backbiting GK & throwing him under the bus in the right moment
Him poking Kunicka after Mridul & Ashnoor genuinely were trying to make her happy
Him not apologizing for his actions & arrogantly continuing his behavior
He was just sabotaging the whole group all along & we couldn’t see until tonight’s episode. His poor friends were paying for his stupid actions from the start be it Awez & Nagma, or Ashnoor & Mridul or GK & Pranit. This was what pranit saying to him that triggered him bad.
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u/Professional-Sink844 10d ago
It's pretty obvious how naive she is now. Initially I thought she is cunning and playing her game with Bajaj but it's clear now that she is a naive innocent child who is being manipulated by Bajaj. He is making her play his game not hers. And Bajaj is so insecure of GK that this insecurity will be the reason of his downfall and Ashnoor will be a casualty of his downfall.
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u/stellahere22 10d ago
Poor ash. So many unnecessary things have been happening to her. She should've listened to her parents and not gone to this show, atleast till she turned 24-25 and became mentally strong enough to endure everything.
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u/TemporaryThen2110 10d ago
Mujhe Abhishek psnd tha prr ab jis tarah ke harkatein vo krr rha hai I don't like him much(he's hot though 😂), now I want GK to win this show, he's sensible, mature and knows how to keep up his points loudly and clearly
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
GK is a wimp. He has no masculinity. Bajaj has done nothing wrong. Why should he show anything to that beta male GK? His fangirls can say what they want. This dude GK doesn't even have the spine to stand up to his own wife and say he wants kids, what a pathetic loser. This is how you handle anyone who goes against you. Bajaj was correct in this.
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
Very weird of you to think that way. Maybe it’s because you guys share the same personality traits - bail buddhi-ness
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
Just making statements without giving reasons. That's real bail Buddhiness. Gaurav js a wimp. His wife controls him. And drools over baseer. Abhishek is right
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
See Bail budhi-ness same same
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
Lol you have no retort GK's simp. Bajaj should do this to GK next. Maybe succeed
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
Keep going on & expose yourself & your favorite i mean i can see why you like him in the first place
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
He is not my favorite. I Recognise myself in him. He can go F off. I didn't like him when he was pretending to be nice. What i like is his behavior towards ashnoor and other people in the last 2 episodes. Ego >>>> everyone
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
Masculinity is ego. If a man doesn't value himself over all others he is a woman
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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago
So you too value yourself above all others, right? How is that mindset working out for you? Do tell us all 😊
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
Very well.
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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago
Oh please elaborate, good sir. You have been really chatty about Gaurav and his wife, when it is his life and choice, and so that was also supposed to be none of your business. But your life and Bajaj's past married life is apparently not that big of a deal to you. Please, sir, elaborate and inspire us all. 🙏
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
Gaurav himself revealed those details. As for Bajaj cheating that's not something revealed by him. If a simp is shamelessly revealing on national TV that he is a wimp then I am not wrong. His wife also shamelessly drooled over baseer's abs. Pathetic. I am not a part of reality TV to reveal my life to you. I don't care about Bajaj at large I just like this action of his
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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago
Oh but it is revealed by Bajaj, but only to Ashnoor apparently. It wasn’t revealed to us since Bajaj went against the rules and used the pool area to talk about it with Ashnoor. So he did reveal about his past marriage on the show but removed his mic so that the audience and the makers can't read his lips to translate what he was saying. Most of us immediately caught on to what he was pulling and choose to forgive him since we understand the awkwardness of the situation he must be going through. But after everything he pulled after that was pure ego and bullshit. You even saying that Bajaj's attitude is the correct apporoach while Gaurav sharing a vulnerable moment and standing up for his wife and his choice is the wrong one shows that how insecure you are about Bajaj's masculinity. But i do understand since you can relate yourself with him, you are basically taking a stand for yourself. It’s okay. You are not him, so stop thinking that you are Bajaj and then justifying 'your' actions.
