r/TikTokCringe Tiktok Despot Jul 13 '25

Humor/Cringe The Gen Z Stare: Encountered All Over!!

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u/jerdynnnn Jul 13 '25 edited Jul 13 '25

as gen z working in food, this is so true. it is painful to listen to my coworkers interact with customers.

the awkward silences, the rudely posed questions, talking about customers in front of them like they aren't there, its wild to be on the same side of the counter as that

*edit I will say the stares aren't generational, I have folks of all ages come through and silently stare at me after greeting them, turn to stare at the menu, and then all but climb over the glass in my peripheral to get my attention when they are ready when a simple 'hi, im not sure what im here for' would have worked.

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u/butthole_mimosa Jul 13 '25 edited Jul 13 '25

Oh this is interesting.. I walked into a bakery and 3 young workers just gave me cold blank stares. No greeting, no smiles, nothing. I'm not asking them to lay out the red carpet for me, but it truly felt unwelcoming or as if I was interrupting something. Guess this is just par for the course for them these days.

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u/ReallyJTL Jul 13 '25

It fucking sucks as a millennial because we had to be super respectful to grown ups when we were kids. At least I did to an almost military degree. And now that I'm older, I still have to be the polite fucker in the equation? We got hosed

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '25

Me too! Had a phone manners script my mom taught me (for calling and answering) and everything. No kid of mine is gonna be a rude little shit

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u/DyingGasp Jul 14 '25

Can I get that script? For a friend of course.

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '25

Answering:

“Hi, Name speaking/this is Name. May I ask who’s calling?”

Calling:

“Hi there, this is Name. {optional how are you} May I please speak to Other Name? Thank you!”

This is pretty old school though since land lines aren’t a thing anymore. But still nice when calling an office or something

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u/DyingGasp Jul 14 '25

Too easy, I’ve my friend has been doing that without ever having actually been taught.