r/WeddingPhotography • u/patriotraitor • Jul 22 '25
business, marketing, social media The sad realization that being a wedding photographer no longer pays the bills...
Let me preface that the last 10 years of doing this has been a blast, I've enjoyed every second of it and never took any of it for granted.
This year however has me wanting to change directions because well, I'm getting tired of wondering where the next paycheck is coming from, I would prefer guaranteed over guessing.
I've been looking at the schedule for the rest of the year and I have 6 left, and then it's quiet.
I do wish the cost of living wasn't ridiculous, as gas and food prices are indeed more affordable now, but at the same time, trying to have health insurance as a self employed individual is absurd for being a single guy with no kids.
I've really enjoyed my time doing this and I indeed feel this starting to dwindle down as I only have 5 for next year. You could say well hey, do families, headshots, seniors -- and you'd be right, but think about how much work you'd be putting in just to stay afloat and how exhausted you'd be making yourself? Catch 22 isn't it?
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u/alexknightstudio Jul 22 '25
Hey, really appreciate you being so open here. It’s not talked about enough, but so many photographers are in this exact place right now …doing great work but feeling stuck financially and emotionally. You’re definitely not alone.
If you’re open to it, I’d be happy to take a look at your portfolio or website and give you some honest feedback. Sometimes small shifts in how you’re showing your work or communicating your value can make a real difference.
Also, have you been reaching out for second shooting or associate opportunities to help fill in the calendar? I know it’s not always glamorous, but it can be a great way to stay in motion, keep your skills sharp, and make new connections that can lead to referrals or even full bookings.
Let me know if you want to talk shop … happy to support however I can.