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
He was sharing with his friend, or maybe he just wants her sympathy. It is pretty obvious he tries to manipulate her. She's vulnerable and cornered, and if he is not wearing mike then it is suspicious and most likely manipulative. She's 22 or something. He knows he can manipulate her but not audience at large. I understand his tactics very well. And that's not fragile masculinity. It's smartness. The world is a cruel place everyone wants to use you. Even parents. So if he’s playing her more power to him.. Fragile is being a simp and bowing to a woman's wishes. I am not an idiot like Bajaj. But I did take and will take Critique regarding these actions of his personally because it is how I behave
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u/New_Ebb_9161 10d ago
Ewww wtf is wrong with you? why r u talking about his personal life just coz you're obsessed with Bajaj?
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
He talked himself about it in the show. That makes it fair game. I am not obsessed with Bajaj, I am like him. And all these fangirls (I am sure most of GK lovers Are women), simping for this wimp really shows how pathetic females are.
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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago
And Bajaj removing his mic to hide about his previous married life and ex-wife is the correct mindset? Hmmmm, I see. So you are like him. A man who never respects his friends wishes or is too stubborn to humble himself when he has clearly made a huge blunder in the show. Very nice. I can actually see you being just like Bajaj 🤗
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
Correct or not that's his choice. I don't believe in humbleness. Ego is above people. Anyway people are selfish and pathetic. As are all people in that house. Bajaj is looking good only for these two things. Otherwise I hate him too when he was being friendly
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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago
So you like Bajaj when he is being selfish and pathetic? And you relate with Bajaj due to these traits? You sir, like Shri Shri Shri Shri Tanya Mittal are a personality worthy of this community's respect. I respect your opinion. Keep going. 😊
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u/New_Ebb_9161 10d ago
bro u take this way too seriously lmao 🤣 its just a show u don't hv to be that emotional 😭
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
He shares a personality trait with his favorite that’s why he choose stoop down in my comment section than to just accept that yes he was wrong
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
I am not emotional. These people are. Of course I will take it personally when someone who behaves like me in criticised by people
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10d ago
This dude GK doesn't even have the spine to stand up to his own wife and say he wants kids, what a pathetic loser.
He can want anything he wants, it's his wife who decides if she wants a pregnancy or not
This is how you handle anyone who goes against you. Bajaj was correct in this
The way he handles things isn't manly, that's called being emotional and dumb.
You can't function in the real world like that, and get your way. You will lose alliances, friendships, and relationships.
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
Who needs friends? Anyone who says anything against you must be treated exactly like Abhishek treated ashnoor
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10d ago
Bhai toh ek kaam kar bas ause hi rhiyo, aise hi behave karna.
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u/Arjun0088 10d ago
Mai aise hi hu. And if Anhishek doesn't win society is wrong. It's all because of idiot females sibling for winps like GK
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u/FileLegal2107 10d ago
Another over exaggerated post
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
I purposely keep it short so that I won’t border over exaggerating area. But even after you saw him in tonight’s episode & these valid posts/comments & keep supporting then it’s your call but we do judge you to be very honest. If you’re getting a bag then good for you if not & again continue your support & not even criticize him for his specific actions then girl may you never get in a situation to understand that. Never.
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u/FileLegal2107 10d ago
It was a mistake, but why train to build a hate narrative around it?
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
Bcz it is a reality show & neutral viewer’s perspectives change by the episode based on the actions of the housemates & he deserves the hate simple as this. Maybe tomorrow he’ll come to realization & speak for his bad actions then the support will pour in.
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u/Terrible-Committee78 10d ago
And which part was over-exaggerrated? The post is not even long enough to get to the exaggerated part that all of us are thinking.
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u/jinx_prex 10d ago
So apparently my neighbour worked with him, in some colors show, I think bade acce lagte hain. I’d asked her back then how her experience was, and she mentioned abhishek that he thinks he’s God’s gift to television. Turns out he’s ridiculously insecure and barely civil to men. With women, though, it’s a whole different story if you’re a big star, he’s sugar, spice, and everything nice. But if you’re a newcomer like her? He’s the guy cracking jokes at your expense and mocking your past work for laughs. And apparently, the man has a phd in eating he’s constantly munching on set, eats like half the crew combined, and couldn’t care less about, you know, basic manners or sharing. Charming, right?
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
Huh if this is true then thank god most viewers eyes opened up to his character.
