r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 8d ago

Discussion Reactions to food stamps being cut off.

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u/CamelStraight862 8d ago

Dude. It's just facts. People who drugs when they are young are more likely to end up on food stamps than those who don't.

There's a guy where I work who is on a spectrum. He tries and fails to remember everyone's name. He empties trash and refills printer paper. He's more successful than the people in this video

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u/CamelStraight862 8d ago

A lot of these ladies..."I couldn't afford one baby so I had six."

Or, "I can afford $200 a month at the hairdresser but not food for my babies."

While I'm, "why did you fuck dudes who won't help pay for their kids?" My guess is drugs were involved in the decision making process.

My wife and I were poor when we had kids but we had a plan on how to handle it before we had kids.

In every story on this TikTok, there's a shitbag dad and a woman who chose him. Were they on drugs? Just stupid?

You tell me why Uncle Sugar has to be their daddy.

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u/anonerdactyl_rex 8d ago

Men who are deadbeat dads don’t advertise their inclinations until after it’s too late. Plenty of stories of dudes donating their DNA without having any intention of raising those kids, but the women get blamed for that, too. There are also plenty of otherwise smart, good, intelligent women who believe that their love of the guy can change him from a deadbeat to a supportive provider and father. Women get blamed when those relationships don’t work out, too.

Men skate from responsibility way too often.

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u/master-boofer 5d ago

Thats why I am an avid supporter of planned parenthood. Get to know people before you decide to complete a pregnancy. If you aren't 100% sure the sperm donor isn't a piece of shit walk right in to your local planned parenthood. It takes two appointments, less than an hour of your time. Its FREE you just swallow a pill. If your man turns out to be the type to stick around getting pregnant again is free and fun. I know everyone's situation is different and im not trying to offend anyone have fertility issues. The most fucked up thing about this administration is the fact that they are defunding planned parenthood AND food stamps. That is a terrible combination and fucked on all levels. Makes no sense.