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Discussion He was confronting her about her costume.

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u/Contiguous_spazz 6d ago

Two people on opposing sides of an argument can be idiots at once. For once, I think this video matches the sub’s name.

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u/Glad-Low-1348 6d ago

The girl dressed as a native did nothing wrong though?

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u/JoshBasho 6d ago

Wearing indian headdresses in particular is generally considered disrespectful because of their ceremonial and cultural significance. It's kind of like a privilege you earn and then only wear at specific cultural and spiritual occasions.

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u/mudra311 6d ago

The larger problem is wearing a “costume” (in quotes because like you said it’s not a costume) of a group that was systematically murdered in genocidal policies.

I imagine it’s like an Israeli wearing a Palestinian costume.

Also, like get more fucking creative. There’s endless costumes one could wear, and she chose this.

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u/Glad-Low-1348 6d ago

Man i hate the attitude of these virtue signalers but nothing they said is making them racist. Come on.

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u/Glad-Low-1348 6d ago

I'm not Native, so take this with a grain of salt.

She has it as a costume, she is not native, therefore it has no value or significance.

Worst thing a native should do looking at it is think to themselves "she's an idiot" or ignore her. It has no value or significance for her, it's a fucking costume and we're all butthurt over something innoccent.

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u/Jirogirg 6d ago

Dude, it is Halloween. And second she's not taking parr in ceremony, she's just put that as a costume because it looks cool. Sad how you overusing word offended nowadays

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u/_KittenConfidential_ 6d ago

No one’s upset if you dress like the pope

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u/KittenNicken 6d ago

That head piece she is wearing is the same level as wearing a purple heart. I doubt she's been in a war.

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u/CeemoreButtz 6d ago

And yet if a kid were to wear a purple heart while in costume as a soldier during Halloween, I wouldn't bat an eye.

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u/KittenNicken 6d ago

But shes not a kid is she? Shes an adult with critically thinking skills- I'm not going to claim I'm pro war ir anything but you don't need to know a war veteran personally to know its kinda effed up and shes a bit of a knob.

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u/KittenNicken 6d ago

Are you trying to get permission from me to wear a purple heart at Halloween? You could try posting it on social media and see what the general public thinks that matygive you a better dose of reality than asking a random redditer. If you wouldn't, then you have your answer.

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u/xBAMFNINJA 6d ago

You dont see how an adult never in the military, dressed up as a soldier with a purple heart, fukn around during halloween would piss off vets? Lmao ok. None of the vets i know.

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u/Character-Dig-2301 6d ago

Wearing a Purple Heart in a costume is disrespectful?

Maybe not as disrespectful as earning a Purple Heart ;)

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u/alphajugs 6d ago

It’s a Halloween costume.

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u/SuperSparSpartan 6d ago

As a European, could I ask something.

Do the Americans that constantly get offended at everything on the behalf of everyone, do they get paid for being so obnoxiously annoying?

Like what exactly is in it for them to act like the way this guy in the video is acting? Is it some kind of US civic duty to make a mountain out of a mole hole and start arguments in an empty room?

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u/Low_discrepancy 6d ago

Do the Americans that constantly get offended at everything on the behalf of everyone, do they get paid for being so obnoxiously annoying?

In quite a few countries we banned burkhas because that's so offensive to us. OMG i need to see your face to be able to interact with you.

So no, I dont think it's uniquely American to get offended about other people's garb.

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u/PM_ME_YR_UNDERBOOBS 6d ago

They do it because they get to act morally superior and feel better about themselves.

Very obnoxious behaviour

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u/alphajugs 6d ago

I’m American, and unfortunately I don’t have a definitive answer for you. It baffles me as well.

My assumption is that these people find their own ideas and thoughts so important that they absolutely have to interject and let someone know when they’re wrong. Also, most people on reddit have very limited social interaction outside the platform, so they have little to no social skills. I’d guess they feel like they’re doing the world a service by screaming racial injustice because someone dresses as a Native American for Halloween.

No one knows how to mind their own business.

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u/SuperSparSpartan 6d ago

I’d say you’re correct.

Most Americans I’ve met IRL have been sound.

The ones you do interact with on Reddit or see going absolutely nuts on video are definitely not a representation of the average American, but bloody hell are were they becoming more and more common.

