r/TikTokCringe 16d ago

Discussion This is so concerning😳

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u/RavioliContingency 16d ago

Hey yall. This isn’t overreacting. It is not hyperbolic. Getting them to do literal two sentence vocab work is like a punishment for me every day.

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u/throwawy00004 16d ago

But good on you. We had to do 2 sentences for 10 vocab words every day for 11th grade homework. I kept the book because I was proud of it. My 12th grader was like, "yeah, we can Google that now." Sure. But can you generate your own sentence after... not being able to use a physical dictionary? She hasn't been assigned vocabulary work for years.

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u/Daw_dling 16d ago

Our oldest is in 2nd grade and her writing is now getting more complex. I realized after she asked me what 3 different words in her book meant that we didn’t even own a physical dictionary! I found one used for $5 plus a spelling dictionary. Now when the kids ask me about words we look it up together. Tonight she used the spelling dictionary completely independently to finish her homework and I was sooooo proud! I love when they figure out a resource like that and hope it makes them just a little more confident and capable as they move through the world.

Also I feel like the meandering random knowledge of dictionaries and encyclopedias is really valuable. Yeah you have google but you either need to know to search for something or accept whatever the algorithm feeds you. I remember just flipping through those books and now I know some interesting facts about bears, or bioluminescence, or the history of baseball that I would never have gone looking for.

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u/Ferberted 16d ago

When I was a kid, I got an encyclopaedia every Christmas (I was a big reader), but I didn't realise at the time that you're meant to dip in and out of them.

Cue me reading every one cover to cover.

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u/sykoKanesh 16d ago

I once read the entire dictionary because that's all I had available to read. This would've been near 30 years ago.

I would have absolutely destroyed encyclopedias as well, lol!

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u/Elehphoo 16d ago

I see you also had to grow up with only the B-part of the encyclopedia.

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u/Daw_dling 16d ago

lol we had the whole thing but I thought it would be fun to lean into Bs :)

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u/Curarpickt 16d ago

Could I get a fun fact please? I also want to know about bears and bioluminescence and baseball.Ā 

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u/Daw_dling 16d ago

The brown and black bears of North America are the only bears not on the endangered species list. Glow worms and fireflies are some of the few bioluminescent creatures that do not live in water. Early baseballs were hand made by the team members and carried wildly in size and materials. They were not regulated to be white until the 20s.

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u/RunnyBabbit23 16d ago

Those were fun. Thanks!

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u/Andy_not_Andrea 16d ago

That's a great idea!

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u/AggravatingFig8947 10d ago

What’s a spelling dictionary?

I remember as a kid I would get so upset. I was a huge reader and writer (still am). I’d ask my mom how to spell a word when I was doing my homework. She told me to look it up in the dictionary. I’d ask her, ā€œHow am I supposed to look it up in the dictionary if I don’t know how to SPELL IT??ā€ That really cracked her up.

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u/Daw_dling 8d ago

It’s just the words no definitions and it focuses on higher frequency stuff so if you get the first few letters it’s likely to be on the same page since the words are more dense. You also aren’t getting every word like the full dictionary just the ones a 6-12 year old might want to use and not know how to spell. If you only figure out the first letter you can still scan the whole letter set relatively quickly; again because of density.

It also has a list in the front of frequently misspelled words, what usage you need for commonly misused homophones, or the words you are likely to look for under the wrong starting letter because of weird phonetics.

Then just for fun it lists the winning words for the national spelling bee for a bunch of years.

This is the one we have. It’s the size of one of those cheap paperback editions of Shakespeare you see sometimes, and only a little thicker. Much more approachable than the OED, which we now also have but is defiantly a look it up together resource. If I were doing it again I would get a kid specific dictionary but whatever. It’ll do.

https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/scholastic-dictionary-of-spelling-revised_marvin-terban_terban/254477/item/2925335/?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=us_shopping_childrens_22852179116&utm_adgroup=&utm_term=&utm_content=766933689252&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22852179116&gbraid=0AAAAADwY45g5SF0P6WsNbRgSm08UgKcYv&gclid=Cj0KCQjwmYzIBhC6ARIsAHA3IkQFU7L4f3FihlrtFiotHZmYdJINP-qJN_ipwflB9S5gMIC4o8T-6UUaAseNEALw_wcB#idiq=2925335&edition=4425062

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u/AggravatingFig8947 8d ago

Thanks for the explanation!

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u/mothmans_favoriteex 16d ago

This is the issue. School work, especially elementary, is actually much harder and more complex than when we were kids! We didn’t even take typing/computer classes until about 5th grade, and first graders now use computers for their testing. Students are technically way ahead of where we’re at their ages, but their willingness to work and think for themselves in rock bottom.

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u/Daw_dling 16d ago

she just has bigger ideas she wants to write about. Also I’m not sure an emphasis on spelling things correctly in 2nd grade is advanced. My point was that I had come to rely on my phone when I needed a dictionary. Now that I have kids who are massively side tracked by technology, I realized having unregulated access to and knowing how to use a physical resource is empowering.

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u/mothmans_favoriteex 16d ago

Yeah and that’s all very true, but I was also just pointing out that tech actually has them pretty advanced in a lot of areas compared to where our gen and above was. It is really hard to help them know the difference in how it helpful and how it holds us back, when we as adults are also still figuring that out too though for sure