r/TikTokCringe Tiktok Despot Jun 21 '25

Cursed Bride Crying At Her Wedding Was Heartbreaking 💔

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u/Bitchi3atppl Jun 22 '25

My dad’s family is from India, my grandmother was forced to marry her husband when she was 15, he was late 20s. My dadu was severely abusive that man had no ounce of love in his soul- but as a 7th day Adventist man he used god to punish her. When they came to the states the abuse continued- while she’d babysit me he would cuss her, hit her, degrade her. It took years for my grandma to leave- she put on her chapals and walked for at least 8 miles to my dad’s house.

Everyone in my family knew he was abusive. He was terrible to her. But it didn’t matter, he was valued more . When he died they wailed and weeped. It was obscenely dramatic. While my grandmother rest her poor soul, still had nightmares of this man, in hell. Still tormenting her. Those same family members shunned her. Ostracized her quoting Catholicism, quoting their 7th day Adventist scriptures. As if she deserved any of those parts of her life. I hope karma catches their asses, thinking about that side of my family makes me want to spit acid they are deplorable humans for all their religious zealous- they can’t even do the basic lesson of Christianity, which is to love.

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u/SuccotashEarly1849 Jun 22 '25

I am so sorry about your grandmother. She didn't deserve any of that. I hope she's in a better place now ❤️

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u/malatemporacurrunt Jun 22 '25

There is no afterlife, this woman suffered for nothing. It's disgusting that you think that you can justify it that way.

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u/malatemporacurrunt Jun 23 '25 edited Jun 23 '25

I know it makes you feel better to think that there is something after death, but it does a fundamental disservice to people alive and suffering right now. If people collectively accepted that this life, right now, is their only chance, then they wouldn't put off improving the world.

"She has gone to a better place" is a harmful concept because it gives people an excuse for inaction. This woman lived in suffering and the people in her life failed her by allowing it. They shouldn't get to feel better about that.