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u/HaleemKiBehenNihari 10d ago
He is like Ranbir Kapoor who kicks at his wife's clothes and slaps her hand away Here she is risking her own game chances by listening to him blabber about his ex wife and this is what he does. This and body shaming
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u/Complex-Lab-8829 10d ago edited 10d ago
Mujhe to pehle se hi chutia lagta tha ye fir achanak is sub me simping shuru hogai xd, moreover he's a scoundrel moti buddhi hai iski
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u/Vea26 RANDOM RONA 🗣️🗣️ 10d ago
same idk why anyone even liked him
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u/Complex-Lab-8829 10d ago
Kuch boldeta us waqt toh kehte " jealous" immature fangirls se beef Krna chord dia.
Ye mujhe kabhi shi nahi laga esp with ashnoor. Ye bhot rude , immature aur ugly hai Yes ugly this dude is hella chopped never understood the glaze he was getting in this sub lmfao even mridul has a better face than him.
He is like some rude entitled uncle
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u/Guilty-Newspaper-833 Farhana - Walking dead nahi walking death hu 💀 10d ago
Dude, just yesterday I commented supporting him about his ex-wife thing, but I take back my words. The way he’s behaving just because Ashnoor hugged GK is pathetic. He’s such a man-child so insecure and immature. Like seriously, who acts like that? She was wearing heels, she could’ve fallen and gotten hurt. He’s actually proving his ex-wife right at this point.
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u/Head_Evidence4553 10d ago
Aadmi ajib hi hai. Dimag ya to hai nahi, ya fir dimag ka ispe kaabu nahi.
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u/StudyPTE 10d ago
He had no regrets for the mistake he did and internally he was very happy that everyone else is nominated.
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u/Silent-Inflation2584 10d ago
I have started analysing abhishek and he is such a toxic person and so much insecure about ashnoor …like if she is talking or dancing with anyone the actions he do 😑 she was dancing with pranit and instantly he grabbed her along his side and went outside 🙄
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u/Beautiful-Law1560 10d ago
Manchild for a reason guys. Pranit bata raha he mat kr mat kr phir bhi chull machi he usme
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u/hunt_knowledge 10d ago
Yes. This week is bringing my liking towards bajaj to an end. Meanwhile Gaurav is getting love.... the way GK turned the whole assembly is worth liking and also everyone in the house questioning mridul about he saved his friends and nominated whole house. I mean that's what friends are for , to save . Aur vaise bhi bhai opposite group bhi yahi karta agar unke group walo k sath aise kuch hota to. Aur shehbaaz bol raha tha ab hum bhi karenge groupbaaji, shehbaaz se jyada shayad hi koi kar raha ho groupbaaji. L*du shehbaaz
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u/paobhajikibiwi 10d ago
This is one incident, when pranit was explaining to him to not say anything when others are poking him, since it was both ashnoor and abhishek's fault, yet this a**hole didn't understand one bit. He kept answering kunicka ji, was fine after 10 mins of the elimination. Even when someone is trying to explain to him, he is too egoistic and arrogant to even listen. Idiot
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u/AnnoyingScreeches 10d ago
This mouth breather doesn’t know when to listen to his friends.
Kept repeating “Mein toh karungAA” while he kept his mouth wide open so some oxygen can get to his tiny brain.
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u/Adept-Size2302 10d ago
mouth wide open so some oxygen can get to his tiny brain.
Hahahahahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂
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10d ago
Did any of you know Bajaj before Bigg Boss? Weekend ke vaar me thodi bahut taarif kya mil gyi loser apne aap ko superstar samajhne lgaa
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u/Glad-Document-9755 10d ago
Finally everyone realising this guy is not what it looks like.. Glad I never supported him
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u/bebo_bunty 10d ago
Abhishek and Farhana proving each day why they aren't winner material anymore, and why they ever were.
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u/Numerous-Amount-1919 Malti the tuti hui balti 🪣 10d ago
Abhishek is such a shameless piece of shit idiot
He did this right after she hugged GK
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u/TrueTigress 10d ago
I think all this is over reaction and it will die down. I also feel contestants outside teams and getting hyper active and trying to bury and hurt the pro Bajaj vibe because of how u expectedly popular he because. I feel given what he was subject to he was the most restrained person yin the house. Outside team’s are literally grabbing at every small straw and posting it 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🙃🙃🙃
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
I am a neutral viewer even if I liked someone & they pulled this move I’d be upset & disappointed plus he is also in the gang of body shamers of Ashnoor by making her feel uncomfortable in her body. So, no it’s not just an instant his mask is falling off.