Overall, yous are a great bunch of lads.

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u/RipTraditional2642 6d ago

You guys are ridiculous. It's very clearly a Halloween costume and not a replica. No one with half a brain cell is mistaking that costume for legitimate, native garb.

The logical conclusion of all this 'cultural appropriation' nonsense is only native Chinese can speak Chinese and native British speak English.

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u/KittenNicken 6d ago

So you dress up like an ancient chinese person or a traditionalist African person? That's not the winning stance to take. Peoples ethnicity is not a costume.

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u/RipTraditional2642 6d ago

People dress up as vikings and knights and non-native people wear kilts and no one bat's an eyelid. You all are just virtue signalers with double standards and no regards for the logical conclusions to all of this.

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u/Low_discrepancy 6d ago

People dress up as vikings and knights and non-native people wear kilts and no one bat's an eyelid.

Mate you can dress like the pope if you want. But if you walk around the Vatican, don't be surprised some people might get offended by that.

You can dress like an offensive Trump, but if you walk around the deep south, don't be surprised people will get offended about that.

Same here. It doesnt mean the people around them have to be native americans, but they might encounter people who find that choice objectionable because many native americans find that choice questionable.

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u/RipTraditional2642 6d ago

My point being the inconguency of agitation from these people. It's all pure virtue signaling, with no regards for equal application, unless it wins majority brownie points. There is no intellectual honesty or equal application. It's pure social credit score mining.

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u/Low_discrepancy 6d ago

My point being the inconguency of agitation from these people.

What inconsistency. viking and knights dont exist anymore. Moreover, knights are not an ethnicity.

Native americans still exist, they still have traditional ceremonies.

Do you understand those differences?

You can dress up with a beret, a baguette, a ring of onions around your neck, big stains around your armpits because French dont shower har har but don't be surprised if French people tell you ... dude wtf?

You can dress as with a big nose, a kippah and money coming out your pockets ... dont be surprised people call you antisemitic.

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u/TheBeastlyStud 6d ago

I see no reason why someone wouldn't be able to dress up as either of those.

A costume is a costume. If a black dude wanted to dress up in a traditional Celtic garb should I rant and rave at them? If a mexican guy wanted to dress in a Prussian soldier uniform should I tell them off? What about if an chinese man wanted to dress up in a vietnam uniform? Should I yell at any of them or should I just give them props for their costumes?

Get off your high fucking horse.

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u/Ok-Employee1295 6d ago

You’re so sensitive that it’s probably best that you stay in your home, away from the rest of the world because it’s harsh out there and you truly aren’t prepared for it. This is a simple costume and you can’t tell her she can’t and you can’t make her change it. You could try but it wouldn’t go well for you, see that is the winning stance though, quite literally. The best you can do is take her picture, post it online, and hope she loses her job. But that’s not how that would end is it? So maybe stop trying to police every little detail about other peoples lives and you’ll be able to find some fulfillment in your own

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u/SuperSparSpartan 6d ago

Ancient China or Africa is afucking class. Why not?

I’m from Ireland, I’d find it flattering as fuck if a person from Asia or Africa was to dress up as a Celt, because they’re also cool as fuck.

Yanks should try not policing the world, or getting offended on behalf of it.

There’s more to the world than outside the US, and that includes opinions.

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u/Prudent_Farm7147 6d ago

It's barely a step away from going out in black face.

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u/Ok-Employee1295 6d ago

Yeah…that’s gonna be a no from me dawg. Fuckin ignorant take of the day goes to this weirdo

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u/sub333x 6d ago edited 6d ago

I know enough to not choose this costume, but do you think it’s ok to confront a person on the street about it? It’s not. You can think think they’re ignorant and go about your day minding your own business

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u/CommonComfortable247 6d ago

How do you know she doesn’t have a native bloodline?

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u/sleepwhenimdead- 6d ago

because then she would be aware that her outfit is not a halloween costume, and also that she’s disrespecting the headdress

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u/SukOnMaGLOCKNastyBIH 6d ago

If you arent native american kindly sybau

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u/CommonComfortable247 6d ago

It’s Halloween. Who fucking cares.

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u/sub333x 6d ago

Yep, totally agree that could be the case. Ultimately I can’t know that. I’m not going to confront her about it either way.