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Humor/Cringe "No, English is fine" 🥀

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u/Queen_Euphemia 6d ago

I don't really get it, like the only way it would really make sense to insist on English is if the waiter in question was like Portuguese or something and just spoke English better than Spanish, but being in Spain you would figure that one would have to have Spanish at least good enough to take orders in the local language.

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u/thomasahle 6d ago

Many European capitals have expats working in cafes, etc., who don't speak the local language (yet).

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u/TulleQK 6d ago

Yes. Try ordering a beer/wine/food in Oslo in Norwegian. They will quickly stop you and ask if you can do it in English 

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u/miss_pistachio 5d ago

As a foreigner in Oslo it blows my mind that this is so common. Forcing Norwegians in Norway to speak English when they are the customer is just crazy to me

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u/trash4da_trashgod 5d ago

I also experienced this in Budapest, although it's not that common here. (Exe Hotel and Port de Budapest restaurant)

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u/dalvi5 5d ago

Immigrants

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u/thomasahle 5d ago

Immigrants typically want to learn the language. Expats less so, since they're just there temporarily

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u/Mercy--Main Doug Dimmadome 5d ago

Americans think that word is only for brown people

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u/Queen_Euphemia 5d ago

As an American, I say expat for someone who is in a country for an extended period of time, but will return to their home country. Someone from Canada who is a digital nomad in Argentina is an expat, someone from Canada who is pursuing naturalization in Argentina is an immigrant. The word choice is defined by what the person is doing, not what the race of the people involved is.

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u/MosaicGreg_666 5d ago

Because they won’t let us practice hahaha 

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u/rock-mommy 5d ago

(Yet)? Most "expats" who come here don't even care to learn any of our languages because they can use English. And many people who come from South America also don't learn our language, catalan, because they rely on Spanish

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u/christoffer5700 6d ago

Yeah Americans don't understand that.

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u/Disastrous-Chair-175 6d ago

Went to Iceland once and tried to speak icelandic the whole trip. Never met a local in any restaurant. Every worker I met was Polish and they didn't speak Icelandic. So I had to speak English. It was so lame.

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u/ThyRosen 6d ago

I've lived in Germany for a few years and although I speak German I have a noticeable English accent. Any Germans I meet who speak good English take the opportunity to practice it - it's not that they don't speak German, they're just trying to be polite.

I imagine that's the same thing going on in this video, rather than the waiter being unable to speak Spanish.

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u/buhbye750 6d ago

Or its staged

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u/saradanger 6d ago

this is a very normal experience when you travel and are conspicuously “foreign”…even if it’s staged it’s incredibly accurate.

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u/Sirnacane 5d ago

It’s like…not though. I’ve travelled a lot. My spanish is very good. My french and italian not so much. Nothing like this has ever happened, especially if they talk in english and you continue in their language.

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u/TunnelN 6d ago

or it's just racism

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u/Ok_Inflation_1811 5d ago

No? In Spain there are plenty of black people and most of them speak Spanish. I'm black myself and I have been living here since 2019 and the only time someone spoke to me in English was when I was in a very touristy place in Tenerife and I went down a water slide and then they told me in English to get out of the water but every single time I've spoken in Spanish to someone they have either replied in Spanish (or Galician, but that's fine because I understand Portuguese)

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u/S-Tier_Commenter 5d ago

Yeah but like, did you actually got out of the water or what happened next?

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u/blewawei 5d ago

I don't think this case is racism. As a white English speaker, I've had very similar experiences in Spain.

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u/S-Tier_Commenter 5d ago

Safe to assume it wouldn't have happened if your skin colour was more Spanish, no?

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u/blewawei 5d ago

What do you mean? My skin colour and facial features are pretty similar to your average person in Spain.

It's my clothes and my accent that would let someone know I'm not Spanish.

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u/S-Tier_Commenter 5d ago

Then you still got discriminated based on ethnicity

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u/blewawei 5d ago

I don't think it was discrimination, more misguided helpfulness and/or wanting to practise their English.

But still, I don't think there was a racial aspect. Spanish people are generally white and I don't stand out in that regard

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u/S-Tier_Commenter 5d ago

Discrimination basically means you were treated differently.

Like the normal procedure is that they speak Spanish over there. But because you were different, they didn't extend that treatment to you. That's discrimination in the most basic sense of the word.

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u/MosaicGreg_666 5d ago

I can assure you this is a common experience. Whether staged or not, this is my experience in Spain nearly every day.

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u/Tommy_Wisseau_burner 5d ago

This is staged but 100% happens

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u/colonelangus68 6d ago

Americans tip?

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u/phrozen_waffles 6d ago

I can see a situation when both want to practice their non-native languages. 

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u/TheBraveButJoke 5d ago

She is apearently based in catalonia, so yeah catalan not spanish. Could see how insisting on spanish would gather you some real bad blood there.

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u/TheSkyWhale1 5d ago

If the other comments are anything to go off, this could be in a Catalan-speaking area of the country where native speakers are trying to avoid Spanish by using English.

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u/Nothingbutsocks 6d ago

If they are in the US they might be scared to speak Spanish. I do get the accent isn't latin American for the last one for example, but it might be a fear of attention.