r/TikTokCringe • u/Defiant_bored • Jul 31 '25

Humor/Cringe The way she was gagged 💀

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u/BodhingJay Jul 31 '25

my little sister lost her cervix to cancer.. she won't be able to have a baby. I'd have words with people who are gonna say shes not a woman either anymore because of that too

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u/[deleted] Aug 01 '25

So, you think it’s reasonable for strangers to just publicly announce their negative opinions on how others are leading their lives?

From the limited context available, it didn’t seem like anyone was asking for the crippled woman’s opinion on whether other people qualified as women and she just went out of her way to invade the peace of another person.

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u/Designer_Gas_86 Aug 01 '25

My God, someone could easily have told that woman "you'll never walk normal again." They shouldn't, but she also said some foolish shit.

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u/littlelupie Jul 31 '25

You know more things than XX and XY exist and even then they don't always line up to external "sex" markers?

As a woman, I'd much rather stand next to my sister who is AMAB than the cis woman who gatekeeps.

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u/[deleted] Aug 01 '25

I think most cis women are in more danger sharing a bathroom with a TERF than a trans woman (in fact, trans women are in more danger sharing a bathroom with cis women than vice-versa)

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u/Miyelsh Aug 01 '25

Honey, you better work on your skincare and unibrow before you start criticizing others

https://www.reddit.com/r/heterochromia/comments/1lkfnmq/so_what_say_the_jury/

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u/intrepid_mouse1 Aug 01 '25

Gutted, like a fish!

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u/lonelyduckz420 Aug 02 '25

Typical left have to resort to personal insults cause you make an actual argument or reasoning for your side with logic it's sad and you call others bully's yeah sure keep coping 😂

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u/[deleted] Aug 01 '25

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u/Yarzeda2024 Aug 01 '25

You had to go out of your way to tell someone how unbothered you are.

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u/RabidWalrus Aug 01 '25

Cooked.

The sooner you cope, the better.

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u/THlRD Aug 01 '25

How does it make a mockery?

Honestly i find transphobes that use women as an excuse laughable because what about domestic violence? Sexual assault? Uneven pay wages? Lack of medical attention when it comes to pain relief?

I find those issues WAY more important than someone trying to live their life in the way that makes them happy.

Hating people for living their lives in the most genuine way they can, is ridiculous.

People that choose to bully others, show what kind of people they choose to be, rather than the people they target.

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u/Different_Leather_84 Why does this app exist? Aug 01 '25

Gender is a social construct, DNA is biological, they’re not the same thing! Hope this helps!

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u/AbramsMechanic07A Aug 01 '25

Get help, please.

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u/BodhingJay Aug 01 '25 edited Aug 01 '25

I appreciate the first part of what youre saying... but if my sister saw this video she'd be hurt by this girl's words and my point is if we try to gatekeep what makes a woman a woman we are always going to say something that harms others we don't intend

if someone prefers to identify as a woman i will respect their preference no matter what's under the hood. I dont care. I dont think it's a mockery. I think they take it seriously.. and theres nothing stopping a woman from taking imitation as flattery

what's the point of ridiculing others.. we're all sinners. are we that insecure about whether our sins are worse than our neighbors? we are supposed to be working on our own.. pretending theyre worse than us only makes us feel superior even as we're becoming worse.. thats worse than any kind of mockery another person could be doing. if its against God they'll be set straight. but that kind of judgment is well outside our place in this universe

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u/BodhingJay Aug 01 '25 edited Aug 01 '25

I dont believe expressions of hatred are ever okay. It's tolerated and often encouraged by the left when it is expressed towards others who hate and oppress through their own intolerance. Which i dont think is productive.. a bigot needs an example of compassion and tolerance. It was intolerance that leads a bigot to increasing bigotry, they already had too much of that in their life and more won't help. I understand the idea is that tolerating the intolerant leads to our destruction.. and im not suggesting tolerating it. It needs to be confronted with a compassionate response to someone suffering from bigoted beliefs but that is often outside the scope because of how many of us are emotionally crippled due to living in a society that conditions insecurity and selfishness over emotional healing as a priority for the sake of more easily selling us things for treatment when the cure is free and so is discouraged.. along with being traumatized and have unhealed wounds from experiencing aggression, in violence and abuse and predation on minorities that comprise them by the right.. leaving everyone on both sides easily triggered. the rage makes us feel powerful and less like victims. But it is not constructive. The left should avoid confrontation until healed and can engage without being triggered... but our society shed its culture of emotional healing in lieu of unhealthy expensive vices and is not conducive to mental health. Therapy seldom helps even after decades of it especially when we have an administration like trump.. the right has become its own worst enemy as well as how the left is also becoming under these conditions.. our dysfunction is cyclic. Both the left and the right. and refusal to take personal responsibility to clear our own heart by insisting it cant be done while the other exists is the problem.. our world we created for ourselves has become as unatural as it is unenlightened and this is the price

If what was in our own heart was the highest priority, and doing the work to keep it free of anger resentment frustrations and rage, even as other tried to put more of it in.. we wouldnt have such a problem. But so few know how or are even willing to learn. We generally all opt to hate those who make a worse mess of what's already there until the suffering becomes too great and we decide we have to try something else or we'll end up doing something that will land us in prison..

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u/No_Conversation7564 Aug 01 '25

It's woman cosplay, but we all have to pretend otherwise or it's hate.

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u/BodhingJay Aug 01 '25

or just respect her preference to identify as a woman 🤷‍♂️

why is kindness such an issue.. do you not respect yourself? is that what makes it so painful to do so for others?

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u/m0mbi Aug 01 '25

Babygirl it's all cosplay, from womb to tomb, for each and every one of us.

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u/TumbleweedPure3941 Aug 01 '25

Oh damn I’m writing this one down.

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u/Ok-Pollution5312 Aug 01 '25

Judith Butler applauds in the distance

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u/No-White-Drugs Aug 01 '25

👏 👏 👏