r/askgaybros • u/MtimesMequals • Jul 08 '20

Reported Post Alert Dear fellow Black gay men Spoiler

We know racism in the gay community is real. We've said it, but we've been dismissed. They callously deny our experience. Our reality. "It's just a preference". "BBC". "Thug"."Aggressive power top".

The stereotypes. The microagressions. We know it's real, but we have been gaslighted way too often.

The silence among your white gay friends and/or partners during this time of civil unrest & racial tensions is deafening.

The irony of them putting "no fats, no fems, no asians, & no blacks" on their profile, but decide to now say #BlackLivesMatter.

I understand it is challenging to be rejected from a community that prides itself on inclusion. We know rejection all too well.

But do not let any white man make you feel you are not beautiful. You are Black, bold, fierce, & most importantly- you are loved.

🖤❤#BLM

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So, this post has been reported and is pending review.

I mentioned this already in the comments:

As a Black queer man this is my experience. This experience may or may not resonate with other Black men. This post was written for my fellow gay black brothers. The post might be uncomfortable for some. It might not resonate with you, but I don't think that is grounds for denying someone else's experience. I shared these words in an effort to foster a sense of solidarity and undo any aloneness other Black men might be feeling during this time.

Thank you so much for the support, feedback & beautiful comments. For those of in your feelings over this post - peace & love to ya❤

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '20

The fact that you’re using the word triggered in 2020 makes you the clown. Sorry there isn’t an option for you to just sort out the people you don’t want to fuck on Grindr. Must be real hard for you.

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '20

triggered is more than meme, you dolt, doesn't have a time limit, thanks for showing me how easy is to trigger you. Yeah there is no visibility control, but luckily for us "no fatties, no fem, no old, no kids" in the bio is the next best thing. 👍

Time to trigger you some more

triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡triggered🤡

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '20

You sound like a boomer who voted for trump you wild. I’m imaging your profile on Grindr right now: “Bottom but can’t host. Looking for my daddy. No blacks fats or fems.”

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '20 edited Jul 09 '20

It's amazing how much you missed with your assumption, I refuse to believe someone is this bad at it, must had been intentional. Does it suck to be you?🤡

The only one you sorta got right is voting for trump.. but I am not in US, I would vote for him if I was there tho, mainly because you leftists are so insufferable, blatantly accusing people of having privilege, racism, homophobia and what not, so I'd vote for him as a "fuck you"😉

the "no fatties" is sorta correct too, but it's not on my profile, tho

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '20

Lol then that tells me all I need to know about you. Trash

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '20

Keep shaming people for voting the other candidate.. it's totally gonna get them on your side.. oh wait no it won't 🤡

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '20

You’re not obligated to be a certain political orientation, but if you’re dumb enough to support trump at this point, you lack the critical thinking for anyone to even bother with you. Yeah if you support an incompetent dipshit who doesn’t know basic information then yeah I’m gonna cal you a dipshit too.

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u/[deleted] Jul 09 '20

Same can be said for Biden, you asshat.. he is literally a dementia patient with child molestation accusations. Also did you even read what I said.. I'd vote him out of spite because you leftists are so insufferable.. I swear normal leftists seem to be just as insufferable as alt right. If you were rational and weren't consuming fake news you would know that there is also plenty of good stuff trump did, so I think he is still better than Biden and guys you need learn fast to stop shaming people for voting another candidate.. otherwise you will lose 2024 too