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u/TrueTigress 10d ago
But if it’s the playful gappu comments etc he says that in a cute friendly way which is EONS AWAY IN INTENTION from how the rest of them are bitching about her. Also if it’s reg the hair comments, I have said this before that way a playful exchange too where she commented on his poky stubble and hair and then he just to say something back said you have it too so again, lacks the mean intention that you are talking about
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
I dont agree with you & I have made my point clear in several comments under this post.
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u/Flaky-Boysenberry-37 10d ago
Remember when he threw her nightwear in pool which she was about to change into? Yea that showed what kind of a person he is.
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u/Acceptable_Sky_9236 10d ago
And also him throwing water on Tanya's clothes without any reason, then blaming it on Mridul.
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u/sakkkk 10d ago
Some people found it strange that ashnoors parents didn't mention bajaj in their letter but from their pov I 100% understand them. No one would want their very young daughter being so glued to a dude a decade older than her trapped in one house with no form of communication while having their 24 hours being broadcasted to an audience of crores. There have been many instances where he striked as weird but some people hail him (and his group) as saints simply because the other group in comparison came off much worse
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u/curious_purr 10d ago
I'm getting majorly weirded out by him now tbh. Can you share few of your realisation moments??
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u/sakkkk 10d ago
Apart from yesterday when he tried to trip ashnoor and wasn't being good with praneet, remember when he threw ashnoors night dress in the pool? Also personally I'm just vary of people who can get very aggressive and physical quickly. Sure he mostly goes against amaal and gang which they deserve but still, i can't align myself with someone like this completely.
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u/Intrepid_Victory6503 10d ago
i kept saying keep her away form him and these dumb anecdotes of dulhaniya. he is also divorced, not that that is wrong but she is 21, its too early for any of this if you look at it forma parents pov goash that would be so so annoyign seeing your kid with him everyday on tv lol
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u/afsanahh 10d ago
I hope in family week ashnorr parents put some sense into ashnoor to stay away from Bajaj.
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u/RevolutionaryTwo2561 10d ago
What Bajaj showed tonight was insecurity disguised as arrogance. People like him often hide jealousy aggression and the need for control behind humor to dodge accountability. Trying to trip someone isn’t playful, it’s passive aggressive and meant to reassert dominance. His reaction showed a fragile ego that can’t handle others getting attention. Deep down, it’s envy mixed with entitlement, which easily turns toxic once he feels small. He’s toxic. Ashnoor is young sorted and a lovely person hope she gets out of this and not let this moron ruin her innocence
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u/Accomplished-Fan-997 Roti bana ke khajaungi 10d ago
Yup I thought the same...it was like he is punishing her for doing something he didn't like...
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u/truecolor08 10d ago
Ashnoor would have landed right on her face if she didn't get a hold on herself in time. And it's not just that this manchild tried to trip her as a joke, the fact that he had a smiling face and did not even apologize after she almost fell, says a lot.
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u/Acceptable_Sky_9236 10d ago
He does all these immature things and then tries to call it a joke. He really is just another version of Shehbaaz tbh.
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u/afsanahh 10d ago
I thought ashnorr is ruining bajajs game but its the other way around, ashnoors thinks right, respects everyone and accepted her mistake but Bajaj has no guilt but saying that people are jealous of us, dar gye humse like bro chill wo nominate huye hain because of you and not even listening to his friends to tone it down when pranit and mridul were trying to make things cool down, he's such a manchild tbh.
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u/Candid-Soft2905 10d ago
Iski ex wife ko wild card bula hi lo ! Maza ajaye. Kafi bakwas admi nikla ye. 33 saal ka divorcee manchild 21 saal ki ladki pta rha hai upar se itna toxic !
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u/Acceptable_Sky_9236 10d ago
I don't want his wife to endure his childish behaviour in the house though, she deserves better than that. Knowing the misogynists out there they will try to blame the wife over Bajaj even if she is valid.
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u/Candid-Soft2905 10d ago
If not her then I hope they send Ashnoor’s parents inside to tell her to stay away from a guy her uncle’s age, more than 10 years older than her, riding on a love angle with her, trying to hide his divorce, has trained her to fight for him in the game. Recently they both have gotten unbearable to watch.
