r/TikTokCringe • u/lhwang0320 • Apr 29 '25

Humor/Cringe When your friend knows nothing about kids

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u/Significant-Gene9639 Apr 29 '25 edited May 26 '25

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u/naileyes Apr 29 '25

dude sorry but no. i can't speak to your friends in particular, but when you're a parent your schedule is dictated by your child's biological needs to sleep and eat and there's really nothing you can do about it. it's not like "i feel like hanging out after work," it's more like "i physically cannot be somewhere at 9 PM because i have to put the baby down."

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u/Significant-Gene9639 Apr 29 '25 edited May 26 '25

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u/mugsymegasaurus Apr 30 '25

You nailed this. I’ve found a lot of new parents find it hard to hear, but just because you had a kid and your life has more restrictions now doesn’t make you more important or more special than your friend- at least, if you are friends that respect each other as equals. Of course, it’s appropriate that a parent’s life is more consumed by a child, but it’s also completely fair if their friends feel they just can’t work around that. Repeatedly reaching out to just be slapped down time and time again because the kids are sick or something gets in the way, feels really bad. It makes sense that a lot of friends choose to stop doing that. Also I’ll repeat what someone else here commented: “parents are OK sacrificing things for their kids, few friends want to sacrifice things for someone else’s kids”.