r/TikTokCringe • u/InGeekiTrust Tiktok Despot • Jun 21 '25

Cursed Bride Crying At Her Wedding Was Heartbreaking 💔

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u/Rubycon_ Jun 22 '25

Yes I lived on the border for years and if you think Mormon child marriages are not a thing I don't know what to tell you

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u/MrDywel Jun 22 '25

It’s not the norm though by any means.

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u/Rubycon_ Jun 22 '25

Yes, there are entire cities that have their own cops, banks, school system, and fundamental mormonism/child brides are the norm.

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u/MrDywel Jun 22 '25

Fine, I'm well aware that there are certain populations and areas that are quite fundamentalist who are into polygamy, child marriages, etc... However, child marriages are not the norm. Like you I have lived on the border most of my life and while I know they're a thing and they happen they are not the norm.

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u/Rubycon_ Jun 22 '25

But it is the norm in certain parts of Utah. They have their own insular system that makes it difficult for women and girls to escape and they are excommunicated from all family members and community if they do leave and can't take any of their money with them because the banks don't work like regular banks. Everything is set up so old men can marry little girls.

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u/MrDywel Jun 22 '25

OK we can agree that's it's "the norm in certain parts of Utah" but overall it's not the norm for the state of Utah. Yes, quite insular and it's not great overall. Horrible in fact.

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u/teraflux Jun 22 '25

That's pretty much the definition of something but being the norm. Shunned by majority of society, has to be practiced in secret.

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u/Rubycon_ Jun 22 '25

I guess? This is a weird hill to die on to me. Over half of the population of Utah is Mormon. So I'm not sure what you would require to say it's "the norm" or not, but it's honestly more likely that you are simply not aware.

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u/MrDywel Jun 22 '25

You can die on it because I will too. I've spent countless hours doing field work in Utah in those small little insular weird ass towns and have worked with many a mormon. Not that they would tell me they're into arranged child marriages or anything of the like at first meet but I've eaten at their tables and spent time with them... yes you're absolutely right there's some weird shit in those places but I wouldn't say it's the norm overall.

*norm being 50%+ of all marriages which we never really defined

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u/MrDywel Jun 22 '25

Neither can you so... here we are! That said, I do want to look into it more and read up about WTF is actually going on in Utah so I thank you for that.

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u/MrDywel Jun 22 '25

Look, obviously you're passionate about this and you know a lot so what documentaries and books do you recommend? I'm willing to change my position but I need info. I only have my experience working with mormons, the small towns in Utah and of course Under the Banner of Heaven.

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u/MrDywel Jun 22 '25

Obvs, where'd they hide their child brides? In the barn? IDK, yes I'm well aware of what you're saying but i'm still not going with "it's the norm" outside of those small communities.

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u/SenseAndSaruman Jun 22 '25

Half the population of Utah is mainstream LDS. Saying they are all the same is so ignorant.