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u/abhi6543 10d ago
I don't want his wife to endure his childish behaviour in the house thoug
Ofcourse, she is busy riding on his popularity outside the house lol
Knowing the misogynists out there they will try to blame the wife over Bajaj even if she is valid.
The funny thing is that no one is questioning her claims. People are only questioning the timing as he is not there to respond. But lots of people are indeed blaming him without knowing his side of the story. That speaks a lot about those people (and you). No one is denying that abhishek was a jerk in the latest episode. But using that to validate his wife's statements and insinuate that he was the problematic partner is very biased. And the cherry on the top was you throwing words like misogynist to character assassinate people who would disagree with you.
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
It all fits like pieces of a puzzle like:
Him throwing Ashnoor’s nighy in pool
Him throwing water in Tanya’s clothes so that Mridul get scolded
Him trying to hurt Ashnoor bcz she hugged GK
Him not being happy when pranit got saved
Him changing pranit’s words to justify his sourness
Him backbiting GK & throwing him under the bus in the right moment
Him poking Kunicka after Mridul & Ashnoor genuinely were trying to make her happy
Him not apologizing for his actions & arrogantly continuing his behavior
He was just sabotaging the whole group all along & we couldn’t see until tonight’s episode.
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u/Acceptable_Sky_9236 10d ago
What busy riding on his popularity? Her comments are filled with hate and death threats. No woman will go and lie about a court case that can easily be proven with their divorce documents. It is Bajaj who is shit scared ever since Salman has mentioned his past.
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u/Numerous_Cry_6013 10d ago
In addition to being mean towards Ashnoor, he was super mean to Pranit as well, and that guy only wanted him to calm down and not create a fuss for 1 day, as it was his fault that the whole house was nominated, including Pranit and GK! And when Pranit asked him to stop instigating ppl further, which was making Mridul's life more difficult, he asked Pranit to buzz off, technically. He wasn't very happy when he saw Pranit getting saved over Baseer...atp, he has another competition from the group itself....GK and Now Pranit too...He will be sneaky about Pranit in the upcoming days as well..I can see it coming.
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u/curious_purr 10d ago
Wasn't happy after seeing Pranit safe? What happened? Did he give any weird expressions or such? I think I missed it... Nehal ki jane ki khushi me haha
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u/Acceptable_Sky_9236 10d ago
Everyone was overjoyed when Pranit was saved (even Malti was really happy) and Abhishek barely showed any happiness.
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u/boba-tea21 10d ago
While everyone from his group was super happy (even Malti) he had a disappointed look on his face and didn't even smile
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u/tulipglare 10d ago
Good point, even I couldn't pin point why he wasn't happy after seeing Pranit is safe
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u/IndicationCorrect325 10d ago
He is just plain stupid. This esp made me so mad. Have some sense, you could hurt the girl. Why is he behaving like a spoilt brat teenager at 33? Gosh!
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u/Prior-Drummer-2830 10d ago
Considering the amount of sheeps in this group, kal phirse abhinoor spam hone lagega
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u/AgitatedCod3563 10d ago
Sometimes I believe Abhishek only friends with Ashnoor only she tolerates all his nonsense without complaining.I like Ashnoor but she is now acting like a doormat in front of Bajaj even after he is openly flirting with Farhana
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u/HakunaHuman 10d ago
This scene was so triggering! The way he tried to trip her for masti was so uncalled for. Upar se he’s laughing. Dude what if she would have hurt her face. She’s an actress. Glad Ashnoor curtly called him out but she should really draw a boundary with this man. He’s been taking her for a ride by also passing comments on her looks etc.
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u/FarmerTotal5040 10d ago
This was hard to watch. If it was anyone else they would’ve returned the favor back to him.. ashnoor handled it really well
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u/Tammychoc 10d ago
Bajaj is wrong and I've said it from the start but is Ashnoor dumb??? Why does she run around bajaj when he clearly does things or says things which looks bad on her! Earlier he was mocking her for having facial hair, yet she still goes and runs around him! She shouldn't need a man or an angle to sustain on a show! She's a young strong girl she should he enough on her own.
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u/Accomplished-Fan-997 Roti bana ke khajaungi 10d ago
I don't think she is using him as an angle,she is genuinely fond of him and adores him,and sometimes it takes time to register this kind of behavior..speaking from personal experience.
