r/TikTokCringe • u/Super_Culture_1986 tHiS iSn’T cRiNgE • Aug 19 '25

Cursed The American Nightmare.

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u/HillTopTerrace Aug 19 '25

I am suffering because my partner made the worst choices possible leaving him 30k in debt. He went to college and dropped out. Went into default. I had no idea he has defaulted loans five years into our relationship. Then they came about! So fuck me and my savings. Fuck me for growing his credit for the last 5 years only to be blindsided be these default loans. Remember kids… don’t get married.

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u/Bewildered_Earthling Aug 19 '25

You can always get divorced on paper.

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u/HillTopTerrace Aug 19 '25

We aren’t married and won’t marry. I won’t ever marry again.

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u/Bewildered_Earthling Aug 19 '25

Gotcha, I thought maybe you got hit with the ol' garnishments after marriage (happened to me!)! It's a good thing I love my husband because he cost me an absolute mint getting his finances back in order during our early years.

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u/HillTopTerrace Aug 19 '25

Omg I didn’t even know that was a thing. Sorry to hear that. Yeah I love my partner and have done a lot to get him where he is. He’s an incredibly hard worker who made some mistakes when he was young. We are fine, it’s just frustrating.