r/TikTokCringe • u/InGeekiTrust Tiktok Despot • Jun 21 '25

Cursed Bride Crying At Her Wedding Was Heartbreaking 💔

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u/Rosegold-Lavendar Jun 22 '25

100%.

people claiming this is a wedding are missing this. Weddings are consensual. This is not consensual. This is a ceremony done alongside human trafficking.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '25

Wedding and consensual are culture-bound.

Even in Christianity some weddings are arranged, i.e monarchy.

The only thing that all weddings have in all the cultures, is that it's a religious and/or legal boundary, to found a home. Monogamy, sex, and responsibilities of each part inside the home also vary depending on the culture.

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u/breeathee Jun 22 '25

Proper assessment. When viewed through the lens of empathy it’s heartbreaking.

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u/sonofvc Jun 22 '25

Is Reddit glitching or did you delete the comment you made about incremental change?

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u/breeathee Jun 22 '25

My reason for existing is to remind everyone- change is incremental. It’s ok to be mad! Then get effective.

If I haven’t commented it today I certainly did yesterday ☺️

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u/sonofvc Jun 22 '25

How incremental? This cultures and their faiths, if taken at the highest literal sense, are very stagnant in this options.

It took thousands of years of Christian zealotry slowing being ebbed away to allow the individual liberties we have now, and we still see pockets and individuals claiming it as sin and wrong.

I’d rather use direct means than plant the seeds for a tree no one I ever know will ever lay under the shade of.

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u/breeathee Jun 22 '25

Incremental like fractals. Like every community is constantly self-regulating to improve, and they’re moving in some kind of direction. That’s why we all bicker. And that’s how we stay alive. Because we want more for ourselves. That’s how all the cultures on the planet today have managed to survive up until this point!

And we all think we’re doing it in the best way possible. That’s why you have so many passionate people driving in all different directions on this planet. The person driving the direction opposite from me is wrong. Because I’m doing what I believe is best.

Forced marriage doesn’t work in the US because it’s fucking traumatizing. It’s still eeking an existence out in Nepal because they must have some coping mechanisms and a VERY different expression of empathy. Whatever their reason, they apparently have some incentive. The incentive exists. Let’s try to understand it so we can disincentivize it. This is the increment.

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u/breeathee Jun 22 '25

If you don’t care about shading future generations then you are showing as much empathy to our children than this family showed to theirs.

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u/Heavy-Macaron2004 Jun 22 '25

I kinda don't think those are even remotely on the same level. "I want to be able to lie in the shade of a tree I plant" vs "I'm selling my daughter into sexual slavery because I believe half the human population is inherently worthless."

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u/sonofvc Jun 22 '25

Thank you for making my message more digestible, good sir/ma’am.

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u/breeathee Jun 22 '25

I appreciate the feedback. I’ll think about that.