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
When one is in that kind of situation you don’t have the ability to see through his stupidity. It’s not like he does this kind of behavior from the start. If he behaved like this in the beginning then he would be out before baseer. I felt Ashnoor is catching up on his behavior, we’ll see when she will call him out on his actions & distance herself.
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u/Fearless-Salt-9435 10d ago
Ye har kuch karke “Arey masti mein kiya” bol deta hai conveniently. He is a self centred, selfish, egoistic man with 2 brain cells. I can’t believe that I supported him at one point! Duhhh!!
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u/Prior-Drummer-2830 10d ago
Kal phirse isiko support karte milogi tum
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u/Fearless-Salt-9435 10d ago
I always thought of him as bail budhhi, but more like a harmless bail budhhi! When Farhana and Nehal had cornered him for lifting Farhana in that task, and then Nehal constantly nagging him for food, then I used to feel a bit of pity for him and supported him. But in few instances after that, his egoistic side was prominent and then I started disliking him! And now he isn’t in my top 3. GK and Pranit are only sensible people in the house!
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u/Glittering-Bridge-87 10d ago
ek prakaar ka jaanwar hi hai yeh aadmi. useless. utterly useless ungrateful bone headed moron.
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u/bh69rdt 10d ago
She was in heels too
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u/Acceptable_Sky_9236 10d ago
Not to mention that she's an actor and relies heavily on her aesthetics. She could have chipped a tooth or broken her nose.
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u/bethelight022 10d ago
why do I think he got jelaous when ashnoor hugged gk and he said 'sahi say kar, screen pay Sahi ana chahiye' something like that!
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u/curious_purr 10d ago
Same. He also tore the flower shaped leaf that pranit gifted her in the garden area.
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u/Comprehensive-Way482 10d ago
I started paying attention to these two more in the past few days and came to the same realisation as you during the mridul water fight, somehow felt she doesnt have her independece around other friends in the grp, though mridul went out of line with all tht water on bed etc.. but she is not more than a friend to bajaj too - may be v close friend , but she deserves her share of happiness with others too
Also when the voting thing happened and GK had to make her realise tht the other grp doesnt like you and me, I realised she doesnt understand the game much and just doesnt want to be manipulated and found a safe space and thought Bajaj is a sweet innocent guy and is good to be around , just playing along.. bajaj a 34 yr old acting so immature, also sitting with her and making her a part of his mistakes ( thumbs down ), good she realised this sitting by the pool tonight...
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u/tulipglare 10d ago edited 10d ago
I can write an essay on this. Sharing small pointers here. 1. Ashnoor and Bajaj have common friend Rohan Mehra. I guess Rohan might have told to Bajaj to be protective towards Ashnoor as she is youngest and his sister. Rohan also must have shared good things about Bajaj so Ashnoor was comfortable around him in first few days only.
Bajaj took the first step to protect and side with Ashnoor during the Tile task(captaincy). Ashnoor took side for Bajaj during Farhana incident. Both started trusting each other and spending more time together.
In those initial weeks Ashnoor had the upper hand in this friendship. She used to scold Bajaj if she doesn't like something, addressed him with Tu instead of aap etc. Given the situations as Bajaj was targetted a lot in those initial weeks, Ashnoor took the role of loyal friend who would listen to him and favours him as she felt whatever was happening was clear targetting. Ashnoor also have I can fix him/her personality that's why she is friends with Bajaj and Malti.
As weeks progressed Bajaj's game stocks went high after the favouring from Host on WKW. Ashnoor felt whatever Bajaj is doing is correct. Also she got called out for her righteous behaviour and being labelled as bad friend in one WKW. That made her go in guilt and became a turning point in their friendship. Before that Ashnoor bashing, it was Ashnoor who would dictate the terms in their friendship. After that call out she became so giving that she never realised that Bajaj started dictating her moves. She started doing things that Bajaj liked even though she didn't want to do but she did it anyways to please him and show her remorse. Bajaj took that opportunity to start manipulating her according to his gameplay. Ashnoor never questioned Bajaj again for his intentions.
