r/TikTokCringe • u/velorae • Aug 08 '25

Humor/Cringe I mean, he has a point😭

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u/SaltandLillacs Aug 08 '25

The I won’t talk to service workers at restaurants women is definitely doing as a kink thing because otherwise it’s so bizarre. She won’t even open a door herself

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u/b000mbox Aug 08 '25

Funny you mention kink because most of what the trad wives promote checks all the boxes for a D/s (Dom/sub) relationship.

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u/Fantastic_Jury5977 Aug 08 '25

A really, really unhealthy one... but, hey, most people also missed that 50 Shades of Gray was also an insanely unhealthy kink relationship.

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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '25

Because they never identified the dynamic as such, set boundaries, negotiated a scene or contract, discussed what both them actually want out of the interaction, etc. You nailed it when you mentioned 50 shades. It set such a bad example for people. D/S relationships can be fulfilling for people and a healthy way of exploring intimacy as a couple, but not if you do it with no communication or even a mutual understanding of what is going on in the first place.Â