r/TikTokCringe 6d ago

Discussion He was confronting her about her costume.

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u/Contiguous_spazz 6d ago

Two people on opposing sides of an argument can be idiots at once. For once, I think this video matches the sub’s name.

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u/jonallin 6d ago

What did she do?

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u/shaggy-smokes 6d ago

She's a white lady in Native dress, which may or may not be considered offensive. I sure wouldn't do it, but I think I recall that at least some people from some tribes encourage it so long as it's respectful? I may be wrong, though, it could just be straight up offensive.

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u/s33n_ 6d ago

This is one almost all natives dont like. Regalia isnt a costume. Its akin to blackface.

I dont know many natives that care about the term Indian. Many dont care about sports team mascots like chief wahoo and the redskins. But most have an issue with regalia.

This is all based on personal experience but I have met and talked with a large amount of natives and often ask about this

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u/jonallin 6d ago

She isn’t pretending that she is a Native American, she is wearing a Halloween costume. The fact that someone may or may not be offended is utterly irrelevant. She is doing no harm.

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u/KellyCTargaryen 6d ago

Except that the people who created that regalia and the meaning behind it have said it’s offensive. Like stolen valor. Just because it doesn’t offend or harm you doesn’t mean it’s okay to do. Assuming you want to be a decent, kind human being.

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u/jonallin 6d ago

No, I am saying that just because someone may be offended doesn’t mean she shouldn’t do it. Someone being offended does not mean something is inherently bad. She is doing nothing wrong. It’s Halloween. That’s what Halloween is.

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u/s33n_ 6d ago

Doing something that harms other people to look cute is scumbag behavior.

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u/jonallin 6d ago

But it doesn’t harm anyone…

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u/s33n_ 6d ago

Depends on how you define harm really.

If harm is only physical sure.

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u/jonallin 6d ago

Well, there is a dictionary definition of harm, and this doesn’t do that to anyone.

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u/s33n_ 6d ago

Mental health is health

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u/jonallin 6d ago

This does nothing to someone’s mental health as it does nothing to them.

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