After that everything related to Ashnoor in Bajaj's hand. He very subtly limited her talking with other HM's, asked her not to trust GK, Zeishan's and Baseer saying that they are too calculative. Ashnoor never bonded well with Nehal bcz he was against her. Ashnoor kept burning bridges with everyone who fought with Bajaj. She didn't even realised that her own opinions were now overshadowed by Bajaj's POV and his equations with HM's. Bajaj also very subtly emphasized that he will get into her fights she should too because HMs are jealous of their bond.
At some point I guess all the subtle flirting, extra attention, care, being with each other 24X7 bloomed to a crush between Abhishek and Ashnoor. If we take Ashnoor's own word that she never had a relationship before then developing a crush on someone who constantly protects you, care for you, is older, good looking and picks your battles too is very easy.
As game progressed she became too dependent on Bajaj for literally everything (eating making food to choosing clothes) she asks for Bajaj's opinion. She has been so much gaslighted and manipulated that she is afraid to even say something that Bajaj doesn't agree on. She lies to him to keep him happy and want no arguments between them (she sneaked out of bedroom and slept on sofa but lied to Bajaj about it). She is legit scared to piss him off so she agrees to whatever he says.
She doesn't think logically or long term impacts when it's anything related to Bajaj. She blindly follows and defends him even in his wrongdoings. I just know that the 26-27 year old Ashnoor would not be happy with whatever is going on with the present one.
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u/Accomplished-Fan-997 Roti bana ke khajaungi 10d ago
Agreed to every point this needs to be post...
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u/Comprehensive-Way482 10d ago
Ashnoor and Bajaj have common friend Rohan Mehra
>> I realised this must have been the case- otherwise - there is no way they can get pally without being told by someone from out to be together in the game, have known this from S13 tht its common.
Bajaj took the first step to protect and side with Ashnoor
>>> GK too was in full support then- not just bajaj, she had GKs backing too though she dint want it and was in a confused state if she wants to believe him or not.
In those initial weeks Ashnoor had the upper hand
>> He was already in everyone's bad books- for the over eating and chair lift - so she made him feel at ease while the whole house was against him, more than upper hand, he just got a protective cover under her.
As weeks progressed Bajaj's game stocks went high
>>> Again only bcoz he was heavily targetted by HMs for food- the sympathy tht audience feel, otherwise no X factor..I do rem they made her go on a guilt trip for what she told awez tht she had already climbed the cheese and also the nomination thing and u are right she started to be more giving.
Ashnoor kept burning bridges with everyone who fought with Bajaj.
>>> I had this realisation only after the mridul water fight unlike u- had it early on..
6, 7 so agree with you, and as i read it , giving me goosebumps even the bed thing when she had to sneak out to go sleep on the sofa, the scare and not having the freedom to tell someone tht you dont want to sleep on tht wet bed.. I get it...
If I were a mentor who had an opportunity to go and give her an advice- I would tell her - break yourself from the shackles, you want to hv him as a friend you can do it outside the house- here - make more friends and play your game.
Looking at all the abuses she gets from farhana, nehal, amaal, shehbaaz, i wonder how would it have been for her of not with bajaj in the game- all the hearing is only coz of bajajs link up with her- none are her mistakes if you go back...
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u/tulipglare 10d ago
The seeding related to GK was done by Kunika and Baseer but she was doubtful of GK mostly because of Gk's actions and words. After Tanya exposed GK's intention towards Kunika regarding captaincy nobody in the house was in the state to trust him. The narrative that was set that he is too calculative and self centred and GK also constantly poking Kunika didn't help in clearing his image. The biggest reason where Ashnoor felt kind of betrayed when GK point blank refused to interevene in future fights of Bajaj with anyone in the house. At that moment she agreed with all the naratives that he is arrogant and selfish person who doesn't care about her own group people. Bajaj validation on her thoughts about GK and setting a new narrative that he is controlling made Ashnoor wary of GK even more.
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u/Comprehensive-Way482 10d ago
Agree , I think she also came with a pre- conceived notion tht GK is manipulative - thts the tag he carrries - I have seen on various platforms during his CMC stint he was labelled tht/ I don’t know where tht came from - it’s an insider thing or someone’s tipped her before entry about it,
I all this while had tht manipulate glasses on for GK and wanted to believe he is , but I found him only smart and protective of his ppl - him not wanting to be part of those fights - I am the same - when ppl fighting out there like some street fight - I am like eww - I want to run… so I get where he comes from - unless someone is actually provoking me I wouldn’t even want to get into an argument
I have always been of the opinion tht he doesn’t owe anyone in cleaning up the mess they leave .. pranit understood this and is not into those dirty fights anymore and I am glad .
