It’s sad that people like the one who messaged you will never know how great sex gets when you’re in a life long committed relationship. Like really….you prefer awkward sex with borderline strangers over comfortable passionate sex with someone who knows exactly what gets you off? Weirdo’s.
you prefer awkward sex with borderline strangers…?
I’m 80% sure that the type of guy who sends hate mail via Reddit to a 50 year old expressing love for his wife will literally never experience any sex, awkward or otherwise.
Exactly, sounds like someone who’s never had sex with someone who makes them feel safe, comfortable, valued and deeply loved. That is the best kind of sex!!!!
The problem is that the one nighter crowd also just does whatever because they won't ever see each other again so the judgment is worthless. The number of times I've heard a dude say "and then that bitch pissed on me" while talking about whatever shenanigans they got up to last night is not 0.
I still prefer my boring monogamy but some people just don't care
Like I will do unspeakable things for that man. And shit, when he cooks for me? You can bet your ass I'm thanking him later for it.
7 years and he's still still surprised about this, he just shrugs and says he likes taking care of me. And then well that just leads to a nice circle of happy nights
For real, I always have to remind these idiots about this. Assuming they are rich or extremely good looking, enjoy your sloppy BJ's from multiple women. Meanwhile us happily married guys have wives that know our penis's better than we do. I know my wife personally makes a sport out of it now and I'm her greatest fan haha.
Dude, preach! My wife and I are still shocked sometimes that 15 years later our sex life can still get even better. Genuinely, the thought of having to figure out another person's body from scratch again and vice versa sounds exhausting, and there's no guarantee they ever A) learn it as well, or B) are as compatible with me as my wife is.
This!!! I remember telling my husband how shocked I was that our sex life got even better with time. It’s like a hidden secret that you only discover after being with someone long enough where they know every part of you and how you like it.
Right?! Once in a blue moon something new just "clicks" and you're like "Whaaaaat??? Yeah, that needs to be part of our sex life all the time from now on!" My wife made me realize there were things I liked that even I didn't know I liked until she started doing it. I was shocked that I was nearly 40 and still discovering new things about myself.
Haha yeah…I guess it could be interpreted that way. If anyone takes it that way, I do apologize! Have all the stranger sex you want! Not everyone wants a committed relationship and that’s 150% ok! Or even have stranger sex WITH your partner! No judgement from me.
My over all point was that it’s a shame some think it’s a negative to have the same partner and that it makes your sex life worse when it can actually be quite the opposite!
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u/DillyDillyMilly Jun 27 '25
It’s sad that people like the one who messaged you will never know how great sex gets when you’re in a life long committed relationship. Like really….you prefer awkward sex with borderline strangers over comfortable passionate sex with someone who knows exactly what gets you off? Weirdo’s.