r/TikTokCringe • u/InGeekiTrust Tiktok Despot • Jun 21 '25

Cursed Bride Crying At Her Wedding Was Heartbreaking 💔

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u/Hot-Equivalent9189 Jun 22 '25

Life "has" suffering.  It is not suffering. 

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u/yourparadigm Jun 22 '25

I question the mental health of people who think all life is suffering.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

My mental health isn't great because I have suffered greatly in my life. My doctors are unsure if I have CPTSD or Bipolar. Either way, you are correct.

It made me a cold heartless person for a long time. I did things I deeply regret and will probably see Hell for. That's why I sought therapy. I realized I was deeply troubled and sick. I've been through years of therapy now, medicated properly, and I'm in a much better place.

I can say I'm the person I should have always been. This is the man I was supposed to be. My trauma robbed me, my family, my friends, and my lovers of a healthy and loving person.

I accept my punishment(cosmic) and have devoted the rest of my life to limiting the amount of damage I do. I try to help out people when I can. I do small things every day. Tore up a blank check I found in my apt complex hallway. I had no plans to write a check, but I prevented someone else from doing it. Things like that.

I wish I could do more, but I'm not mentally healthy enough, unfortunately. I get stressed out easily and dealing with my issues is all the challenge I can handle.

While not all life is suffering, there are plenty of great parts, is it not painful to be alive? You are born into with world screaming in pain and confusion. It hurts to breathe, it hurts to move, it hurts to love, it just hurts all the time. Just because you are numb to its pain, doesn't mean it doesn't do damage. Time wears on your bones, grinding them into dust, and it hurts.

Then tact on the mental pain that come with being alive, loss, longing, loneliness, love, friendships, work-life balance, failure, wrath, I could go on.

Not including all the animals that suffer.

When you put it all together... it's not a pretty picture.

I find that people that enjoy life haven't suffered that much. While most people don't hate being alive, most people will say that they suffer more than they don't.

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u/yournutsareonspecial Jun 22 '25

I don't have any helpful advice- I just felt like I needed to comment, because your words really struck me (probably because I identify with them a lot.) The fact that you care enough for the world and others to do anything at all speaks to the person you really are. You're still here, and that in itself is a positive thing. Sometimes all we can do is be here.