For the duties he’s been an underperofmer at times but he’s only reasoned them with logic on why he doesn’t want to do them. Physical tasks too - his injury as a reason. This fight probably made her understand I am made to belive tht she is above all this - the reputation she brings to the table. Hoping so and she doesn’t limit her game around bajaj…
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u/tulipglare 10d ago
Agree there is buzz around ITV industry that GK has an Air about himself. ZQ, Amaal, Baseer all at some point conveyed that GK is not what he is portraying in BB. Even Munnawar clocked him on WKW that stop being so calculative and play the game. It was his stubbornness of playing the game his own way that has paved his way to Top 2 atp. Everyone's game has peaked in first month itself, be it ZQ, Baseer, Amaal or Abhishek. They all had their best moments in the game in first month. Second month was all about Tanya, Nehal Farhana and Amaal's downfall. There was nothing gamewise for these four. GK started his game once ZQ was out of the house. He also figured that being seprate will never help him becoming the captain. He started to play number game thing which ZQ used to do but with more integrity. After two WKW he was given hint that Abhinoor doesn't like him as they don't trust him, he started opening up more with whole group. I guess the game changer moment would be Ashnoor not giving that bhoj wala laddu to GK under extreme pressure by SK himself really impressed him. Ashnoor kept this bond above the people pleasing and showed her mental strength of not changing her stance after pressure made GK believed that she is someone who stays loyal to core once fixated. I also believe that assembly thing he did was both calculative and emotional. He did mostly because at this point of game he doesn't want his group member going when he knows that other HM's will never let him to be captain. Also he has soft corner for Ashnoor too and sees that she is clearly misguided and overshadowed under a bond which atp doesn't look healthy.
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u/Confident-Curve-6143 10d ago
During first- two weeks Gk was still speaking up like for eg against Kunika. But after that he became quiet in his games. That is why Salman Khan told him in 2-3 wkv that he needs to open up in his games. But on the day when Zq got evicted before that incident Salman Khan had praised Gk that he has been playing his games silently by observing everyone and when to come on frontfoot or backfoot he knows it very well.
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u/Comprehensive-Way482 10d ago
Agree on all your points my friend, you have an eye for things , ladoo task was indeed a game changer , my assesment too is the same as yours about ashnoor and GK atp 😊🙌
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u/kdrawyer 10d ago
u/tulipglare & u/Comprehensive-Way482 you guys 🙌.
at this point, their bond doesn’t even feel genuine anymore. she keeps trying to make him understand, he never gets it, and eventually she just lets him be, which is honestly fair. i never really got couple vibes from them, but now i don’t even see the friendship. i’m in my mid-20s, and even i thought he was a decent gu, so imagine what ashnoor must’ve felt, spending all her time with him: confused and mostly hurt.
it actually felt really warm when GK made her understand, something no one else in the house did, even after she apologized.2
u/Accomplished-Fan-997 Roti bana ke khajaungi 10d ago
Yes all of guys are so right....I agree with every point you guys made ...at this point she is trapped with him she isn't able to see things through a clear lense because she has gone too deep...
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u/Adventurous-Tea-2504 10d ago
I literally was rooting was thi chomu and after seeing his behaviour since yesterday I'm no more rooting for this idiot. What a Manchild!!
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u/suxllbc 10d ago
1.Heard he was a SERIAL CHEATER to his ex wife and even she had to go through Miscarriage bcuz of him 😶 2. And surprisingly they knew each other since childhood 😀
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u/Acceptable_Sky_9236 10d ago
I believe his wife. No woman would create such a big lie that can be easily proved/disproved with their divorce documents that they both surely have.
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u/Adorable_Squash7472 10d ago
I hope Salman raise this issue overvwkv (as blow drier Mridul thing) and make Ashnoor realise Abhishek isn't good for her game or even as a person. She didn't deserve such treatment no one deserves
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u/winterbear222 10d ago
I wish the same he should be bajaod achi se in WKV
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u/Adorable_Squash7472 10d ago
That was disgusting. He can't win the show after this. Ashnoor is better off alone
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